Such a touchy subject.

Wg's have been robbed by men who enjoy the service and then leave without payment, usually with a silly excuse like a forgotten wallet from what I read.

Punters have been robbed by paying for a service that was never delivered, usually from a clever con about a bf coming or a plain down terrible labido killing attitude that has you out in 10 min after paying for an hour.

I think the compromise should be 50% upfront and 50% after. The understanding on that should be that the wg is not dupped and working for free. The other part is that the wg still has to work for the other 50%, not complain just lay there and complain enough to make him leave as fast as possible or she wont get it.

Just to add to that, perhapsvthe punter should present/show the full amount upon arrival and pay half upfront and keep half to stop punters trying to get full service at half price.

I've had instances of paying upfront and getting terrible service and it later dawned on me that it was intentional and at the end of the day, the wg got an hours pay for 0-15min without repercussion.

I've noticed though that I've always received good service from wg's that didn't ask for money upfront. I've only been asked for money upfront by 1 of the wg's that I actually returned to and it was only asked the first time where she was at a temp place and had to pay the accommodation immediately, never again. 90% upfront one's where cons of every kind. Strangely enough, Inever enquire on the phone when to pay but using reviews and phone manner quite heavily now, I haven't booked anyone wanting money upfront in a while.

Johnd, i agree with you. The coincidence is worryimg. You never get gfe from such...

On the gfe side, I can say I had a 100% failure rate on the money up front wg's unless their interpretation is 2 x 0.01s pecks on the lips and no touching anything even though there was a detailed explanation and promises on the phone which where completely different.

@Need4Passion... I have to disagree on this one. For the most part my GFE experiences have been more relaxed once the financial aspect is taken care of.

I have 3 rules on this...
1. Money in full on arrival, no exceptions, in an envelope if possible (unsealed). On a first booking I will ask her to count it fully first.
2. Unless she has dropped off her overnight bag in the room she doesn't get to take the money to a "driver" outside. School fee's have been paid.
3. Any money being handed to the driver must be counted fully first, there can be no claims later that you shorted her if the driver gets sticky fingers, hence the envelope she can seal herself.

I have found that once I followed these rules the rest of the night was fine, she had no reason to worry about being "stiffed" by me and she could relax.

Have I had bad punts, yes... can I say it was because I paid first ? absolutely not.

I don't ever ask money up front with a hour booking. I think the reason for that is, THEN IT FEELS LIKE WORK TO ME and ill focus on the money. I like to think that's it was something like a blind date or fun time and we are there to enjoy each other. The money He can count out after the hour is gone and leave that on my dining room table after a warm hug. ;-)

I personally don't have a problem with paying upfront, and will do so when requested by the lady, but have to admit I prefer to pay at the end of the session. Difficult to determine upfront if the lady do deserve more than her rate charged, so paying afterwards just make it easier if you want to slip in a few extra hundred.

Lol, deamonza. You have different experiences and feel more comfortable after paying 1st. Not really a disagreement. Do it.

I pay up front. I wouldn't like the wg to clamp up during our session !

I'm just glad that money isn't even an issue with all the wg's I see don't bother about the money from all these comments. Sounds like some weird stuff happens.

Usually money is an afterthought. We meet, we acclimatise, we encounter. It's just about us enjoying each other. Doesn't feel like a business transaction at all. At the end, the money comes out and gets put on a table quickly soit doesn't feel weird like I just paid for that awesome experience even though I did. I haven't even seen a wg count it once. Most of the time, they don't even touch it while I'm there, at best some just put in their bag as they were were about to leave.

Looks like I've been fortunate without even knowing it. Best get mentally ready for when these issues do occur with mew wg's.

Well said komkommer.
Punters have this forum and can review. Given it doesn't get his money back,though, but be has a recourse of sorts. I have none.
This game is stacked against me, so I have to control what I can.
Now I'm throwing a stone in the bush...are - the ladies who take money afterward working from home, on their own like me? It's stands to reason that they''re less at risk than I am if they''re based at a venue or lodge or a house with compadres or even have a pimp or BF lurking in the shadows in some cases. I'm sure there are exceptions