Nothing wrong in asking, but accept and respect the response the answer. It should not be expected of a WG to allow a punter to "put-it" or continue once a condom has broken as both WG and punter are at risk. Stop, replace and continue.

Maybe a good idea for new ladies that do enter the market to work with an experience WG / MG to learn the ropes. Have seen Blue Eclipse Spa was looking for "punters" that would be willing to assist while they train new ladies that have joined them. Well done to them ,that is the way to go.

Dear Fairies

Either you misunderstand Shaz or you are one of those we are actually referring to. By asking if you can put it in I think she means without a condom and that is totally wrong. That is disrespecting a wg. I fully agree with Sharon and Merlot. We may not be able to change the whole industry but we can always make sure we better ourselves.

As in all industries that are ethical service providers and ethical customers as there are scammers and downright dregs of humanity - You may not be able to change the world but you can decide which you want to be

@Sav...I agree fully

@Fairies...I see you're new on Esa? Maybe you should read Shazs' thread properly...She was appealing to the ladies and punters alike to provide excellent service and maintain mutual respect for each other...

Could be a perception thing again. Back then, punters didn't have an option to review. No anonymity to share experiences so they kept everything to themselves when they got scammed or had a lousy experience. So everything would seem rosy since no one could share their experiences. Also punters just took what they got because they didn't know any better.

Now people are more aware. They probably ask because their are other wg's that oblige and they know that now. All you need to do is say no. No hard feelings.

As farcas respect, it goes beyond the industry. A punter should treat a wg like women that she is. A wg should treat a punter like a customer that he is.

Justvto answer the simpler question about guys asking about "putting it in" & you're an MG.

Usually, I select an area and see some real hotties that I want to get it on with. Then I filter out MG and all the hotties disappear. Life is so unfair because those are the ones I want to FH with. That seriously is not disrespectful but should be taken as a compliment. I can't really blame some guys for having the guts to ask. I don't even have the guts to call them becuasr I know I'm going to ask for more than they advertised.

That big said, it's not nice when you call an FH WG and she says FH but when you ask about oral and penetration, then you find out they meant a "FH massage" & they can give you hand relief as a "bonus".

Having moved to Pretoria East, I had the crazy blonde special with Sharon and Melissa.The service from both Sharon and Melissa was excellent and there was respect on both sides.Guys, I recommend you phone about the double. Both give an experience not to be forgotten.

Guys, don't knock the MGs -- they are simply providing a service within their boundaries. Whilst many are Really Good Looking and some Cross Over Depending, I know that they can be a confusing bunch, but I have had really great service from both MGs and WGs alike. Sometimes it is good to set your own expectations before starting out -- this goes a long way to ensure a great time. Complaining about a MG that only does MG work is fairly pointless -- its akin to renting a non-aspirated diesel bakkie and being disappointed in its 0-100km time. But if you want to haul heavy loads cheaply and reliably, then the bakkie is good.

I also somehow doubt that this was what the original poster was getting at regarding service ethic.

Well said guys... but as Sharon said it's a give give situation. Some off us are ur cup of tea others u jus walk on by... been in this industry it's a give take. Respect is earned both ways... I personally have had punters tell me im not Monika due to my complication but hey I'm a mixed race chick. Drop all the crap leave race out.. Come past check what going on and u never know u jus might like its


Guys complain we massage girls charge more than full house girls. But have u ever sat down to think how much effort we put in jus to make u guys comfy. No u think massage is easier than FH if that's what ur looking for don't call us MGs for FH that's not what we do jus saying..

Love MG's, the good sensual ones are better than FH. I still push the envelope and ask if they provide extras and there is usually something available, normally oral to varying limits.

These services are normally discussed after the lady concerned has had a chance to inspected your health and hygiene. Also, if you become a regular and she is more comfortable with you, then more services may become available.