Posted: 2006-10-31 22:49:18
Why don't all you people give the guy a break? We've all been there - first time with a working girl. Embarrased, tongue tied, dick dies on you.
Forget trying to be macho. Here's some real advice.
Make an appoinment with one of the girls who who has really good feedback (Blue, Robin, Chalene, etc)
Don't pitch up pissed. Dutch courage may seem like a good idea but you're in danger of having "brewers droop" and the girl won't be turned on by you stinking of booze.
Tell the girl it's your first time with an escort. Ask for her help. She'll probably want to help you and make it special for you and give you a fantastic time. Everyone enjoys being the expert in a situation and in this situation, she's the expert and you are the novice - accept it and let it work for you.
Actually this could be a really good approach - I must try it with one of the girls I haven't visited before and see if it works!
But seriously - working girls are people, just like you and me. They have families, problems, cars that don't work, @!#$ with the SARS, financial worries. They have feelings and they respond to honesty, just like the rest of us. (If you can fake honesty, you've got it made!)
Just be yourself. Be nice to the girl you choose. If you try to be macho and treat her like @!#$ - that's what you'll get in return. If you tell her that you chose her as your first WG experience because she seemed so nice, she will almost certainly respond to that and give you a good time.
Good Luck. Tell us how you get on.