I think if you're on the verge of taking your own life NOTHING matters anymore and you don't feel particularly chatty.

On 2019-08-07 07:45:58 Amari Black said:
And before making all these offers do we really know what it means when you say to another person l here...jus wondering...

I agree wholeheartedly. It is indeed noble to offer your support, and a listening ear is often what a depressed person neeeds, but it is a huge responsibility.
One has to be prepared for hours of unburdening, mostly repetitive stuff, and be understanding about it. Not a walk in the park...

Heartbreaking is an understatement. I'm here if the ladies need anything, but money. I'll even arrange 5 sessions of counselling

Here is a valuable resource for depression and anxiety.
You can call there helpline 24/7 if you are feeling like there is no hope.
www.sadag.org/

I can tell you that I totally understand why this happens I am really battling daily to keep myself from falling into depression.

The loneliness and frustration only make thinks worse.

Worst part of it all is when you walk around with this dark cloud over your head, and you can't talk to anyone because either you can't trust them or you believe they think you looking for sympathy, or they'll look at you differently.

It takes a lot of energy to actually understand people when they are down and out, heading towards depression.

On 2019-08-07 09:49:44 Ziske said:
Worst part of it all is when you walk around with this dark cloud over your head, and you can't talk to anyone because either you can't trust them or you believe they think you looking for sympathy, or they'll look at you differently.

It takes a lot of energy to actually understand people when they are down and out, heading towards depression.

I Couldn't have said it better Ziske....

Want to help girls and prevent suicide (loosing hope)?

Stop making bookings and don't pitch.
Stop tying to bargain the girl's price down.
Stop insisting on specials.
Stop making girls feel kak about themselves with comments like "nails!"
Stop spreading rumours about girls.
Stop trying to "take another girl down"
Stop rucking a girl so hard she can't see other clients for days..
Stop being a "Jonathan"
Stop banning girls for shit, taking away their only means of making money.
Start helping a girl WITHOUT expecting to be paid back in kind

THEN listen. But truely listen and be ready to blame yourself if your "listening" didn't work/helped.

What happens after I have spoken to you about my problems,what guarantee do I have that whatever was discussed will remain between the two of us and won't come back to bite me.Cruel world we live in,one offers a listening ear in order to gain info to use against you.

Thanks @Miss Hazel