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Re: Regulars becoming lazy over time
Posted: 2022-01-03 15:12:17
Sage and Lady Di are sure spoilers!
..among other things ;)
On 2022-01-03 12:05:26 danwest said:
..., but I still need to meet that unicorn regular who will always treat me as special as the first time.
Sage and Lady Di are sure spoilers!
..among other things ;)
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Re: Regulars becoming lazy over time
Posted: 2022-01-03 15:35:48
Consistency and also variety is key
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Re: Regulars becoming lazy over time
Posted: 2022-01-03 17:56:03
Never had a regular get lazy!
Had some get comfortable - which can be amazing or awful depending on the lady. All were aware of the potential problem and for each comfortable session (great sex but no real effort to make it different), there would be a follow up with real effort or a friend being invited to join or something new or different!
However the responsibility goes both ways and you need to make some effort too - book a hotel or go out for a meal or add another lady!
Then there are those regulars who start taking advantage - and they stop being visited really quickly!
Had some get comfortable - which can be amazing or awful depending on the lady. All were aware of the potential problem and for each comfortable session (great sex but no real effort to make it different), there would be a follow up with real effort or a friend being invited to join or something new or different!
However the responsibility goes both ways and you need to make some effort too - book a hotel or go out for a meal or add another lady!
Then there are those regulars who start taking advantage - and they stop being visited really quickly!
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