On 2019-05-21 14:07:36 Runs_with_erection said:
Afternoon everyone,

I find myself in a pickle, I cannot have an orgasm during normal sexual activity anymore. I'm talking about sensual oral or basic sexual positions. Ofcourse I'm enjoying the sensation, but it doesn't get me there.

Lately I've been wondering if I shouldn't expirement with something outside the norm, something more hardcore or more taboo. I don't know what to do. I'm bored to death of the usual stuff. Blue balls is the number one killer in my pants at the moment. Help!

Just book a WG that does something that you have never gotten before ,just call and book without thinking or what to expect...

On 2019-05-21 14:07:36 Runs_with_erection said:
Afternoon everyone,

I find myself in a pickle, I cannot have an orgasm during normal sexual activity anymore. I'm talking about sensual oral or basic sexual positions. Ofcourse I'm enjoying the sensation, but it doesn't get me there.

it might be wise to tone down on porn & self hand stimulation (if you are in it that is). round about the same problem i had more-so if wearing a condom which u can't do without in these streets. i put my mind to take out completely towards the end of last year. still to get there but already reaping the rewards of my efforts already

On 2019-05-21 14:07:36 Runs_with_erection said:
Afternoon everyone,

I find myself in a pickle, I cannot have an orgasm during normal sexual activity anymore. I'm talking about sensual oral or basic sexual positions. Ofcourse I'm enjoying the sensation, but it doesn't get me there.

Lately I've been wondering if I shouldn't expirement with something outside the norm, something more hardcore or more taboo. I don't know what to do. I'm bored to death of the usual stuff. Blue balls is the number one killer in my pants at the moment. Help!

I told you to come back home to Momma K...;/ now look what you have done to yourself....*crying*

If I feel my orgasm is close, I start thinking of porn in the back of my mind. It helps me to prevent an orgasm,,, all those fake OHHH and EEEUWHAAA sounds, it makes me sick! Thinking of porn while having sex guy?

Really, if a lady makes those terrible acting sounds during a booking, my erection is a goner! It totally freaks me out in a creepy way!!

Just find a person whom you like guy, then let nature control you. Don't think too much, thinking is what most do to slow orgasm down.

Have you tried roll playing...?

Or random hook ups with a WG...
Maybe, if you explore yourself, and broaden your way of thinking that would ease the anxiety about this... just asking...

Maybe you need to educate your sexual self there's a lot of fun to be had

Xx

On 2019-05-22 00:24:09 Woepser said:
If I feel my orgasm is close, I start thinking of porn in the back of my mind. It helps me to prevent an orgasm,,, all those fake OHHH and EEEUWHAAA sounds, it makes me sick! Thinking of porn while having sex guy?

Really, if a lady makes those terrible acting sounds during a booking, my erection is a goner!

Yeah 100% nothing worse than fake moans and screams ,but some still convince them self..

Aha! Been there, suffered that, thought I was only a step away from being found bound with something stuffed up my bum in a dark cupboard a week after my sad demise.

Here's what worked for someone who's been there.

I abstained. I know, I know, it sounds harsh if not impossible, but here's the logic.

The thrill had gone so I needed other thrills. Now you have to decide what thrills you. Is it competitive Ironing, the thrill of creating the perfect potjie, jumping out of aeroplanes, strolling the streets at night as some kind of Equalizer?

For me it was angry running, the gun range and building. Took a few months off and got back in to the saddle. Ok maybe not so thrilling but ultimately very satisfying.

Oh, there are times I still wonder about a Nutella covered dwarf in a Nun's habit, wielding whip and significant strapon. And you know what? That's fine. But not all the time.

Explore have an adventure, try something new from time to time but like most things in life, everything in moderation.

Come to my fruitshop, I have all sort of goodies for "outside the norm"

Just don't put them to use in the shop, I don't run a Virgin Active

Update on my last post: a believer has been made out of me. I've visited Haley in Pretoria and all I can say is, I was ejaculating rainbows and unicorns before the day was over. She is a literal dream *cum true.

www.esa.co.za/escorts/viewEscort.php

Nothing made me smile bigger than reading your comment on this...

It was an absolute Jol to explore that side of you... and me...!

Xxx

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