This is just my personal opinion, I don't see it as cheating, for I have no desire to marry or date any punter who come for a massage.

I see it as therapeutic, just as you go see any other practitioner. I say just as you go to enjoy golf, squash etc.... those endorphins released to get you on a high, A massage lady can do the same on her plinth with more explosive results.

A massage lady offers you relaxation and satisfaction better than if you would have had to do it yourself.

I mean if your wife can't or does not want to satisfy you, and you feel you need to help yourself without her knowing.....you could just as well come see a massage lady, and your wife or girlfriend would also not know.....!!

Some things are best kept secret, we don't need to share everything with our spouses.

While on the topic, can anyone state to me where is there a law. or something that men can't have more than one woman. Not to marry, just to make one happy, who says it is wrong?

Just to be clear, I am here on the Purple site to keep you happy and satisfied for an hour, so how can that be cheating?

Vivian

On 2018-04-04 15:01:32 Vivian Lee said:
This is just my personal opinion, I don't see it as cheating, for I have no desire to marry or date any punter who come for a massage.

I see it as therapeutic, just as you go see any other practitioner. I say just as you go to enjoy golf, squash etc.... those endorphins released to get you on a high, A massage lady can do the same on her plinth with more explosive results.

A massage lady offers you relaxation and satisfaction better than if you would have had to do it yourself.

I mean if your wife can't or does not want to satisfy you, and you feel you need to help yourself without her knowing.....you could just as well come see a massage lady, and your wife or girlfriend would also not know.....!!

Some things are best kept secret, we don't need to share everything with our spouses.

While on the topic, can anyone state to me where is there a law. or something that men can't have more than one woman. Not to marry, just to make one happy, who says it is wrong?

Just to be clear, I am here on the Purple site to keep you happy and satisfied for an hour, so how can that be cheating?

Vivian

Claps. Exactly Vivian. :)

Coming onto this site and putting your 2 cents worth will also be considered cheating by most wives. Does you wife know that you come onto this purple website? How would she react if she knew?

It's not cheating if I am getting paid lol

Well you can always tell her....darling I'm sorry but I'm seeing a sex therapist.
I feel I have issues to resolve lol ALONE!

This comes down to the understanding between you and your wife.

If you fine with your wife going to an attractive dude for a massage and to end it off to get pleasured with a vibrator or finger.
if your wife knows you going to see a MAssage lady.

My advice to you don't go if you gong to have a concious afterwards

I see a massage as sensual and therapeutic, I go twice a month with my wife's blessing, she knows all about it so I don't see it as cheating, my visits to wg's, that's another story lol

Very interesting question and replies. If you caught your wife sexting, would you see that as cheating and a betrayal of your trust?

Arz

It's not cheating as long as she doesn't find out.

What would offend you more... Catching your wife with another man OR with another woman? Or would it be an equally emotional disappointment?

Arz