Have a break from punting for a month.
When u start again it will feel like the first time.

I still enjoy seeing some regulars, some of them are so good I never get tired of them.
Problem is sometimes some of the regulars move further away or disappear.

....Or try & schedule the visits when you really have to - when you get a real excuse (like GF/MRS on red report/similar) other than just "because you can afford it".

I find the "breaks" tend to keep one interested to look otherwise it becomes way too routine when followed like a course from a GP.

With your budget, get a hobby (like golf or something similarly expensive that can take you out of town regularly) then throw in some random punts while on it. If you cant find any while on your escape well go drink at least you have another good reason why you were out of town.

Sadly I do have other expensive hobbies. But I still manage to fit some fun in a few hours a week.

Taking a break may be the only option but I've been there and done that

In doing the same thing, the same way, you will always get the same results. Change the way you do things.

My advice would be, if you are use to FH, change to MG only, or instead of the lady treating you, change it around "treat" her for the hour.

On 2018-07-10 15:24:19 uwillwantme said:

I wouldn't suggest try animals :)

On a serious note, Start a porn production company........Thats probably the next level high you are looking for.

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#laughing out loud# this has made my day...

Interesting!!! I was contemplating making a long post about my contemplating leaving this punting for a year or 2. My reasoning was lack of desire. In my own way I have started quitting as I think the whole thing has lots its charm. I started realising last year some time that I actually punt (with AMAZING WOMEN) As a matter of course. Its a routine. I have seen it all now. And I have been having so much more fun outside of it.

Based on the time/money you spent on it this year alone It's possible that you have overinduldged. The dopamine your brain releases has decreased with each visit as the reward centers are overworked. "Too much of a good thing". The truth is as males we relish in the work. The chase. I distinctly remember enjoying the excitement of making a visit. From browsing ads, chatting on the phone to my reg about BS like naughty lovers, scrambling to make a withdrawal at an ATM, fantasizing in the car on my way there about all the kinky shit Im gonna do, sitting at a dinner table with friends/colleagues and wearing a knowing smile because "I have a harem of saucy wenches that will do exactly what I need them to for me to get off and none of you will ever know about it because your lives are boring". Everything around this habbit was actually more exciting than the actual sex. I loved the way I felt. So alive. So dialed-in. That this drug was available to me WHENEVER I REQUIRED was even better. But as man thats not what drives me.

Unlike yourself I did not start with MGs I started because I hated the fact that getting women I desired took up so much time, effort and required the right set of circumstances. I am a damn horny bastard and I dont want to be with ONE women who will do one or 2 things really well. I want all 20 of my kinks a phone call away with the added sense of adventure. So it turned out that all 20 kinks are sprread across many women because most women can only attend to one or 2 things at a go. Hence why 1 would be a greek expert but suck at Massages and another would be excellent at massages but doesnt even use the word "anal" in her vocab. I then decided its easier to get my sexual desires satisfied as quickly and as conveniently as possible with as much diverse options as i can get. The result of this is I ended up enjoying it too much and although I did what previous posters have said, leaving it for sometime and coming back again, I now enjoy non pros a whole lot more. Not a relationship. More of a Sex club NSA arrangenent. Theres more risk sure but they dont have drug/substance abuse issues. Also there is nothing with more primal appeal than a lady who wants to please you as much as she wants to be pleased and often as she can. Lets face it for pros you can be the pope to her but you're only As important as the Rands you bring. FACT. Thats what bothers me about it. It feels empty.

Another thing that took me away from visiting WGs is how my life has changed. When life changes so does perspective. I am not the same person who started buying all those years ago at all so my hobbies and habits have changed.

In short.

I can relate. We are in the exact same place wrt to the issue you brought up.

I've been on a "break" with one slip since about May last year. I've become highly disattached and been trying to figure out why.

I can hazard a bit of a guess. When I started punting, it was because there wasn't enough of the kink I wanted in my normal sexual encounters. A part of me also really liked the excitement of meeting with a stranger, no-strings (no-responsibility) sex and the start of an adventure to quench as many of my curiosities as I can.

In my life, normal bonded sexual relations took a back seat (as can happen when sex is a phone call away) and I had my proverbial fill of unadulterated fantasy.

What's happened now is that the aspect of my life that is now unfulfilled has become my new obsession. Ironically, I now miss having sex with women who do it because they are aome level of attracted to me. A GFE experience tries but you always know, deep down, that it isn't real.

That's been my mission. Getting some actual intimacy back in my life. I figure we humans always want what we can't have and so perhaps some fiery interest will return once I have my fill of real intimacy.

Very interesting thread. I think most of us gents enjoy that "unforbidden" fruit. It is also due to not having a sexual relationship with your partner.

I agree with you dickshaft, real intimacy is a definate!

Maybe try and book a badly reviewed girl deliberately.

It will surely put you off punting for a while :)

Good point! I can rekate to EXACTLY what you are experiencing. I too have had probably 30yrs of punting, been there done that, and that and that. But, the best advice I can give, find yourself a "discreet lover". I have been seeing the same lover on the side for around 4 years now, she too is married, and alrhough we have become close it will never ever jepardise our current lives. We meet up maybe 3 - 5 times a month and just let go. No WG could provide that intensity ever, we have lives outside of our affair but at the same time we know one another inside out. I wouldn't change it for anything, it our secret to take to the grave. I occasionally still visit a MG or WG but it just confirms how much better I have it with the same lover. Because we dont live with one another we can let go and do and try things we would NEVER ever do with our spouse.
And that my friend is my advice to increase your excitement back to where it should be :)