Hey John_Benz
Here's my 2 cents - I know its long:
1. Take your money where its wanted. If a lady says no, then accept it and move along. Trust me, you'll get much better service from ladies that want to be with you, rather than ladies who don't.
2. How one looks is an important part of creating chemistry between you and the lady concerned (no one is going to learn about your deep intellectual personality in an hour or two). If skin tone influences chemistry, then respect it and move along.
3. Some ladies don't like offering their time to fat guys or stinky guys or drunk guys or ones with small dicks or guys with massive cocks. Accept it and move along. I wish there was a threat for guys with massive cocks that changes lifes who aren't given a chance.
4. We all know, that an hour with you will change her life and you just want that opportunity. It's okay, she likes her life the way it is. Accept it and (yip you guest it) move along!
Hope this helps.
BTW there's many amazing ladies on ESA that offer great service. just phone around.
cheers
Happy punting!
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Re: Race Based Services
Re: Race Based Services
Less than 10 posts
Posted: 2017-05-30 14:38:35
With all due respect, old ESA members need to accept and respect that a new member would not know off his cuff that his question has been posed before or not unless he wards through pages and pages of the various forums.
I actually did/do not have a problem with the lady in question. I just was curious to know if there are other specific reasons (we learn new stuff). I simply had called her after having read great reviews about her. She was not rude on the phone,was actually very friendly. She only picked it towards the very end of the call that I wasn't white hence she then specified her preference which I respect fully. I have no problems with that at all. She is still a marvelous lady. Keep up the good work (of course I cant say who)!
I only brought it up as I have a friend who also bumped into a similar case (he is Arabic) so it rang to me that it seems an issue when the girs are locally based because in his case he has been with plenty SA girls abroad without issues.
On 2017-05-30 15:17:47 Witwolf82 said: @ Ziske.... Me me me! But I am sure that a nap will be the last thing on my mind... Just a pity you are so far...
Believe me it will be worth the drive ;)
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Re: Race Based Services
Re: Race Based Services
Less than 10 posts
Posted: 2017-05-30 15:56:01
Tango
I did not intend to politicise beyond a discussion about my unfortunate booking gone south. Let us leave your case to the experts LOL.
All I did was call up a lady who has a specific preference and got a thumbs down after she found out as we were discussing modalities that I wasn't her preference....
As I am not a local (but have punted in a few countries) it simply felt almost like an "Only-In-SA" experience as I had never personally encountered it before hence my note!
@John... since your a new punter on ESA... if you see a lady with "Right of admission reserved" on her profile... don't bother calling her... it means she only see her own race, that way you'll know in future not to make that call.
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