And if they don't say no, then they can expect a review. Simple.

Otherwise, what's the point of the review system? What separates this site from the others? Do we now only review when it's positive?

On 2018-03-23 18:17:50 unplanned said:
@ Meg
Sorry to ask but how long was the booking?.
15Min and you reached you climax? Well done babe!
Some people stay for hours and there isn't even a scene of pre cum!
Was the extra discuss when you talked over the phone?
Many questions pops up in my head and I know you won't see my point of view

The booking was for one hour and no I did not reach a climax. Extras where not requested and neither where they asked for

There was no connection between us at all

Babe if there was no connection or communication who's at fault?

But yes I have to agree we all work hard for our income and it's just more then fair to want good service for your money.
Even the waiter at the restaurant can move his/her ass better/faster for a tip then the one you described.

Ps: Not every appointment in your life will go the way you play it out in your head...we not made to read minds.
Talk and communication is important.
Good luck babe.
Not everyone of us are just there to take your hard earned money...some do enjoy what we do.
It's ALWAYS about the quality not the quantity of the service.

The only thing you have to remember is that 80% if not more of all first time punts will leave you feeling dissapointed , they dont like you they dont love you and neither do you, you've built some pic in your mind making you feel compelled to have sex with the girl and reality is a slap of cold truth and missery most of the time , its kind of like gambling dont expect anything and after numerous dissapointments maybe youll find one or two you click with on some level.
Then comes the disspointment when the ones you click with dissapear and move on and all that shit and drama starts again.
Never ending hunt for the elusive feeling of whatever your after doubt youre going to find it in the SP and Punter arena!

It is disappointing when this happens. Punters often have to make various plans to arrange a booking - juggling work schedules - 'vanishing' to honour your booking isnt always easy - and then you pay your hard earned cash to receive poor service is sad.

This isnt a cheap 'hobby' - granted it is the one that punters have chosen - but the lady should give off her best as punter has chosen to spend his time and cash on her, from so many others - a compliment in itself.

I feel your disdain Unplanned - some girls may consider us just another client - but it often has taken a lot of planning just to arrange that booking - receiving poor service is indeed most disappointing.

If this incident happened, then surely instead of whinging, name and shame. That way we are made aware and the lady concerned can defend her position

On 2018-03-24 09:02:57 Tegwane said:
If this incident happened, then surely instead of whinging, name and shame. That way we are made aware and the lady concerned can defend her position

I think a pm to the specific lady will be the decent thing to do..... before name and shame.... especially if her previous reviews are good. Like we've mentioned before all of us are human and maybe something happened and she really had a bad day. Would be nice if it can be sorted out between the two parties involved.... just my humble opinion....

But ladies, let's try and also see the gents point of view... if you have a bad day, rather take time out or inform the client. I know this can mean losing money but rather that than lose clients and get bad reviews ;)

Xxx

On 2018-03-23 20:09:35 Tryandtry said:
I have to agree with unplanned. If you dont feel the guy is right then say no. Dont be greedy take the money and lay like a sexdoll. We also work for our money. And to jyst throw it away like that. Better off drinking it on a friday night. I think this is a good definition of the other topic ' differance betwen a prostitute and a escort'

Sorry bud. At least give us a area so we know about it. This is the reason why we use esa. So that ladies know a shit service can cost more in a damaged rep. So the very least try and keep him entertained

Unplanned I am sorry to hear about you experience though I would like to compliment you on not using it to destroy, humiliate or create a bad image of her.

Simply using the experience to request the ladies to also keep your time, desires and effort in mind and rather be honest.

I have once referred and adviced a client to rather make service of someone else as I honestly believed he could not get what desired and I ended up in uncomfortable and deficult situations.

The first time he declined and apologised for ring pushy, the second time after the session we had a more sincere conversation and half of the session we were looking on ESA together, surely he went.

He does not visit me anymore though every now and again he will send me a whatsup informing how it is going and ladies he liked.

Due to my experience with this one client I would also agree that respect goes both ways and gentle honesty could result in a stunning good buy.

If the connection or attraction did not work out and then treated correctly it could result in a polite and different distant tyoevof friendship.

Rather be honest than waste each others time

On 2018-03-24 09:02:57 Tegwane said:
If this incident happened, then surely instead of whinging, name and shame. That way we are made aware and the lady concerned can defend her position

As I stated I will not name the lady

This was not an whinging session just notification that even if a lady has a geed rating it does not mean it will be a good session for you as tastes differ

The objective of this post was to say to the ladies I will accept if you say to me I cannot click with you and allow me to move on and I feel each Lady and Punter has the same right WITHOUT damaging each others reputation and without saying rude or bad things to each other.

Lets respect each other the punter must or should be able to handle the fact that the lady does not find him attractive and move on without bad mouthing the lady. Most men find this hard to do

The ladies need to respect we work hard for our money and understand we expect maximum enjoyment when with them

Please note I am not pointing a finger at anyone person on the forum just generalising

Peace and love to all

On 2018-03-23 21:08:22 Crave said:
And if they don't say no, then they can expect a review. Simple.

Otherwise, what's the point of the review system? What separates this site from the others? Do we now only review when it's positive?

Hi Cave

No we do not only review when it is positive but the circumstances which go with each negative experience needs to be the decision maker whether you are going to post a negative review