On 2021-11-03 11:16:55 Bbw Nadia said:
Samira, It's even worse when you're not white. Lots of white girls have issues with their clients seeing us brown ladies. We know who they are. And it's ladies who are generally held in high esteem, you'll be surprised at the names floating around. I was very surprised by who has issues with whomever a client chooses to see, white or not. It's ladies who are well rated and respected in the trade.
So white ladies just accept your clients see us too, they just don't acknowledge it here. No client is ever solely yours irrespective of what they tell you. A late friend, who operated in Bonaero Park back in the day, and I had the discussion aeon's ago and we had almost all the same regulars in common. We were both older and very busty. Just she was white and 6"2. And these guys told us both they visit us exclusively.
There is no such thing as a client being only yours. Every lady is probably one of a few regular ladies he sees. You would be a fool to believe he sees you alone. I always had a good laugh at guys I knew from venues/houses I worked at who would never book me. (One said 'ek naai nie myt nie). But when I started on my own they came to book me. I wanted to turn some of them down but that would have been foolish. I wanted to say to the anti-myt guy "hoe naai so 'n myt nou vir jou?" But I kept quiet cos I had already won. He came to me regularly and what a gentleman and lover! I had always known him as a drunk at houses I worked at but I got to know the passionate gentleman he really could be when he was sober. I had won!.

I have to agree with you Nadia. A very popular lady here dislikes me because i got a review from her regular client, she even came to work at the same place i was at just to prove a point

On 2021-11-03 11:36:13 Miss Red (aka Louise) said:
If the guy is dumb enough to let himself be controlled or limited by a wg about who he sees or not, I have no simpathy for him.

She ain't gonna fuck you beter just because you only visit her or make her believe you only visit her. That is a myth.

In fact she will probably fuck you beter if she knows you seeing other girls. Because she knows she has to work to keep you coming back.

This is very true. Most businesses thrive on providing excellent service. It always keeps clients coming back

One cap doesn't fit all either. I've had wgs complain about other wgs telling their clients not to see other wgs etc.

Then I've had punters telling me the same wg complaining about that behaviour was exhibiting the same behaviour with them and getting upset when they see other clients or reviewed others.

I guess sometimes, they do it if they think they can control the guy and lock in the income as easy targets I guess.

N4P

On 2021-11-03 09:31:38 Sassy Samira said:
So I've realized that some ladies seem to be putting clients under a bit of pressure on seeing other wg,s That u actually get asked not to mention they've seen u lol ,why does some WG feel the need to mark territory it's not yours to mark ,putting fear in the poor guy lol

This happens when the punter opts in for golden showers. The SP pisses on the punter and marks her territory.

I don't find it bad with independent ladies but if you go to clubs or venues they always seem to claim you as their own property

On 2021-11-03 12:09:48 SuperFuck said:
On 2021-11-03 09:31:38 Sassy Samira said: So I've realized that some ladies seem to be putting clients under a bit of pressure on seeing other wg,s That u actually get asked not to mention they've seen u lol ,why does some WG feel the need to mark territory it's not yours to mark ,putting fear in the poor guy lol

This happens when the punter opts in for golden showers. The SP pisses on the punter and marks her territory.

If I licked it, it's mine..... Applies here

On 2021-11-03 09:31:38 Sassy Samira said:
So I've realized that some ladies seem to be putting clients under a bit of pressure on seeing other wg,s That u actually get asked not to mention they've seen u lol ,why does some WG feel the need to mark territory it's not yours to mark ,putting fear in the poor guy lol

I've lost so many reviews because of jealousy and the punters get threatened or inundated with messages
So they don't review because of the lashback from jealous ladies
Not one punter belongs to any one of us
Not our property

On 2021-11-03 10:24:53 Victoria said:
Some girls think that they own clients... it's insecurity and jealousy at one of its worst forms. I've had it happening to me for years now. Just keep doing what you do babe and keep your head held high... . Xxxx

I consider it bad manners to mention another WG to the one I'm with, unless I relate a funny story, even then don't mention names.

Ladies u shouldn't even bother with jealousy ,I don't even let it get to me since I don't feel like they of any competition to me ,So ladies of colour Rock ,we seem to intimidate lol ,Sharing is caring

On 2021-11-03 12:09:48 SuperFuck said:
On 2021-11-03 09:31:38 Sassy Samira said: So I've realized that some ladies seem to be putting clients under a bit of pressure on seeing other wg,s That u actually get asked not to mention they've seen u lol ,why does some WG feel the need to mark territory it's not yours to mark ,putting fear in the poor guy lol

This happens when the punter opts in for golden showers. The SP pisses on the punter and marks her territory.

Lol