@Zack9, you make a valid point. Perhaps you should also specify on the phone what look you'd like to see on the lady? Just a thought...

I've had clients request that I meet them naked at the door, either with make-up or non at all and I happily comply. Some want me dressed in yoga pants or gym gear, no problem!

That said, I ALWAYS wear high heels, make-up and something short and sexy for my clients.
Each to their own, though!

We are here to sell a fantasy and we should look every bit as appetising to the guys at the door than our pics are to their eyes.

It's always goo to say to the lady I saw you in those red boots could you wear them for me. Trust me as a working girl she has more than one set of shoes/underwear and might not be wearing the exact same thing in her shoot.

On 2018-09-01 07:59:16 Meg said:
At this moment I would rather prefer dressing DOWN thank you lol.

Lol thanks for the giggle :)

On 2018-08-31 11:18:26 zack9 said:
I have had a few occasions when getting to my booking that the ladies are dressed in gym cloths and sneakers. With such lovely photo's up on the internet its such a let down when they dressed sloppy and don't look the part.

This no direct attack but just one of my points.

Has anyone has the same experiences.

Oh Yes Ofcourse I have had my fair share,
Albeit initially it was more from the Blue Site, I just couldn't do it each time.
I lost my money.
Gave it to the service provider and said sorry I have to leave, the Worst feeling is getting all horny going to the punt 50km away, seen that disheveled look with jeans & Hi Tec takkies.

Ay No Man, A McDonald's Cashier Is better Dressed.

So anyways I then Discovered the purple World haven't had issues as I visit Gems with ratings.

Until One Day, this lady has high ratings & tried many times to get a booking with her & couldn't.

FINALLY ONE DAY I GET THAT EPIC BOOKING.

And boy oh boy what a let down.
I arrive

Hair is all messed up
Jeans, Flip Flops & A T-string Top With A Cigarrette in hand.
Bear in mind over the phone I specified:
Heels
Thigh High Stockings
G-string
Lace Bra
Anyways I'm pissed as hell coz it's A ESA Add with a high rating.
I said I'm not loosing money today my friend, if my fantasy is not fulfilled no one else's dream gonna come true at my expense.

I ask what bout the dress up she tells me come through and go shower I will dress up while u washing up.
I say ok, before I go to the shower she shows me knee highs & says that's all she has, still pissed and I say ok it's fine.
Go into the shower and it's a FUCKEN CONSTRUCTION SITE!!!

Tiles ripped out, bricks & sand all over. She appologises and says landlord decided to do a bathroom renovation.

I let it slide, as I Come out the shower my heart melts as I see a pic of a toddler On the passage wall.
I'm about to leave the money and bail out of there and she's in front of me with heels, corset Gstring & thigh high stockings & suspenders remember I was expecting knee highs.......lol....

Anyways there's a Hard On Nw & Only One Head Is Thinking.
So I go ahead with the booking, her hair still tied, while she giving me a BJ I ask if she can let her hair down, says no it hasnt been washed for days and will look aweful as she had gel in it.
I'm nw not into it again although her body was freshly showered & clean.
I settle for a BJ, shower, leave extra cash as I see the kids pic again and I'm out of there.

Never punted for a year after that, ironically on the same day a year later I punt with another popular lady that has high ratings.
All is going good until when i arrive I'm outside the gate, she asks me to go down the road to the garage & buy a packet of cigarrettes and 2l coke.

That put me off as I recalled my previous bad punt.
I said ok will be back shortly, as I'm at the garage I think of what better I can do with this stack of cash, call her back and say sorry somethings come up have to cancel.

Haven't punted since as I'm nw into NSA relationships that's going way much better.

I don't Trust Ratings anymore as different stroke for different folk.

Anyways my point is we here for a fantasy and especially if we see something nice that we like on this site together with reviews and specifying dress ups etc. that is what we would like.
I'm no person to call anyone ugly/fat etc.

For me a bubbly personality and well groomed lady with an educated mind for good conversation does it.

Anyone else would like to share their misfortunes?

Tough luck Mo187!

I too have been taken for that ride on so many occasions. I was however a punter on the RED site. Bait & switch, pics from another era, dishevelled venues etc... that's till I discovered ESA.
I only punt for white and indian girls and I've been pleasantly surprised, seldom disappointed. Most of the ladies here are fucking awesome! And the variety is a buffet of epic proportions.

My advice...be clear on your expectations. Take note of the tone when calling. And most importantly... listen to your gut feel.
Plus you won't pay for a meal that's poorly prepared at any restaurant. Apply the same concept and all will be well.

I do not mind paying a higher rate for a lady that looks after herself and when she opens the door she smells nice, has make up on her face and is dressed appropriately. Love a lady that wears high heals.

I cannot say I have really had a misfortune experience as I prefer to stay with a regular lady!

I feel for you gents that have had bad experiences. I have a habit of looking at the background of the photos. Listen to how she converses on the telephone and her pricing.

Normally gives me a guideline. I have frequented Venues, but I prefer a lady that works alone.

Good luck gents!

I will never forget the time a lady opened the door and she was wearing a dirty pair of track suit pants and flip-flops.

Not the greatest way to get started.

Agreed 100%, the lady should dress up in something very sexy with high heels. It goes without saying.

Gents how disappointing!

I take the time to get myself ready. I am priveledged to work on my own. I always dress up. Stockings, lingerie, high heels and I love my perfume.

The ct dude. I agree. Even when walking or calling a company a receptionist is the key, the first person you speak with and who you meet.

Same goes for SP in this industry.

There are many stunning ladies on ESA, please do not let one bad experience put you off.

Have a great weekend!

Lady Sade

I love it when a WG dresses for the occasion. Some ladies like Mynx always dresses up. Love it love it love it

@Mohamed187:
Sorry mate for the experience.
It's happened to me few times: a really bad one in Sandton (german lady - Morningside), then Rustenburg (got robbed) - didn't punt for years after - was too traumatized. Then on maiden bounce back got a nasty reminder in Randburg from a very yummy highly rated esa lady). So now I track an SP for a while here pics, forums (reviews are not always accurate) then give it a shot. A very good personality can make up for it if I turn up & dont get a 5/5 feel from a poor dressup or a not so great place. However If my guy wrenches somewhat - I cancel - I don't think twice.