Lol @ Yankee he is single so maybe I will try.

I just don't want me messaging him to back fire and before you know it the news that I message punters for bookings spreads like wild fire. I am aware that punters speak to each other more so than the ladies do at times.

I see your point...maybe tell him this is what you are going to do to help him back on track and so that he realises that you are making a point to him to show him tnat you arent ignoring him and so that he doesnt have to throw immature hissy fits anymore. If he chooses to ignore your efforts then thats his problem.....btw....does he read the forums ? Im guessing he will know exactly who you are referring too if he reads this ?

Unfortunately I can't say if he reads the forum or not.

Yes I may know a few punters on the forums membership names but that is a handful since I don't like to discuss forum politics in time allocated for some sexy spoiling.

Lol the other day a existing client called and when I responded with who may I ask is calling he was taken by surprise when I told him I don't have his number saved especially since he has been with me a few times.

OFF TOPIC

My response to him was I do not save clients numbers at all unless he has my PVT number it's a different story since I need to know if I should answer my calls or not if the kids are around.

He seemed astound that I did not save numbers since alot of WG do. Lol

That's when I explained to him the numbers I have saved on my Phone are wankers No shows Punter warnings, punters I have been with that I would rather not see again. Basically people I would like to ignore.

He understood and looked somewhat pleases and relieved.

Arhwen


Given that you've pointed out to him, on numerous occasions, that he ought to make appointments, to see you, well in advance, I don't believe that you should do anything more.

There is no guarantee that he will mend his ways if you contact him and do as yankee23a suggested.

I think that you should stick to your guns and not break your own rules. You've been very successful up until now. Also, one can never please everyone, all of the time.

I hate to have to say it, but the gentleman is being unreasonable. Popular girls are busy girls and once we know this and we want to visit them, we need to accept that we ought to fit in with their appointment schedule. Furthermore, if he's a regular, he has even less of an excuse for not knowing that booking you well in advance is the order of the day.

Despite his actions, you've still made a valiant attempt to meet him halfway.

I don't see him changing his ways, irrespective of what course of action you choose.


yankee23a

Good sir, I mean you no malice by disagreeing with you.

Stay well.

@ Mr Bond thank you for your response I was just about to throw my hands up in the air in defeat and tell him that I will no longer be taking short notice booking at all (even if I'm not busy) so he should make a plan to find another SP.

If some punters can book a week or so in advance I don't see why he can't.

Yes I understand that his job does not make room for bookings in advance.

In the same token I do agree that he is being unreasonable. Since he is not the only Punter that would like to spend some valuable time in my company.

And trying to make me feel bad or guilty for not seeing him is emotional black mail in my books.

I firmly believe that we are responsible for the way we alowe people to treat us either we can allow it or we can put a end to it.

Mr . Bond you are a genius you assisted me in dealing with this dilemma.

Pssst I is a dilemma soley cause I allowed it to be one.

Next time he contacts me and tries the emotional blackmail stunt.

I'm think i am going to politely decline and say to him. If that's how you feel. I cannot change it despite my attempts to assist you in making a booking in advance. It is best that he try book somebody that can see him at short notice. However I will not allow myself to be bullied into bookings.(not exactly sure of my choice of words especially since one catches more bees with honey)

Sjoe what a nerve, now that I have pressed replay in my mind. Wanting me to cancel bookings of people that have prebooked so that can assist him.

Tot hier en nie veder nie. I need to teach him what is acceptable and what's not.

Thank you Mr Bond for helping me gain perspective with this situation.

Thank you to everyone that has assisted me with advice. Much appreciated.

I'm going to call it a night to contemplate what has been said. Before deciding on my course of action.

No malice taken 007, everyone is entitled to state how best they think the situation could be dealt with. I sympathise with the fact that this gentleman is on a tight schedule and it is difficult to commit to a booking in advance hence my suggestion. Now Mr Bond please remember your duty for Queen and country when punting in dangerous locations good sir- Money Penny aka Arhwen awaits your arrival.

On 2016-04-12 20:42:07 Arhwen said:


I even advised him to book another lady and made a few recommendations. (He's not interested cause I'm the only lady he sees.

Sjoe, I thought I was the only one using that line often. Sometimes I can see in the wg's eyes that they know Im talking kak. I never knew WGs actually do buy this line of "I only book you and no one else".

Arhwen, spot on. You only complicate things when you compromise your rules. If he does not want to Play by your rules, he will have to play elsewhere. Its business, if I have a difficult customer, even if he spends a lot, he must play by my rules or I am better off without his business.

Arhwen, for you and the ladies in this industry it is important to remember that this is work.
If you were a lawyer, a doctor, a psychologist, a beauty therapist, an accountant, whatever - clients need to respect that your work is based on your time. And your time is planned.

If, as a lawyer, someone barges into your office, you call security. If the gentleman (or ungentle man) wishes to spend time with you, he needs to follow the rules and book your time accordingly...

Do not take his nonsense.

Have read bits & bobs only...
I have never, and will never, make an appointment a day in advance - even half a day's too long! I want NOW, and if the phone's not answered or the girl's not available (when she answers, hasn't happened yet) then I'm off to greener pastures - which are always there!
That's not 2c's but several hundreds, live or learn ;-)