I'm definitely "A" type
Would like to be a "B" but too shy to ask the lady of negotiated affection.
And if I click with the Lady then I become an "I" for the time I'm with her.

Awesome topic Cayla!

Nacho! U got a foot in the dark side I see ...

Ooh Ace - that's my specialty! Looking forward to meeting you xx

A, B and I for me

More like dipping my toes into the dark side. Have lots of porn fantasies I want to explore but when I arrive at a booking I usually just get shy and go with the flow.
Need a lady who'll take charge and initiates the fantasy topic.
Also I'm definitely an "A" as the wife is a every 90 days missionary style lovemaking with lights off only kind of gal. And I'm not criticising, it's just the way she is.

HotStuart75 - Your a well rounded combo!!

Nacho - I completely understand you! Most of us that are adventuring in and around these circle are :)

I really don't understand that! Ladies who go long periods without a little messing around with her man? Its the best feeling in the world! I suspect that even with the lights off in missionary, because of the love between you two, its pretty amazing!! Consider that rite there already is a measure of the expectation and level satisfaction you have when meeting someone new. Give her a chance, the 2nd time is always better and just escalates from there.

As far as finding a lady to take charge and initiate the fantasy topic is tricky! Considering men are visual and have specific ideas in mind. Women tend to focus more on the emotional aspects and rely on connection. The trick is ... start off with lots of eye contact, gentle touches all over her body, kissing, caressing (not crazy octopus styles that wont work)maintain eye contact and be responsive. This will build trust between strangers, entice and ignite the senses. Once she is relaxed, TELL her what you want ... listen when she tells you what she wants ... and you have a pretty good start to moving things to the next level!!

Before you leave tell her what you want on the next visit ... give her time to fantasize about too, I recon by the 3rd visit you will have a Confident opponent who is willing to take charge and initiate the moves.

I hope that's ok? And perhaps sheds a little understanding on how to get more from the ladies and give both a better experience!

Xx

I guess i am a happy C

Sounds magical Cayla...I look forward :x

Good post. I don't often respond.

Hard question, you read A and you think that's the one (but without the wife) and then you move onto B, well, yeah... "I'd like to give that a go". C, D... nah. E, Yup, but nope, a successful business man can make time for what he wants if he really wants too... key word being successful. G, wouldn't you like to know. H... Yup. I, what is the point if she doesn't enjoy it.. I know I don't enjoy it if she doesn't. I may be ignorant, hard to tell.

I would say A, H and I mostly. But also J to Z.