I always tri and answer to the best of my ability. Sometimes I get my PM to late, and then I would think the already got hooked up with someone els. Yes I do ask them to sent me a msg because im not always on line, and miss out on a booking. A kind word or voice closes the deal in my opinion.

On 2016-02-01 15:18:05 deamonza said:
Ladies, please, please by all that is holy try to at least respond with some basic courtesy and etiquette when answering PM's.

When a punter, we can use myself as an example, asks about things such as whether you do travels, overnights and other things... the answer is not "yes call me rather".

Yes to what exactly ?

If you are not keen to PM those details then by all means say " Thanks for the interest, however I don't discuss these details via PM, is it possible for you to call or whatsapp or SMS" or even some other variation of it but do not just send "Yes call me rather"...
It is properly bloody aggravating and ensures I damned well won't call at all as I have at least had the decency to send you a properly worded message and you just can't even seem to be bothered to respond in kind...
If there is even a bloody response at all... another pet hate of mine...

Most punters tend to use the PM platform because they are not able to call, for a variety of reasons, such as being out of the country and trying to plan their next vacations evenings in my case...

Please do yourself and your reputation a favor, at least try to seem interested in the punters request after all, they are supposed to be your clients aren't they ?

Properly peeved...

Very well put sir. I fully agree with you.

Oh, no, no, no, gentlemen!

All this whining. :-( I too am one of the guilty one's not getting back to each and every one of you. Be it PM, SMS Whatsapp or Phone Call. The volume is just to great sometimes.

Why don't you step into our world, place that manly big toe into one of our little stilletos, and try and walk a few steps whilst smiling and waving. Easy??

Was it RogueRogue who said in another post, that he will no longer visit a well respected lady in the Centurion area. Because of an SMS. I am one of those that get back to the missed calls, which I missed whilst being sexy in my boudoir with an SMS.

If it is I that is guilty, I apologetically curtsy and turn around whilst showing my sexy bum. What is a girl to do? :-/

But say that you are sorry. ( I feel like James Mcavoy in the movie Wanted, where he says he is sorry.)

HHi,

Not all of us sit behind a computer desk. Viable for some...
Marrianne Fassler says it beautifully, she can't conform to a box!
That said, it makes it rather improbable for some of us to respond to a pm in a way one would be expected to, say, an Email.
To label a wg as indecent or even unbothered, is rather narrow minded.
Not every one has the same technology as you may have.
In the same breath, there are more ways than one ways to use, in order to communicate.
That is, if you really want to get in touch with the girl.
Stop moaning already!

@Claudia & Janine... Moaning ? why is it moaning to expect basic communication etiquette when we are trying to make enquiries.

There are very simple ways of going about this. I know of many girls who have a "stock reply" that they simply copy and paste into their PM's, whatsapps and sms'. They are polite, informative and never come off as being not interested.
Fair enough, there is no reply to a rude message asking how much to fuck but this is not the case.
Those same girls even have a stock rejection note, simply saying that at present they are rather busy and are unable to take on new clients....

This is all I am asking, If I can make the effort to send you a well worded message that is polite and serious then at least try the same in return.

Call it moaning if you will... I call it respect.

Correct deamonza. Sometimes I havent got airtime to answer over 50 smsses and 50+ calls a day when im working .All I could hope for is for them to not give up on me beacause they bisiness is important to me.

I might not always respond immediately or even the same day maybe even a couple of days later (in some cases a punter tried to make a booking and due to not logging in. In which case I would would like to say to punters there is a number o my profile, use it even if I don't answer your call I will get back to you) I do respond with a in-depth pm stating my services and fees 3 out of 5 times do I get a appointment.

Also try and understand where the ladies come from firstly we cannot always respond promptly then there are members such as ....... I dare not mentioned these members names to avoid stoning as they are quite active and are nothing but on the KEYBOARD WANKERS that will ask for rates and services heaven knows how many times and they never book. Infact one in particular always starts topics and thread when recommendations are given he either says something negative about the lady or asks for more recommendations he comments on profiles yet never reviews not even the so called crappy experiences he has never had.

Need I say more in the defense of the ladies that don't respond.

Arwhen, Im going to make life easier for you and name and shame that punter and he is Hansxxx, a wanker of note!
The ESA forum residence questionaire!
Lastyear, I listed all the questions he asked on the forum.

Guys I agree totally and CozyHaven I agree with you about Hansxxx. I have kindly asked Hansxxx never to contact me again as he constantly asks me the same questions regarding what I offer. He made it quite obvious he was waisting my time. Guys please also note that although basic manners and etiquette are important it is also important to realise it takes us much longer to respond on pm'so as we do not always have the time to read them.

Lmao @ CozyHaven well observed ;)