No Johndoe, that's the little one usually associated with the normal removal of an appendix. The one in question is a large cut from my pubic area to my belly button.

There's this old chestnut: What other people think if you is none of your business. That guy, or any guys with superficial issues, does not and will not ever contribute anything positive to your life. In my humble opinion, a scar is a memory of the past. If someone is so affected by your scar, it is evident they have more issues (read scars) on their insides causing this reaction.

By the way, I think you look gorgeous! 😉

What a mindless, shallow, fool he was. I think he did you a favour by walking out. Think of it as a blessing it disguise. He saved you the pain of having to put up with his nasty, narcistic personality. I would think of that scar as a kissing target and it would receive lots of TLC. He loses out in the end. Appreciating a lady's natural beauty is very rewarding.

VF f### him... sorry to say. I also have scars, but i hide mine with a tattoo. i know its there...You know i wonder how this gentleman looks? Is he like that with the lady at home to? No wonder he needs to look for paid attention. Men please down downgrade us. We only have nice things to say to you all, why make anyone feel bad about who and what they are? Just remember you'll always stay a dick but we can change our occupations... we dont need people like that.

Sorry that was for the client that made VF feel bad about herself. And no, they dont really say anything wrong or make me feel bad, just this one gentleman(should i call him that)said my toetsies isnt perfect....(my tone)

The guy who walked out on you is an asshole. Simple as that.

The guy in question wasnt anything special. I don't look at anyone with that kind of shallow scrutiny, so I couldnt say much about his imperfections.

It crossed my mind that the guy in question might have been one of the guys that perhaps reads the forum or even contributes, wanting to put me down as a woman and wg as there have been plenty of those in the past that constantly put me down when the forum was unmoderated. Maybe this is a new way of belittling me, or am I paranoid?

Not paranoid..........scarred where we cannot give TLC

Remember, opinions are like a**holes, everyone has one and a**holes have opinions.

Arz (bless you dear) has hit the a**hole on the head.

Imagine how many of as brave, all conquering and perfect Neanderthalians would still be posting if we had to deal with this kind of treatment?

This is why there are regulars - loving every bit of their favourite ladies, van kroontjie tot toontjie.

Can't recall the song by Rodriquez - words were something like this

"......thanks for your time
now you can thank me for mine
and after all is said
...forget it"

Hi guys I decided to pop in for one last goodbye and to some I truly mean it. I wish the ladies and the true gentlemen well but seeing this did give me a sense of relief as now I do not need to put up with superficial and nasty comments any longer. I'm comfortable in my own skin. Flaws and all. Who gets to tell us there is no beauty in us. I love who I am and it is a relief not to be put down by those that don't appreciate me for me.