On 2024-04-28 17:54:35 Kaio said:
On 2024-04-28 13:19:08 majorjohn said: On 2024-04-28 12:57:43 Kaio said: There are spaces to discuss these things and they are actively being discussed. ESA is not one of them. This platform is about fantasies and pleasures first not men's health.

Not such a bad platform for that discussion. There is a level of openness and willingness to discuss normally forbidden topics here that you simply will not find else where.

You could go on to forums specifically about men's health? Dunno why anyone would think this is the only space or even the best space to discuss men's health. There's lots of spaces especially on the internet.

Maybe because u so adamant it is not?

Why not?


Informal conversations
Shared without the theoretical or the professional gives a perspective different .

RB.

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On 2024-04-28 19:59:19 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2024-04-28 17:58:15 Kaio said: Spaces with links to actual professional, verified resources and qualified channels to handle men's health issues. This website is about soliciting and discussing escorting services.


Playboy magazine was all about tits and asses and a glimpse of a pussy here and there....


But guess what?


Many an article that made no mention of that months play bunny plus even Ian Fleming- "James Bond " himself featured in one of the most iconic sex magazines as dis many others and topics not relating to tits or ass.

And...


This website is about soliciting and discussing escorting services.

Is it really???

RB.


Addendum...I think the "business model" of esa is a little more than as base as u make it out and THAT is why here we are agreeing and disagreeing.

Thank goodness.

Let me clarify: we're free to talk about physical health topics like erectile dysfunction, STDs, and unsafe sexual practices on the forum, but discussing men's mental health is off-limits? It seems a bit skewed. I might have pissed off some SP's , but honestly, I don't care

This post is actually aimed at promoting safe engagement in sexual encounters and encouraging open discussion rather than staying isolated and indulging in self-pleasure indefinitely.

If self-pleasure is your thing, then that's your call.

Suffering from being broke :(

On 2024-04-28 19:53:09 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2024-04-28 17:54:35 Kaio said: On 2024-04-28 13:19:08 majorjohn said: On 2024-04-28 12:57:43 Kaio said: There are spaces to discuss these things and they are actively being discussed. ESA is not one of them. This platform is about fantasies and pleasures first not men's health.

Not such a bad platform for that discussion. There is a level of openness and willingness to discuss normally forbidden topics here that you simply will not find else where.

You could go on to forums specifically about men's health? Dunno why anyone would think this is the only space or even the best space to discuss men's health. There's lots of spaces especially on the internet.

Maybe because u so adamant it is not?

Why not?


Informal conversations
Shared without the theoretical or the professional gives a perspective different .

RB.

Because 2 of the issues mentioned, porn and in turn masturbation, are a big part of this very forum since ladies sell their content on here. Why would they talk about it like it's a problem? Also, why would they address the loneliness and low self esteem they might be profiting off of?

If you are really struggling with these things seek out groups that are separate from your issues but still understand you and seek professional mental health care if you are still struggling with those things.

A healthy mind = a healthy dick. And healthy dicks are good for this platform and the ladies here.

On 2024-04-28 21:12:31 Kaio said:
...Because 2 of the issues mentioned, porn and in turn masturbation, are a big part of this very forum since ladies sell their content on here. Why would they talk about it like it's a problem?

I agree with Kaio on these two points.
A section of this platform promotes porn and masturbation,which in this context, seems to be normal behaviour by those that purchase the product...not a problem.

On 2024-04-28 11:37:06 petermnbvcxz said:
...Lack of confidence ...Low self esteem

Further to my comment above, I also agree with the OP on the above two "problems", which in my case, turned out to be the reason I found myself on this site.
Discussing on this platform...Why Not?

All of the issues mentioned by the OP had been the topics of forum threads on ESA in the past or had became part of discussions within other threads.

In the past ESA forums use to be all about similar minded people forming a "community" where it was safe to share their experiences, struggles and triumphs no matter the subject.

There are many many people on here from all walks off life and reading how diffrent people deal with life is or how no matter our social stature difference we all face similar issues. Is comforting to know we aint alone.

Esa has only one rule in place that deals with what is allowed and not.(I pasted that rule below)

#The slightest derogatory racial and/or religious remark will result in immediate banning without warning.#

That means any of us are free to post anything we want to to start a discussion as long as we adhere to that rule.. and anyone one is free to be part of that discussion or not to be part of it aslong as we adhere to that rule.

And while we doing that we should always keep the Nr1 rule of ESA in mind when choosing to be part of the forum no matter the topic.
(Rule pasted below for hose that dont know or forgot that there is such a rule placed by ESA)

#The #1 policy of the ESA Forum can be summarised in one word: Respect#

If we treat each other and ourselves with a little bit of respect we will have a lot less drama on our forums.