same here johnd...I read many of the threads when I do have time and am of the same opinion. Punters - do not underestimate the wifies if you are married. With tech being the way it is, wifies are no longer just taking care of the kids and the home, they are tech savy - not to memtion if wify works...she will def be exposed to these sites and this world...modern day wify is way different. Punters that are married and want to keep their marriage and play this game should always be cautious at all times - if you cannot handle it get out now. Play safe and YOLO.

Paranoid much, unless you have being stupid and not protected your surfing or not gotten a punter phone or used your real name to sign up (there are such idiots) who gives a shit, we are all anonymous on here.

I am pretty sure any wife who has found out about this through the above mentioned ways would only need 10 minutes to figure out what her husband has being up too, she wouldn't have to go undercover like Veronica Mars to interact with the community to dig up dirt, she would just see her divorce lawyer, stat.

I think what you are noticing though is the gauteng school holidays and a couple of little idiots with time on their hands and no friends...

I believe there are some wife-spies here. Lol

10four is a deep undercover spy wench and hot cougar fighting in the dark pit of the ESA forum to save her marriage and maybe get some money from Rickylicky... Some how I fucking doubt it..

Husband takes the wife to a disco. There’s a guy on the dance floor giving it large – break dancing, moonwalking, back flips, the works. The wife turns to her husband and says: "See that guy? 25 years ago he proposed to me and I turned him down." Husband says: "Looks like he’s still celebrating!!"

In a closed society where everybody is guilty,the only crime is getting caught. In a world of thieves, the only final sin is stupidity.

In a closed society where everybody is guilty,the only crime is getting caught. In a world of thieves, the only final sin is stupidity.

I am sorry, but can't help it....
WAHAHAHAHA......!!!

Needed a bit of humour today.
Thank u!

I cannot stress enough the multiple sets of security you need to install in your smartphone. Not only a significant other , there are far many people looking for juicy tidbits about your life and your smartphone is just a reflection of yourself. With your porn habits , your WhatsApp groups and conversations , the messages , the apps you install , browsing habits , etc , you can get a wealth of information which might or might not be true about you .

Be careful !!!

Good one Arhwen.