Posted: 2006-10-31 22:49:17
Joe Queen,
dude, you have it all wrong, but I do understand where you coming from.
I doubt that this industry is anything like any other service industry, so your comment about service in SA is not all that fair. As sally said, all clients are different, and the main thing the girl need to do, is to figure out what she thinks her clients wants. Its probably nor that easy, and you must admit its even more difficult for some of these girls to try understand someone from another ethnic group. I dated an Afrikaans white girl for some time when I first came to this land, and she always told me that she could never figure out what I wanted. With her white boyfriends it was much easier, as she sort of knew the culture. I was born the Malaysia, but I went to school in the US for a few years, so I always took myself to be more “Western” in certain ways. I never thought I was any different to anyone, but I was, and we are. Just as White guys are different to Chinese girls, and black people are different to white people. I can take it to the extreme and even say Taiwanese people are different to Mainland people, and the rest of us are different to all of you, but you would probably think I’m just another Cyrildene racist, which I am not.
I like Chinese girls for their service and their willingness to please, but I like western girls for their attitude, they know what they want and don’t want.
Different strokes for different folks I guess.
King Joe