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Posted: 2018-04-29 23:14:12

On 2018-04-29 22:52:54 Arizona said:
Human behaviour? Why do we react and respond the way we do? I am always amazed at how quick we judge without knowing where or how the poster came to that point in their lives?

All of us, whether we are punters seeking attention or looking for a bargain punt. Or a service provider promoting a special for business or trying to just get by one day at a time. We are all seeking one thing! Acceptance and Validation! But it seems like everyone just looks at the negative and feeds off other peoples misery. Don't any of you ever see the joy, possibility of hope?

Anyone remember that movie "City Slicker's"

www.youtube.com/watch

Let the guy have his moment and move on, and you all go focus on Your own one Thing! Maybe this was his!

Arz





This guy likes to make girls uncomfortable. Any girl that doesn't see him is a racist, he doesn't feel girls have a right to their body and choices if he has cash. So... no. I doubt anyone thinks this is a 'let him have his moment'. He posted on a public forum, people are allowed, almost expected, to respond.
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Posted: 2018-04-29 23:16:51

Sounds like you couldn't afford the punting world anyway. Though that being said... Dating is pretty expensive too. I note you learnt nothing from the debates on the forum. Black men didn't support you? Could it be perhaps that it was not a race issue as you insisted and maybe your less than endearing attitude and light wallet as the problem?

Anyway... You don't care ;) right?
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Posted: 2018-04-29 23:30:51

On 2018-04-29 22:52:54 Arizona said:
Human behaviour? Why do we react and respond the way we do? I am always amazed at how quick we judge others without knowing where or how the poster came to that point in their lives?

All of us, whether we are punters seeking attention or looking for a bargain punt. Or a service provider promoting a special for business or trying to just get by one day at a time. We are all seeking one thing! Acceptance and Validation! But it seems like everyone just looks at the negative and feeds off other peoples misery. Don't any of you ever see the joy, possibility of hope and success others could achieve? What happened to motivation instead of this constant criticism?

Anyone remember that movie "City Slicker's"

www.youtube.com/watch

Let the guy have his moment and move on, and you all go focus on Your own one Thing! Maybe this was his!

Arz

Are you saying that we must comply.when this man says 'you racist white guys' implying all white guys are racist. Sorry but if you start making allegations like that back it up, or in my opinion he is an idiot and not worthy of making a sensible argument



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Posted: 2018-04-29 23:37:39
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NO. This was not a racial response. Please tell me where did you see me refer to any racial comment?
On 2018-04-29 22:52:54 Arizona said:
Human behaviour? Why do we react and respond the way we do? I am always amazed at how quick we judge others without knowing where or how the poster came to that point in their lives?

All of us, whether we are punters seeking attention or looking for a bargain punt. Or a service provider promoting a special for business or trying to just get by one day at a time. We are all seeking one thing! Acceptance and Validation! But it seems like everyone just looks at the negative and feeds off other peoples misery. Don't any of you ever see the joy, possibility of hope and success others could achieve? What happened to motivation instead of this constant criticism?

Anyone remember that movie "City Slicker's"

www.youtube.com/watch

Let the guy have his moment and move on, and you all go focus on Your own one Thing! Maybe this was his!

Arz

Are you saying that we must comply.when this man says 'you racist white guys' implying all white guys are racist. Sorry but if you start making allegations like that back it up, or in my opinion he is an idiot and not worthy of making a sensible argument.

Sorry, I did not see that comment from him. What thread was it on?
I was trying to make a point that lately we all seem to judge on the forum. And most comments are negative! What happenend to any positivity?

Arz
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Posted: 2018-04-29 23:41:14

On 2018-04-29 23:37:39 Arizona said:
Human behaviour? Why do we react and respond the way we do? I am always amazed at how quick we judge without knowing where or how the poster came to that point in their lives?

All of us, whether we are punters seeking attention or looking for a bargain punt. Or a service provider promoting a special for business or trying to just get by one day at a time. We are all seeking one thing! Acceptance and Validation! But it seems like everyone just looks at the negative and feeds off other peoples misery. Don't any of you ever see the joy, possibility of hope?

Anyone remember that movie "City Slicker's"

www.youtube.com

NO. This was not a racial response.

I was trying to make a point that lately we all seem to judge on the forum. And most comments are negative! What happenend to any positivity?

Arz



Are you saying that criticism is a bad thing? If people say anything I disagree with, I will respond, which is my right? This gentleman over the months that I have been on this forum goads people into responding, I am pleased that you have his back
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Posted: 2018-04-29 23:52:52

Why are you assuming I have his back? I was talking in general!

Constructive criticism is acceptable!


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Posted: 2018-04-29 23:53:02

[QUOTE;Arizona]

"Sorry, I did not see that comment from him. What thread was it on?"

The same thread you're replying on!
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Posted: 2018-04-29 23:57:09

On 2018-04-29 23:52:52 Arizona said:
Why are you assuming I have his back? I was talking in general!

Constructive criticism is acceptable!




I apologise for asuming! Generalisation in my opinion is an excuse. Constructive criticism is subjective, and to defend his position, is in my opinion, daft
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Posted: 2018-04-30 00:04:04

Or maybe we should just ignore threads like this and move on to something more light hearted......
I would like to see threads like this with no comments moving down the page until it's gone.... never to be seen again... or is it one of those that will constantly be brought back?
I hope not :(
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Posted: 2018-04-30 00:09:05

On 2018-04-30 00:04:04 Galaxy @ Blue Eclipse said:
Or maybe we should just ignore threads like this and move on to something more light hearted......
I would like to see threads like this with no comments moving down the page until it's gone.... never to be seen again... or is it one of those that will constantly be brought back?
I hope not :(



Good evening, unfortunately the world is not full of candy floss and puppies. Life is extremely tough, and issues have to be addressed when challenged. I have never been able to just 'move on', but once it is sorted to my satisfaction , then I 'move on'

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