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On 2022-01-21 15:03:29 YesIamIronMan said:
Some guys feel bad to say why they have decided not to book

No explinations is needed a simple thank you would be appreciated ;)

I am just hoping to get people to engage a bit further;)

If a guy told me I am a bit out his budget, I would say,
please keep a eye on forum or my whatsup status maybe in future there is offer on table that might match the budget. ;)

If he said your work hours makes it impossible for me to visit. I might ask so when would suit you let's see if I can make an exception.

If his concern is my area, I can explain that I am not on the wrong side of the main road lol and that my area is pretty awesome.

By not engaging ,we both might be missing out on having a fabulous time;)

Must admit it's true, when some gents say thanks or sends a thumbs up emoji at least state your reason for not wanting to book. As it isn't my advert because that drew your attention to contact me in the first place. So at least say something, is it price, venue, distance, area etc

Helps to have a better understanding of what made you decide differently. There are some guys that do tell me their reasons but not all. Oh and no, I won't see you as a prick for your honesty

Kisses
Ms Le Roux

What a brilliant topic to raise! Well done Miss Red. And thank you for bringing this issue to front.

I fully agree, good manners costs nothing. And yes, maybe we just don't understand each other's way of thinking.

But let us agree to just at least not forget the please and thank you.

Come down to the one simple thing .. MANNERS ;)

To respond will take a couple of seconds ;)

On 2022-01-21 12:15:25 Miss Red (aka Louise) said:
Topics have been raised a million times before about phone etiquette.

SPs compaining about punters , punters complaining about SPs.

Today I want to ask can you please reply after we sent you the details you asked for via text, pm, whatsup or email.

7 out of 10 times we never get a reply back.

How are we suppose to learn anything, to know to adjust or improve anything if we dont get feedback.

A simple thank you would be great start, but accompanied by ..

*you a bit out of my budget
*your service offered don't match my expectations
*you a bit out of my area
*your work hours won't make it possible for me to visit
*Your venue ain't the kind I like to frequent
*Your venue ain't discreet enough
*Your venue is in a area I don't feel comfortable with
*will contact you when I am in your area
*will make an appointment soon

...any of the above replies will go a long way towards helping all SPs improve and grow, and would be a great improvement on the "radio silence" after we have sent you all the info you asked.

I buy many things online especially of f...b.. market and other places. And I never to fail to send a simple "thanks for the info" text after I got sent the info I asked for. I believe that to be simply good manners.

Another lady ones said she never responds to requests on forum anymore, because she never gets a reply back.

Is it so hard to just say, thanks for showing interest but you not quiet what I was looking for or thanks but you to far away or your fee a bit out my budget.?

Am I expecting too much?

I always send a thanks for the info or I don't like the area etc but I would never say you are out of my price range simply because I feel that could open up an avenue for negotiation and I will never negotiate or try hustle a cheaper price from an SP. She is sharing her body with me. It's her body and she sets the price, I can choose to visit her or someone else.

@tim2sa.. thank you for always remembering the thank you after. I definitely understand and respect your view regarding mentioning pricing.

As MLRoux said that small little thumbs up or thank you makes a big difference.

BOOBS53 & Janine exactly my view.. it is basic manners and it only takes a second.

It's too rare that I have an SP respond positively to such feedback, so I rarely bother anymore. Too much snark and passive-aggression, sometimes outright blocking and cursing out. I think it's on the ladies to seek out feedback, especially if it's a booking that piqued your interest following the initial introductions.

And thank u to the guys who actually do reply... even if its a "thanks, but its too much for me" or a "u replied too late, I found someone else"

On 2022-01-22 10:10:55 modnarmodnar said:
It's too rare that I have an SP respond positively to such feedback, so I rarely bother anymore. Too much snark and passive-aggression, sometimes outright blocking and cursing out. I think it's on the ladies to seek out feedback, especially if it's a booking that piqued your interest following the initial introductions.

Lol Modnar... I get u tho :)