Only when you were Ontario. Very long ago.

PS Another tip! Someone just pointed out to me. Listen carefully to when and how she moans and groans, there is a huge difference to a pleasurable and painful sound. With age come a sensual, sexual confidence u dont have in your youth. U either embrace it, or ignore it! Sorri4U if u chose to ignore it, U only cheating yourself!
Mwah Arz

Thanks Arz.

I know I can expect only the best advice from you.

I must admit, there are a few subtle clues I can pick up on. Having the lady clamp my head in place with her thighs so tightly I start ''hearing the ocean''... I take that as a good sign.

Here are some of the ''tricks'' of my ... um... trade?

1) Licking the shaft of the clit more than the head. I will only flick the head with my tongue when I start.

2) Licking the area below the clit and above the vaginal opening, and flicking the clit head on the licking upstroke

3) Tongue-fucking... I can roll my tongue up, so I play with it as far inside her as I can go.

4) Blowing ever so slightly on the clit head. I also use my lips to subtly vary the direction of the shaft of air to roll over the clit.

5) I clamp the clit shaft in my mouth and hum... causing vibrations to go through my lips and onto the clit shaft.

6) When I have gotten a girl close to a clitoral orgasm, I like to leave her groin area and slowly lick, kiss, nuzzle, bite my way up her one thigh, then back down, going closer to her pussy... then I tease my over her clit without actually touching it to go up her other thigh, and then back down. I know I have been successful when, as I go down the second time, she grabs my head and makes sure it goes back to her pussy. ;-)

7) I have certain subtle changes in pace, pressure and direction of my tongue movements (up and down, left and right... and circular, if she seems into it).


Those are just some of my tongue tricks... if she allows fingering, I have a whole 'nother bag of goodies I unleash...

Another lesson.....

The best advice I ever got was from a young man who said 'Pretend u r the man and that u have a cock and then.... Breathe.... and think before u do anything..... If u had a cock HOW and in WHAT way do u think u would want to be, tantilised, teased, aroused and pleasured!!!!

Now reverse the roles and pretend u are the Woman and ask yourself that?

Arz

Punter

U definitely know 'what women want'

One tip though, ask me to keep my panties on, and start by touching me thru them, Its the temptation of knowing u are sooo close but not there that gets me going. the intrigue, intrepidation, the wanting and pure essence of mind over matter, the thought of possibilities that lie ahead mmmmmhmmmmm......

Arz

For fuck's sake PunterS.T... your number 3-7 is my favourate moves. I'm getting worried about this thread, these kinds of secrets from okes should stay secret in my opinion. But those mentioned are just a few tricks in my toolbox of moves.

By all means, let the ladies voice their preferences, likes etc... but I would hate it if another oke steals or try my moves. Ofcourse there are okes who are good, but I'm just saying, its not cool for another oke to know my trade secrets. Its like showing your program's source code to a competitor. Not cool.

My Bad...

I think the best experiences are one that start with us undressing each other. The rubbing of bodies against each other, even while clothed... SOO Erotic. I really hate the girls that get undressed in one corner, expect you to get undressed in the other and want to meet, naked on the bed for the massage/blow/sex.


My all-time favourite sequence of events...

1) While clothed, and not yet in the bedroom, start kissing (in the kitchen, the lounge, wherever)

2) Slowly undress a little in the non-bedroom area you are kissing in... remove things like jackets, jerseys, pants... but no more. Rubbing naughty bits through clothing is essential.

3) Eventually head up and undress fully in the shower. Give each other a full cleaning (It is my considered opinion that a woman's breasts are the dirtiest part of her body, so I take it as my duty to make sure they are THOROUGHLY cleaned before I continue ;-))) ). If she is into greek, make sure that area is clean... if you are into some prostate massage, make sure your area is clean. So too for fingernails.

4) Head to the heated room (well, heated in winter), where a selection of oils and rubs are used to massage some muscles. This massage does not need to be a deep tissue professional massage. It is the start of formal foreplay. It is about skin on skin contact. It is about exploring the nooks and crevices of your partner's body, slowly feeling and touching every inch. Sliding your hands up and down her lines, feeling how her body responds as you go into and out of errogenous zones and how her skin heats up from the attention.

5) Massage should naturally lead into some kind of oral stimulation. Actually, A lot of my massages include oral stimulation.

6) Once sex has started you should ALWAYS be able to go back a step or two... or three. Just because you are at the sex stage it does not mean you have had enough foreplay. I like to lather, rinse, repeat steps 4, 5 and 6 (and hell, sometimes even 3) as much as I can.

7) Once orgasm has been achieve, you tally up the number of orgasm each person has had, and whoever gave the most wins... hahahaha... no seriously. At the end, I like to nuzzle and and get my breath back while in each others arms. Nothing worse than coming and having her jump out of bed and start to clean up, get dressed, straighten room, etc before you have even stopped panting.

Then... I like to wait a few hours, while we watch a movie, make dinner, sit on the couch... then lather, rinse, repeat... again ;-)

Johan

Thats what this thread is about....... No more secrets from punters or girls. Just info to improve our experiences!!!!
Thanx once again to Vee for suggesting it!

Arz

Punter,

I think u shoud be Knighted! Sir Lickalot!! U know more about women than most women will admit about themselves. CT is looking soooooooo good!!!

Mwah Arz