Love this topic
When I first started in the industry guys/clients would tell me Sugar please,please leave the business soon coz your vagina will be so loose and worn out in 5 yrs...
Lol
I'm still here..
My pussy is still the same..

I thought every SP's pussy was up for grabs because the site is called ESCORT SOUTH AFRICA so I booked an MG without realising and was I so disappointed.

From that day I vowed to never see another MG.

Agreeing with Nadia.

When I worked at a venue it was considered taboo to enjoy the clients. If you spoke about climaxing with clients you were gossiped about and given a bad name.

Another misconception was also that the clients will come in and you have to say Yes and Amen to every request.

I quickly learned that even being a WG I have the right to boundaries and saying no to certain things. And yes, you do get some assholes that expect you to have no boundaries and self respect just because they are paying for it.

Another thing- not all working girls drink and use drugs. In the years I've been working I only met 3 girls who either turned to alcohol and/or drugs. Which is little compared to what I expected and in ratio.

All SP are forced into the industry by circumstances (substance abuse, teen pregnancy) or the men in their life.

Many ladies choose to become SP because they enjoy the work and interacting with people.

We could make a reality show out of this topic.

That girls only saw one or two clients a day

That all girls kissed.

This evolved to thinking they make R90 to R100k per month.

There were other aspects, not really misconceptions, but wow, I've learnt a lot !

If guys see me out with a lady friend they automatically assume it's someone in the business. Guys think our whole entire being is around this business. Or if they see me out with a man they assume it's a client. WRONG!
I do not hang out with anybody in this trade. I chat with one or 2 ladies occasionally but that's it.

That as a punter you dont need to put in the effort, man I was wrong lol.

I have had many a session where I'm sweating and breathing heavily cause I have f#^#ked like it was my last round ever.

That wgs will never turn down money, trust me not all booty holes are for sale, not all mouths accept cim, not all pussys can be rammed for hours on end you will be told to take your money and leave.

*some will keep ur money lol

Besides the business wgs are still pretty much the girl next door, that appreciate the normal things in life.

I realised i was naive even though i considered myself worldly.

Saw humanity from another angle.

Astounded at the lies and deceit and underhandedness quite prevalent.

Identified immediately the need to possess a keen sense of understanding what this space is all about and not personalise it.


Made peace with the fact that it is taboo, no matter what, and no matter ones education, intelligence, wisdom and reason or careful consideration for choosing such a path, one will be viewed in a different light.

Not everybody is made for this space...as much as one may not be made for other jobs and spaces....and thus many a lost and broken soul to be found.