@Ario...thanks for my letting out with your Q?
This is part of therapy for me. Now to find my weekly fix...

I've pondered that question myself without any answers.
Lol had a gf that was a sex nympho.
We went to Swaziland for a weekend and I must hv come 12 times from sat even till Monday.
What did I do on my return lol told my secretary all about it.
She got turned on and hv me a bj.

I mean I really can't get enough no matter who I'm with.

For me it's like opening a present. The joy, rush and mystery of not knowing what I will get when unwrapping it :D or in short like a candy store full of choices and flavones to indulge in.It's all about me and what I want and my "little man" :D

Yep been trying to give up for 25 years, I can't even give it up for lent!!!

I think Eddie feeds us cyber blue pills and I just keep coming back for my fix

Because I'm addicted
Because I can with whoever I want to where or when ever I want to
Because I can afford to

" I think its animal instinct.Nothing to do with whether we get it at home or not. We see, we conquer, we come. Julius did it and so do we. We are competitive beasts who just have to have more. When that urge begins there is no rationale. We only start thinking with our head after waving goodbye but only till the cycle starts again. Its all in our DNA - not easy to change "

One of the answers awhile back from one of the punters ... maybe nearest to the truth ... I still haven't the correct answer but maybe the midlife crisis has something to do with it for me personally !!!

Maybe we must stop over thinking everything and just enjoy life !!!

HAPPY PUNTING !!!

I am not a ladies man, due in part to my childhood which was overall good. I am shy and introverted, resulting in a lot of teasing whenever I got interest in a girl. Also, when after getting close with someone, having them say "it was all just a joke" does not help.

Sure, when I get to know someone I am awesome, but getting over that first hurdle is difficult sometimes. I cannot "hunt" for pussy, and the places you would normally hunt for pussy are not my scene.

Gave up searching for love and meaning when I was almost 30, so I started punting here on ESA. I have only been with ladies on this site, never someone "normal". I feel comfortable with the ladies here much faster than with "outside" ladies. Probably has to do with the fact that we all know why we are here. They spend some time with me making me feel special, and I provide some "financial aid".

Had to slow down mostly due to some health issues. Will I ever stop? I don't know. Maybe one day I meet "the one" (whenever I was in love or crushing on someone, I could never even get myself to watch porn). Maybe she likes sex and we become swingers. Maybe that never happens and I punt until I die...the last option is most likely and I am totally fine with that! :)

Haven't punted in a year and a bit now. I don't miss the punt, it's this bloody forum that draws you in.

The cycle is usually this:
1. Quit
2. Go on Forum, see a post or comment from a hottie browse her profile
3. I'll just browse a few more profiles
4. Oh my she looks nice
5. Make booking
6. I'm not doing this again
7. Quit

After divorce in my 30's no ways was I going to do the girlfriend thing or the wifey thing again in a hurry, so weekends consisted of booze and party party, which invariably become a pussy party too. Couldn't get enough after a sexless marriage. To me it was therapy in a way after wifey ducked and I kinda lost my manhood to the marriage. Punting made me feel better, then punting becomes empty after 7 years of fuckin around.
Did the girl friend thing for 7 years in my forties and again the sex just fades or isn't on the table. Did the 3F's for some years after that, some call it hunting, but ja those chicks that do put out are ring hunters and I aint doing that shit again. In my 50's now and the desires are a lot less than when I was younger so its easier to manage the urges, thinking back I had a jol, grateful to be alive and healthy. Played by the rules and life is short! No regrets.

Punting is good for guys who get bored of the same sexual interaction with their partners.