Bru, how many times do we have to shout no upfront payments to strangers. Sorry bud, hopefully you burnt your fingers hard enough to not do it again

On 2022-12-28 13:44:18 Ms Ella said:
I wish this forum had like button, id have liked every post before mine.

Gosh... I'd love a like button.
Smiley face

First, we just had a 40-something page thread on a guy who paid a regular he'd been seeing for years upfront, and got ghosted and guys are still sending money to wgs they've never met?

Second, bs on "I can't name her because I respect privacy". All you're doing is letting her get away with it and teeing up the next sucker with a saviour complex. Looking for sympathy while not holding her responsibile for her actions is bs. If you're happy to let some other guy fall into the same trap then you don't deserve sympathy for falling into it yourself.

You're not doing anyone favours with your sad tale of woe. Name and shame, or post a review, otherwise this thread means jack.

Wow, I just saw you're a member since 2008 and this is your first post. That is something.

Anyway, this "streat begger" keeps making me think of a meat burger. At least your rent money kept her off the streets. Reminds me of a time a family member borrowed money to pay their utilities, and I found out a month later that they took the whole extended family on holiday to Swaziland. They still haven't paid the money back 10 years later.

JP69

Now every girl in "the Benoni area" is suspect until you name this one.

That's neither fair nor ethical.

But it really sounds like bullshhit.

On 2022-12-28 08:55:19 tuckerrr said:
I was out of country for a long time, being bored I was frequently scanning the Purple sight for some adventure on my return. I finally found a very attractive lady in the Benoni area. Contact her on Whats-app for some online stuff advertised and wow, very steamy......
After few days she asked for data as she is running out, so I send her 2gig if I remember correctly. As the time goes by I did try to arrange a special day for my return, but the replies were not so positive as she is looking for a new place and lots of complaints regarding money, nothing positive regarding our meeting. So I did unfortunately, start sending her some money which will be credited to our big day,to help her out. Big mistake.......
At the end of the day the total came down to 7K. Which includes data, paying for her ESA subscription, medicine, food(even send me pictures of empty fridge) monthly rent etc..........
On my return we agree on a date eventually with some difficulties from my side to find the correct time frame. Try to phone her in the morning to confirm everything..... no answer. I did eventually took the 1hr drive to her place after sending Whats-app message. Messages was received but not opened on her her side, and with the understanding that she might be busy and will reply I took the road to her place. Almost in front of her gate she replied that she had a toothache and was very tired due to a late night, and due to load shedding her phone is dying...... What a turn down aft almost two months of waiting.
This girl is a very negative in person always telling me how bad life is treating her, I should have known from the beginning she is playing me, or so I believe.....
Big lesson learned, but I did decide to let it go, as for I do not know the real circumstances. But thinking back how could a sexy girl like this not making money, I was drooling all over her pictures.... unfortunately I can not reveal the name of this girl as for I do respect privacy. But maybe she will read this thread on the blog and realize what she did.
Unfortunately I did lost my trust overall in the punting game. I did make a costly mistake and learned my lesson well.
I needed to get this story off my heart as for I cannot tell it to anybody else.
So guys I would really like to hear your commends or some of your experiences.......

Name the lady, at least you will help the community and avoid every girl in Benoni being a suspect. Accept you have been played and you are/were to blame for allowing this to happen to you. Once any lady (wg and those outside as well) smells a needy simp they will drain you dry, Pay when you punt only in cash. Rent, medicine, food etc are not your problem. And lastly, learn to appreciate a beautiful lady without being attached, so yes you been chatting for months, how did that help except leading to shitty decisions? Just put her under favourites, when you back, make a booking and move on, 7k down the drain bro, you some rich man

Number 1 never pay a deposit etc for bookings, UNLESS you know for sure the lady is trustworthy and has an awesome reputation. DO YOUR HOMEWORK
Secondly, don't fall for the age old excuses " I don't have food " " I can't pay rent ", just to name a few....

Please take note, alot of the ladies on esa are legit and you can trust when they need to make ends meet and reach out for assistance
Unfortunately there are too many bad apples making life harder for the honest ones
Sorry that you paid school fees
Lesson learnt hopefully

Crazy shit guys do for working girls...

There was emotional investment which made you both vulnerable
She kept you company dude 2 months of conversation...

Cherry on cake : you give out her personal info on a forum
She will read this and her clients will put 2n2 together

If 7k does this to you buyers remorse got hold of you pretty tight

Moral of story :You cant handle rejection

Yes she disappointed you

And now you did an eye for an eye

Read that again

Ps:
Your subject line xplains alot about your character

Best is to move on and jot down that you've paid your school fees for 2022. Let your goal for 2023 be to not pay any school fees, and to visit your eye candies in person and come tell us about your blissful encounters in the review section :)