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@spacemuffin33 - Re: Advice and discussion
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Posted: 2019-05-13 11:26:40

On 2019-05-13 11:07:17 Massage By Yvonne said:
I think there are certain things that should be between clients and SPs. I'm not saying I condone ladies asking for help but she might be really desperate for help and has no one to turn to but the client she is/was with.
To now come on the forum and blab about her dilemma is just wrong on all levels. What if the lady is active on the forum and she reads this?
There should be a module operandi where certain things are just kept private and off the forum.
Not all laundry has to aired in public.
Give the poor SP a break. There is a little child at stake here!


Have to agree with you Yvonne something's deserve to be treated with respect this is still a Human being chief. If your fingers get burned well we all live and we learn.
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kobusv - Re: Advice and discussion
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Posted: 2019-05-13 14:17:33

Thank you all. Advice taken from the first two responders.

As well is in calling upon my own judgement.
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Posted: 2019-05-13 14:18:49

Run. Fast. Far. Now.
Vrik
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Posted: 2019-05-13 14:39:00

Long long ago there was a MG, who worked at a venue and struggled initially. I now and then gave her some xtra money - note given, not lended.

Then she became hugely popular. And out of the blue refused to see me anymore. No excuse, no communication. Just cut off.

You'd be very naive to in this industry assume there are any decency. It is simply sex for sale.

jotopper
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Posted: 2019-05-13 15:31:28

It is a personal call, combination of what's in your heart and what your head tells you... When I lend or give money out it is because at that time I am able to.. I also never expect to get it back, so either way I am good with my call
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Posted: 2019-05-13 15:37:59
Edited: 2019-05-13 15:47:46

Many great point of views and at the end of the day...its all up to you kobusv...just a 2c.

Oh and great admin work by semensquirter.
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Minime V10.1 - Re: Advice and discussion
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Posted: 2019-05-13 15:44:25

On 2019-05-13 15:31:28 jotopper said:
I also never expect to get it back,



Most important point!
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Posted: 2019-05-14 09:47:34

Limit the advance to no more than the cost of 2 punts and set appointments in advance of handing over the money.
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Posted: 2019-05-14 09:55:31

On 2019-05-13 14:39:00 Vrik said:
Long long ago there was a MG, who worked at a venue and struggled initially. I now and then gave her some xtra money - note given, not lended.

Then she became hugely popular. And out of the blue refused to see me anymore. No excuse, no communication. Just cut off.

You'd be very naive to in this industry assume there are any decency. It is simply sex for sale.



Ya business only , but its hard being a doos and have no remorse what so ever ,help always seem not the best option
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Posted: 2019-05-14 11:16:33

Realistically, you are going to get burned.
Been there done that.
More than once.

Even if the lady in question asks for the loan with the intention of paying you back, it is unlikely to happen. It is hard saying no to someone who really needs your help but that is the situation.

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