To all...

Be very very careful what u say next.

This is entrapment.

And to Benjamin's my advise would be...
Make note of this thread and the devil at large.

Make sure your slate is clean and your house in order

The ages mentioned "18 - 21"

My question not answered. Does that make it cringe worthy for you.




And here is the law.

Quoted.


"16 years.


Under South African law, any person under the age of 16 may not consent to any sexual activity, because they are legally minors. Even if the minor has voluntarily agreed to take part in a sexual activity, it is still unlawful and the adult will face statutory rape charges."



RB.

On 2024-11-04 13:10:35 Russian Bridgitte said:
To all...

Be very very careful what u say next.

This is entrapment.

And to Benjamin's my advise would be...
Make note of this thread and the devil at large.

Make sure your slate is clean and your house in order

The ages mentioned "18 - 21"

My question not answered. Does that make it cringe worthy for you.




And here is the law.

Quoted.


"16 years.


Under South African law, any person under the age of 16 may not consent to any sexual activity, because they are legally minors. Even if the minor has voluntarily agreed to take part in a sexual activity, it is still unlawful and the adult will face statutory rape charges."



RB.

Why have you not quoted the Sexual Offences Act, 1957 and Criminal Law (Sexual Offences and Related Matters) Amendment Act, 2007 ? For sex work, the age is 18.

You seem to be the local arbitrator here at ESA or something? Do you appoint that role to yourself? Do you go around spamming everyone's posts?

On 2024-11-04 13:14:31 Nik_Nak said:
On 2024-11-04 13:10:35 Russian Bridgitte said: To all...

Be very very careful what u say next.

This is entrapment.

And to Benjamin's my advise would be...
Make note of this thread and the devil at large.

Make sure your slate is clean and your house in order

The ages mentioned "18 - 21"

My question not answered. Does that make it cringe worthy for you.




And here is the law.

Quoted.


"16 years.


Under South African law, any person under the age of 16 may not consent to any sexual activity, because they are legally minors. Even if the minor has voluntarily agreed to take part in a sexual activity, it is still unlawful and the adult will face statutory rape charges."



RB.

Why have you not quoted the Sexual Offences Act, 1957 and Criminal Law (Sexual Offences and Related Matters) Amendment Act, 2007 ? For sex work, the age is 18.

You seem to be the local arbitrator here at ESA or something? Do you appoint that role to yourself? Do you go around spamming everyone's posts?

Then why pretend to know as little as u do?

As to arbitrator...I like that role....invited or not.




Again.

When did u start punting?

And engaging in ALL the threads that hold value or are worthy of debating will ALWAYS catch my attention.


Ps the anomaly in law...recognition of "sex work" yet illegal.

And if 18 be the age mentioned in the amended act...then explain your concern since YOU made mention of ages 18 -21.

Do you get my drift now?

RB.

On 2024-11-04 13:22:27 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2024-11-04 13:14:31 Nik_Nak said: On 2024-11-04 13:10:35 Russian Bridgitte said: To all...

Be very very careful what u say next.

This is entrapment.

And to Benjamin's my advise would be...
Make note of this thread and the devil at large.

Make sure your slate is clean and your house in order

The ages mentioned "18 - 21"

My question not answered. Does that make it cringe worthy for you.




And here is the law.

Quoted.


"16 years.


Under South African law, any person under the age of 16 may not consent to any sexual activity, because they are legally minors. Even if the minor has voluntarily agreed to take part in a sexual activity, it is still unlawful and the adult will face statutory rape charges."



RB.

Why have you not quoted the Sexual Offences Act, 1957 and Criminal Law (Sexual Offences and Related Matters) Amendment Act, 2007 ? For sex work, the age is 18.

You seem to be the local arbitrator here at ESA or something? Do you appoint that role to yourself? Do you go around spamming everyone's posts?

Then why pretend to know as little as u do?

As to arbitrator...I like that role....invited or not.




Again.

When did u start punting?

And engaging in ALL the threads that hold value or are worthy of debating will ALWAYS catch my attention.


Ps the anomaly in law...recognition of "sex work" yet illegal.

And if 18 be the age mentioned in the amended act...then explain your concern since YOU made mention of ages 18 -21.

Do you get my drift now?

RB.

Yes I get your point, thank you. Again, just want everyone in the industry to be safe. Thanks for sharing your insights.

Much love,
Nik Nak

With NO judgment....

I've heard some ** horror **
Stories, from ladies coming from That place....

Seems to be a wolf in sheeps cloak...

Awaiting ESA's positive response that all advertiser's have been vetted as being at least 21 years old.

Happy waiting.........

On 2024-11-04 13:27:37 Kylie @ Elements said:
With NO judgment....

I've heard some ** horror **
Stories, from ladies coming from That place....

Seems to be a wolf in sheeps cloak...

Absolutely no judgement. The industry should thrive and all service providers should have good opportunities. But surely one is allowed to ask Qs if one is concerned? Thanks for sharing your insights.

Maybe Benjamins can reply here to put all minds at ease. Looking at the benjamins profile the one girl in the middle looks very young but thats maybe because she is petite

Evening all. I hope we can all keep the OP as these comments cod soon go sideways and we start bringing out horror stories. Let me tell you I have been around and can tell you horror stories of most of the establishments around.

Now I visited a lady the other day and haven't reviewed yet but she seemed very mature for her age and looked stunning but to me the age displayed didn't match to look so I asked and she told me she is 4 years older than advertised. That was no issue to me as I really enjoyed our time together.

Point I'm trying to make is we always complain about the ladies age advertised that doesn't match her in person and like the original post we also question how yound they look vs the legal age etc.

I frequent Benjamin's as we all can see and am not shy to say that. I have had my fair share of disappointment with some of the ladies there to an extent where sometimes they do look a bit young not to say under 21. Also because of the maturity level.

Most of the ladies you see in the Benjamin's add have left I believe so this changes that thought too. It's a great establishment and like all venue owners they try their level best. I do believe the ladies there are around 21 to 25 years old roughly. But yes let's have Benjamin's reply and settle this.