As far as I know, time wasters are guys that have made an appointment and do not show up, and these guys do this on a couple of girls at a time...

Say he says, "cool I like what I hear, I'll see you at 15:00pm...

I put it down as an appointment conformed...

He has already got the address and all the details that are needed...

The next guy that calls and want to see me at the same time I tell him " I've got an appointment at the time he wants to see me"(potential booking)

Then the 1st guy doesn't even call to let me know that he won't be able to make it, now I've lost income because the gentleman was inconsiderate and selfish to even answer my text when I ask if he's gonna make it...

Now we understand that sometimes "meetings take too long" or something urgent comes up and it might not cross your mind to call or text, it happens with SP's too...

But there are guys that enjoy this kind of behaviour...

If it happens for the 1st time I don't throw my toys out of the court, I give it until it's the 3rd time then save your number as "arsehole"

And block your number...

Thank you Climax for explaining what I was too exhausted to explain. This is what I do too. I've never doubled booked someone and if a session is running late I do my best to send an sms/WhatsApp to inform. What the clients don't understand is the impact it has on our business if they don't let us know they won't make it. I too block those who've made more than one appointment in the past and never notify of the need to cancel. The client doesn't lose his money but we lose income...so in the end we end up with the short end of the stick.
Ps. You look absolutely amazing in your new pics!

I am sure the ladies know when a guy is waisting time or really making a valid enquiry about services.

Thats one reason why I prefer to make my initial contact via pm. That way my number stay private and the lady can decide if and when she wants to respond.

Crave - I so seldom look on this forum; but am completely horrified that some girl would call you a W&TW.
WTF: For many years you have been one of the most up front, straight talking, reasonable posters. In my dealings with you in person; you have proved to be polite and personable with no bs going on. I can only surmise that we are dealing with an incredibly insecure, imbecile who should really not be trying survive in a tough industry if she cries foul for the slightest perceived affront.
Really girls grow up this is not nursery school. If a client fails to show up for an appointment, simply save the name, never answer his call again, then wait patiently as I promise you the poor sot will call again and again some of them up to five years later...

I feel for you ladies, with the communication methods that we have it should not be difficult to communicate. Let us all try to do what is right.
I feel bad cancelling a booking but sometimes circumstances force that and ut should be communicated so that we are both on the same page

I feel for you ladies, with the communication methods that we have it should not be difficult to communicate. Let us all try to do what is right.
I feel bad cancelling a booking but sometimes circumstances force that and ut should be communicated so that we are both on the same page

I reckon the ladies have probably got most of the names on their w*nkers and time wasters lists pretty spot on. They have got an innate sense of bullshit detection better than many others. I'm pretty sure I'm on a list or two - when you say you are going to do something then not follow through they tend to cut you off chop-chop. Thankfully I've learnt to either shut the fuck up or stick to my words so it hasn't happened for a while.

[QUOTE;1056096;ClickityClick] I reckon the ladies have probably got most of the names on their w*nkers and time wasters lists pretty spot on. They have got an innate sense of bullshit detection better than many others. I'm pretty sure I'm on a list or two - when you say you are going to do something then not follow through they tend to cut you off chop-chop. Thankfully I've learnt to either shut the fuck up or stick to my words so it hasn't happened for a while



Exactly , ClicketyClick

This business is like no other. After a while you can almost from the 'hello' know who is gonna pitch or not. My gut instinct is spot on.
I have said many times before. There are certain things in this game that has no logical explanation. I just know what I know. And it's probably because I heard it or seen it a thousand times before. A lot in this business cannot be explained. In my vast experience certain behaviors are just typical of wankers or time wasters.....an example.....asking me things that are clarified in my ad..... just under 100% of guys asking such questions do not pitch. An enquirers who doesn't make an app is NOT saved as a wanker on my phone. But phone me every month to enquirers....you will be blocked, Today's phones have a much bigger memory than a 3310. So one only has to click on the number to see how often some guys call.

For me to put your name and number under the w&tw list you need to have made an appointment with me. If you make an appointment, i have given you my address and you dont pitch with no attempt to phone to cancel or reschedule, then you go down under wankers and time wasters; never to get an appointment again.

Unfortunately for the decent guys, there are a lot of assholes out there who book WITH NO INTENT OF PITCHING! There are messed up guys out there who actually want to effect our earnings! Yes, indeed, some guys have intent other than getting their rocks off.

Us girls are in the biz of fucking, not getting fucked around or fucked over. I for one do not double book myself so when an asshole makes an appointment and doesnt pitch, I LOSE out. Yes, we use Truecaller - Helps us out a lot with weeding out the wankers.

Its not very bright or smart for a girl to record a number under w&tw just for making enquiries - You guys have the right to shop around until you find what you want; BUT once you have made an appointment ...

This is a business like ANY other business. In your daily lives you go about your business in a certain way, why guys think that those same principles dont apply to us is ridiculous. And you ALL know how appointments work sweeties if you are in the business/corporate world!!!!

once you have NOT had the decency to cancel or reschedule an appointment, that list is very useful in making sure that particular asshole calling from that particular number never gets the opportunity to mess us, and especially new girls, around again. You certainly wont ever get an appointment with me again, thats for sure.

If you are concerned about that list then that says that you are one of those guys who likes to make appointments and then not pitch.

Most guys think that girls make money every day. not so. Your appointment may just be the only one that particular girl has that day. Your appointment may just be the only money she earns that day to fed herself or her kids (that a man left her with) - Just let that sink in... So when you screw a wg around - you could be doing more damage than you know!

Hi all yep I do get what is being said:
But not all entertainment girls are patient.
And visa versa.

xxx