Nope, scam.

ROFL! Stupid question.

On 2025-03-17 15:45:07 Risen4130 said:
What are your guys thoughts on WGs asking to make booking fees upfront before seeing them. "You kindly make your booking payment now so that I can make your reservation then send your booking details with my location."

Every single ad ive inquired... They all say the same thing."Sorry I don't accept cash for bookings."

My instinct sais scam.

Sad part is, there are a lot of scams, but if only you know how many gents are out there who do not have manners or etiquette when it comes to booking a lady. Even when you ask a gent to just be a gentleman and let you know if his plans change. It happens more often than ever...guys book, but then never arrive for the booking, and then just block the lady. So that is why some ladies ask for a booking deposit. If a gent has messed me around once, and try and book me again, I DEMAND my full fee upfront or then rather just wish him a good day and move on. And a lot of us do accept eft payments. Not all ladies on this forum are scammers, and if you are saying all the girls you called asked for a confirmation deposit, then that just shows how many times we also have been let down. If you feel uncomfortable with paying upfront, then my advice is to try and get the ladies to direct message you on the ESA forum, make your request known, but then be the gentleman you are, and honour the appointment.

On 2025-03-17 18:00:34 Beautiful Busty British Kim said:
On 2025-03-17 15:45:07 Risen4130 said: What are your guys thoughts on WGs asking to make booking fees upfront before seeing them. "You kindly make your booking payment now so that I can make your reservation then send your booking details with my location."

Every single ad ive inquired... They all say the same thing."Sorry I don't accept cash for bookings."

My instinct sais scam.

Not a scam at all.

Majority of first time bookings pay a deposit as there are so many SP getting messed around with no shows or they get to the appointment and try barter.

All my regulars ask to pay by machine as they hate drawing or ask if immediate eft would be ok.

Seldom do I get clients paying in cash anymore, and that's okay with me.

Safer for the client not having to stand at an ATM wasting his valuable time.

Complete crap

Sad part is, there are actually some honest ladies on here that won't scam you.

As they say

"Rather be safe than sorry", don't trust anyone in paying a deposit, changes are there for you to lose all

Never lay-buy when buying a lay.

On 2025-03-17 15:45:07 Risen4130 said:
What are your guys thoughts on WGs asking to make booking fees upfront before seeing them. "You kindly make your booking payment now so that I can make your reservation then send your booking details with my location."

Every single ad ive inquired... They all say the same thing."Sorry I don't accept cash for bookings."

My instinct sais scam.

Don't trust a single One . Read the forum for all the scams on deposits

On 2025-03-17 18:16:24 SuckMe2 said:
I have and will never pay a "booking fee" especially to a first time booking. I will pay a deposit if I book a lady for a "all nighter" but then I would only book a all-nighter with a lady that I have met and have booked before.

My thoughts exactly. You are essentially sending money to a stranger on the first booking, that's asking for trouble.

I understand for long bookings that if I don't show up I've potentially deprived her of taking multiple short bookings so she may want to limit the financial risk. But just like all-nighters, you never take a long booking with a new SP. So her risk mitigation comes from the fact that by the time i do a long booking I'm a regular that she knows will take the booking seriously.

An exception could be pre-booked doubles sessions. Calendars and schedules need to be aligned there so that might be a booking you want to "secure".

Advanced payments are a dealbreaker for me. With so many choices, why take the risk?

"Comme ci, comme ca"

If I suspect you ain't for real and a possible time waster...no appointment without a deposit.

But I do not take appointments far ahead of time and those that I do eg. A week ahead or so....pay upfront.

Sometimes even bfr I ask for a deposit I ask for a call if the request is made via any messaging platform.

Toooooo many women posing as punters of late, "ghost " punters , time wasters and thus any means available to SP's like myself SHOULD be embraced when needed, to ensure ones right to earn a keep without being made a donkey of, is respected and safeguarded.

As to the ladies who make donkeys of the punters....gents why not disclose them instead of making sweeping generalized statements?


I have been a "first time" appointment to many and have been paid upfront by 60% of those gents.



RB.