On 2023-12-14 22:44:02 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
One more I would add for the gents; be the clockwatcher. Don't put a lady in an uncomfortable situation of having to tell you that your time is up.
Business is business, and if you've budgeted and agreed an hour, then not a minute less nor a minute more sir. Time is money. I've slipped on this a few times when the conversation is flowing and the vibes are vibing. In which case you either top up the rate or just set an alarm beforehand.
I've had huns getting ticked off with me for rushing out in the middle of a flowing conversation asking me "Am I chasing you out!?". But I'd rather preserve the longevity of a regular thing than be that client that takes advantage and just hangs around forever and ever.
On 2023-12-14 22:44:02 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
One more I would add for the gents; be the clockwatcher. Don't put a lady in an uncomfortable situation of having to tell you that your time is up.
Business is business, and if you've budgeted and agreed an hour, then not a minute less nor a minute more sir. Time is money. I've slipped on this a few times when the conversation is flowing and the vibes are vibing. In which case you either top up the rate or just set an alarm beforehand.
I've had huns getting ticked off with me for rushing out in the middle of a flowing conversation asking me "Am I chasing you out!?". But I'd rather preserve the longevity of a regular thing than be that client that takes advantage and just hangs around forever and ever.
On 2023-12-15 06:01:15 Kooni said:
ARRIVE ON TIME and leave on time
On 2023-12-15 07:59:42 Hazel Arabia said:
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On 2023-12-15 06:01:15 Kooni said:
ARRIVE ON TIME and leave on time
... its just bad etiquette to show up 20mins before a date's meant to start and you're messing with the discretion of it all (even if she happens to be in an apartment block or hotel).
you're putting yourself at risk of bumping into a previous punter or security etc
and at best, you're cutting in on time she'd have otherwise spent freshening up for you, changing out the linen, slipping into something sexier, or just taking a (much needed) moment of silence.
I'd actually say it's more of a faux pas to show up early than to be a couple minutes late. We've got cash to count, toenails to paint and pictures to take and would *certainly* find something to fill a 5-10 min delay with, versus feeling rushed, running around like headless chicken, trying to accomodate *as well as* impress you, who showed up 30 mins early.
Another sidenote: its SO rude to decline a offer to shower, especially when its 5pm and you're in work clothes. I dont care how clean you think you are after a full day in your office, a quick wash, including your hands (preferably your nails would be short, and clean)... paired with some mouthwash will likely get you A LOT further than just hoping you're clean. thank you <33
On 2023-12-15 09:50:37 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
And no, you can't expect time to "stand still" unless you're paying for it to stand still.
On 2023-12-15 12:13:06 J_J said:
H On 2023-12-15 09:50:37 Sir Shadow Hefner said:
And no, you can't expect time to "stand still" unless you're paying for it to stand still.
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You can't pay for time stand to still, my dear Hefner, only a goddess can do that, lol
On hotels I'll pass. I'm particularly bad there, but would never behave like that with a lady. But now that you raise it, any ladies offering membership rewards with preferential late check out privileges, lol