I'll be honest. I'm not fimilliar with the term findom.

For me its boobjob with a pearl necklace...

Hope i can contribute a bit, I am a young Male that always love the weird and wonderful things that i cant tell people, ( as people always think having a fetish is strange. With out them knowing that every body has a fetish they just don't want to explore) I am for one heavy into BDSM bondage tide up blind folded and a mouth gag, putting your trust 100% into that person for that hour.And then i always want to try something new i like to always push the boundary see how far i can take things it always makes me feel alive it sound strange i know but the more things i try the more alive and happy i feel. I think the hand full on the forum that first go and search under special to see if there is some one new advertising your dream fetish is people that know what they want its people that understand them self.

i am been doing it for the last 6 years and love every second of it don't think there is a fetish a haven't tried and haven't loved.

Hope its on topic

Bambam that's a great contribution because you're writing from your own experience and it's makes your explanation of experiences and hot buttons relative to others whom are not quite sure where or what is driving their desires. So I'm enjoying this new journey and the lady who is helping me is doing a great job. She's opening up my eyes and it's fun. She has a certain control over me in this 2nd world of mine. She is gaining better understanding of what makes me tick (in terms of fetishes)and vice versa...it's mutual. I too see myself venturing into deeper waters. Let's see where things go... I would be keen to read a contribution from Ben Layden and Leila B....

@Nicole perhaps it was a typo and the word should be Femdom? I'm not sure...

Mr Latex it's a awesome world each experience is different and existing happy you got someone that's helping you I also have a mistress on the site that is brilliant and understands me but it gets pricy

I love the wonderful world of kink and fettish...

FinDom is a specific kind of fetish in which a sub derives an erotic thrill from relinquishing control of their finances to a financial domme, which is where the practice derives its name.

www.dailydot.com/lifestyle/findom-kinky-fetish-domination-extortion-blackmail/

jezebel.com/sex-blackmail-and-pay-pigs-a-look-at-findom-s-m-for-1302754177

2 write ups on it... I just don't get it.

I'm with you on that deamonza... that would be interesting to understand what drives that fetish...What's the underlying reasons or rationale that it stems from? Wow it's amazing what seemingly deviates from the norm is actually a mainstream trend fetish now...

Financial Slavery is purely for those that have a fetish to be financially enslaved. You have a strong fetish to be objectified and a strong desire to please. You like to be humiliated and enjoy being degraded, being used as a living wallet who satisfies a superior woman's needs.