On 2024-06-03 16:25:02 SleepyJoe94 said:
I have recently relocated to South Africa (previously resided in Dubai and Melbourne and originally from the USA).

What has peeked my curiousity is how women percieve a man in South Africa by his outward material appearance. I would like to understand if it is the same in the Escort world as well.

In Dubai, this was extremely evident accross all levels of society. Not so much in Aus and the USA.

I would like to understand from the Escorts perspective, do you treat a man differently if he arrives in an expensive car wearing designer brands and a luxury watch?

I have definitely experienced this in the non escort world here in South Africa, the younger girls approach you based on your car and watch, and I entertain it should they be attractive but in all honesty, it is a more expensive endeavour than paying a service provider on this site.

Which leads me to yesterday, I am traveling and am in Cape Town. I made a booking to which I drove my hire car. I arrived freshly showered and groomed as always. My attire was a regualr tracksuit with a wind breaker. No watch. No wallet. My work phone(nothing fancy, normal Android). I was met by the lady in question with all the excitement of watching paint dry and this set the mood for the remainder of the appointmemt. This lady is highly rated and charges above average pricing and keep in mind, my mate who reffered me to her, has had amazing experinence with said lady.

When we debriefed last night, he was shocked, we both agree that I am the more physically fit and objectively more attractive gent. Was this due to my attire and car(she saw the keys in my hand on arrival)? He drives his sports car and is generally more formally attired when visiting her.

For clarity, most of the appointments I have had have been in Gauteng and I have arrived in my vehicle dressed appropriately for the office wearing my usual time piece and with my personal phone (all of which would be considered high end).

Would like to hear the thoughts and opinions on this matter.

Thank you
G

Why do you think, wearing an exspensive watch, or driving a sports car makes you deserve any better treatment than someone without a watch, arriving in an Uber ride.

You are acting like an "entitled little spoiled brat", and got the treatment you deserved.

Well done to the SP.

I'm adding my own view as a male onto this topic. I do agree that generally in a country like SA the women especially those in the 21-30 like guys that are flashy in appearance though this does not mean that it's the gospel. Appearance does play a role but in this line of work I say it's more applicable to the women rather than the men as a large number of men just wanna get their load off or just get massaged by a woman and then a few are obviously looking to be dating these men whether they are married or not.

All girls know the most important thing in this business is to be friendly meeting a client by the door. Even if she has to fake it. Doesnt matter how he looks or dresses. Not all guys are handsome or goodlooking and oozing money.
Maybe what u wear and drive works well in a club when u try picking up girls and that can cost u plenty money.

I've often worn my gym gear to a booking as my excuse for escape is the gym/yoga.

Usually it's more high end gear such as Diesel trackies or Lulu Lemon. But never seems to be an issue.

This is a service we are buying just like the dentist and as long as it doesn't appear you are unwashed and have been sleeping rough I don't understand the issue.

I am always neat, clean and hygienic

I have a punting car - little I20 with no tracking devices etc.

Summer is shorts T Shirt and slops

Winter is track suit and jacket

Never had a complaint

Appreciate all the insight and responses. I will take the booking I had as an outlier and proceed as normal.

To those who feel I am spoiled or entitled, take a second to read and understand the thread.

I completely agree with the opinion that we need to be hygenic and well groomed and friendly, hopefully sticking to these basics won't generate a repeat of my previous experience.

On a side note, the young ladies in SA are definitely not shy to approach gents in public, which is something I am enjoying but their intentions are very clear obviously.