saintjj.. fully agree with you. normaly their service will not be good or otherwise they have something up their sleeve for asking for the money upfront.

GFE in my opinion is as it implies , the encounter should simulate you being with your girlfriend , excluding of course the bickering about daily chores , household money. So the encounter should include intimate kissing , touching , no looking at watches , genuine interest in conversation, the encounter should not seem rehearsed or planned it should just happen. Most times true GFE is only experienced once you are at ease with the WG and the WG is at ease with the punter, 'clicking ' with each other enhances the GFE as well. This said there are very few WG's out there that can imitate a true GFE , those that are truly good at it , well lets say the constant positive reviews dont lie.

And no snoring while i am eating u!!!!

lmao porra, Aint it a Biatch!!! Hate it when a guy falls asleep on me while I am blowing him, hee hee

Mwah

Arz

@montaki lol that would be the real GFE, but I guess we want the perfect bliss GFE

To have an unplanned GFE experience is a bit naive ... Let us be real, the lady in question is not in the business because she loves the game. So, I don't mind the fact that it is a practiced and tactical behavior to stand out from the crowd and make the punter come back again.

For me, a GFE experience is about the basic things and actually not totally about the sex. She should treat you with respect, like a treasure. She should put you at ease, laugh at your jokes (no matter how corny), fluff your pillow and massage your feet ... Get my drift. Then follow it up with a patient, thoughtful, considerate to your needs, no rushed sexual experience.

Important to note is what you get what you give. GFE is not licence for a punter to act boorish and make undemanding demands and want the lady to do PSE type acts. If you treat her with disrespect then can you reasonably expect to get a GFE experience. So, I have not experienced true GFE With all ladies .. Caprice was one notable and am sure that there are others out there, and would love to know who else is ou there that gives a truly GFE experience as I have described.

Quinn the GFE I had with you in November in Durban was the best I have ever had. I know I might have been more comfortable with you because I knew you from the massage studio but I never knew nor would have thought you offered the full package. I have thought a lot about what made that experience stand out and I came to this conclusion.

It was a once in a lifetime experience because you have this amazing, almost intimidating presence. Sex appeal just oozes out of every pore.

You take a real interest in my life and my business and if not for the exchange of money I would be falling in love.
I understand that your post here is in research to the website you are contemplating so let me add my share, you would be the queen of the GFE.
The reason, you do it for the pleasure, you certainly don't need the money and as you have said to me before you are a very sexual being and this allows you to live out these desires.
I envy you.........

Lots of luv

Don
Ps see you in Joburg soon on your next inspection trip to the studio!

Shame owner,

never had a girlfriend? Oopsie, you might be a girl....
Anyway, a GFE is like, erm, a girlfriend experience?
No holds barred (but for the condom), and ideally one should not detect any acting. Muff in the shower, bang on the sink, her getting really soggy, her genuine irregular breathing, the list is endless...
That's what I expect, nothing less - especially when considering the pricelevel you've set.

@ Don thanks sweetheart, catch you next time!

@Chmok I totally agree, sleeping in the same bed, all night if required. Taking a bath or shower together and all the oral the lady can stand....lol no holds bared, balls to the wall fun! Thanks for all the positive contributions would love some from the girls themselves?

The fact of the matter is there is no exact GFE definition out there. This can clearly be seen in the different opinions from the different posters on this thread.

I think the best way to look at it is to break it down slowly. GFE ... Girlfriend experience. In essence the experience should be somewhat like you would experience with your current or past girlfriends. Obviously this will differ from person to person as all guys and all girlfriends are different and prefer different things.

Here are some of my opinions together with some generally accepted norms.

Kissing. Im sure there are some bizarre couples out there that dont engage in kissing but for most of us kissing is standard in a relationship and should be standard in a GFE. I would also think that french kissing is more often than not the norm.

Interactive. Now this is pretty relative. Basically the experience should involve both parties actively getting involved and in theory enjoying themselves (ie no dead fish shags). While not always practical i believe that at least the illusion should be given that both parties are enjoying themselves.

Oral sex on the woman. While some men may not want this as part of their service, the option should be given in a GFE. Once again it is only logical that in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship the guy will also pleasure the girl from time to time.

OWO. Now im well aware of the risks etc out there but once again i ask you, how many of you have used protection when either receiving or performing oral sex on a boyfriend or girlfriend? As stated above there are no hard rules in a GFE but it is commonly accepted in most countries that a GFE does include OWO.

Good friendly and engaging conversation. Again this is something many men wont want but it should be on offer if he does. The same way a guy and a girl may chat before/after/during sex in a normal relationship should be available in a GFE.

All forms of foreplay. This includes all forms of touching and caressing and fingering etc. These are all normal in relationship sex and should be normal in a GFE.

As a side note i would like to disagree with the comments made about not asking for the money up front and not counting it. We can use the term GFE but it must remain clear that this girl is not your girlfriend! She is a paid sex worker! I see no problem with asking for the money upfront or with counting it. This just makes business sense. The whole money transaction part has nothing to do with a GFE. Think about it, does your girlfriend only ask for the cash after she fucks you? Does your girlfriend never count the money you give her after paying to fuck her?

I think a girl can leave it up to discretion. If she is nervous about a 1st time client then by all means ask for the cash up front and count it. If a client is a regular and she trusts him then by all means leave the formalities till the end. Either way i dont think that this issue has anything to do with a GFE.