On 2017-07-28 07:44:44 Fourphuxaches said:
On 2017-07-28 02:02:58 i like what I se said: Let us see it this way.
All punters must have pictures on their profiles. If men can't accept that - then the same rule applies for ladies.
As much as I want to hide my identity far away, so do the girls.
Men must treat woman equal.



I totally dIsagree with you there bud- for me and many other guys, a pretty face is at least 50% of the reason why a specific companion is chosen.

A face is what I connect with and talk to, the body compliments what the face communicates and especially when I pay, I want the best of both.

Remember, the ladies advertise a product here, so a prospective buyer has all the right to ask for more details about the product.

As for the buyer's identity, do you identify yourself or show your picture to the rest of the customers in every shop every time you buy something? Nope, so why do it here?

I'm very happy not to have a booking with guys that think that because they are paying they can demand or have the right to get this or that...

I don't send pictures and I've lost bookings for this reason and I don't regret it as my life is beyond these purple pages...

And I've also realised that most guys that ask for face pics are the ugliest boys with a low self esteem trying to get on with the prettiest girl cause they can't get her outside these purple pages...

Privacy is important to not only punters, but to the ladies also. Lets us all respect that.

please don't compare this industry with any other industr

On 2017-07-28 07:44:44 Fourphuxaches said:
On 2017-07-28 02:02:58 i like what I se said: Let us see it this way.
All punters must have pictures on their profiles. If men can't accept that - then the same rule applies for ladies.
As much as I want to hide my identity far away, so do the girls.
Men must treat woman equal.



I totally dIsagree with you there bud- for me and many other guys, a pretty face is at least 50% of the reason why a specific companion is chosen.

A face is what I connect with and talk to, the body compliments what the face communicates and especially when I pay, I want the best of both.

Remember, the ladies advertise a product here, so a prospective buyer have all the right to ask for more details about the product.

As for the buyer's identity, do you identify yourself or show your picture to the rest of the customers in every shop every time you buy something? Nope, so why do it here?

As a buyer do you only buy in private places, behind close doors, with secure parking. Do you hide all your transactions from your wife/ partner. Do you only buy at shops where the shop attendances faces are on the companies internet site.

If you do all of the above, then continue to compare the sex industry to other industries. If not accept the rules of the game.

On 2017-07-28 07:59:53 yewrev said:

As a buyer do you only buy in private places, behind close doors, with secure parking. Do you hide all your transactions from your wife/ partner. Do you only buy at shops where the shop attendances faces are on the companies internet site?

If you do all of the above, then continue to compare the sex industry to other industries. If not accept the rules of the game.

When I do buy in private places, like the collector's watch I bought in Harrods in London, I go in privately and request a private viewing of the products to compare features before I decide on my purchase. My partner also had no knowledge of this transaction, but boy do the watch that I bought have a pretty face! ;-)

As for the shop attendants, I don't give a shit what they look like- I am there for the product of my choice, which I pick after close, mostly visual, inspection.

So this is a game, which have rules, and which you mastered in a remarkably short time? Please forward us the manual buddy, I'd like to see the one that says I cannot ask for full product view before I purchase.....


Look, in all fairness, I accept that advertisers have a right to privacy, and therefore I do not think face pics on profiles should be mandatory. I do support a feature where this is possible though, even if it is only on special request and with the SP permission. Maybe lets say to check if the client is serious, a 10% deposit on the booking fee secures the photo? Just a creative suggestion, use it, don't use it....

On 2017-07-28 07:53:17 Climax said:
On 2017-07-28 07:44:44

As for the buyer's identity, do you identify yourself or show your picture to the rest of the customers in every shop every time you buy something? Nope, so why do it here?

I'm very happy not to have a booking with guys that think that because they are paying they can demand or have the right to get this or that...

I don't send pictures and I've lost bookings for this reason and I don't regret it as my life is beyond these purple pages...

And I've also realised that most guys that ask for face pics are the ugliest boys with a low self esteem trying to get on with the prettiest girl cause they can't get her outside these purple pages...

[QUOTE;785219;Climax] On 2017-07-28
When I had whatsapp on my work phone I checked the pro pics of guys requesting face pics.

Niks lekker nie. Funny how I am good enough for really good looking guys....I have posted this many times. A really handsome guy will arrive and I am so sure he's gonna say 'thanks, but no thanks'. But he stays and makes love to me as if I am the most beautiful woman on the earth..... And to crown it all, he comes back month after month.
Then you get the guy in the grease-stained PT shorts with the boep peeping out from his too small t-shirt, all red in the face and sweaty, reeking of beer and cigarettes and he checks you up and down and God hears your prayers and he says no, I'm not what he's looking for... I do my holy ghost can-can.
Yeerev is quite right. This industry cannof be compared to any other.

Just to be clear, I posted the link because it is funny. Of course service providers have a right not to show their face. If nothing else, I imagine doing so exposes them to both social and personal risk.

If a punting career is started by buying a burner fone & sim card why would you want your face shown! Might as well make the bookings with the Mrs sitting right next to you......start and end purple....

4phuxaches

As a gold member you are already able to see the face of more ladies than a none GM so the facility us there for the ladies to use it. No need to change anything.

There is one rule and that is Respect the ladies at all time. Think you know it already. Not sure you always stick to it, when I look at some of your recent comments on profiles.

Ps the collectors Watch from Harrods you bought are never worn in public, never shown to any one, and apart from mentioning on Esa no one else knew about it till now or am I wrong in my assumption. If not, does your partner know about the watch.

If so do you tell your partner about your punts a week, a month or a year later. No you don't. I doubt.

Yew, you are argueing like an ass. Why do you keep bringing up "telling or showing your partner"? Who sad anything about that? None of this is about being in public, it is about members being curious about the ladies' looks ....

And about me being disrespectful on profiles? Obviously you are refering to my comment on one of the places where you are a frequent commenter, declaring your love and support and everything short of alimony every two minutes. Which makes me wonder.... You have personal relations or other vested interests there? I clearly stated that I liked the ladies in question as much as anybody else, but I felt the particular photos did not do them justice. My personal opinion and anybody has the right to differ as it is based on personal taste. See, that is not disrespectful, that is called being honest. Unlike some other people, I am not brown nosing hoping for freebies.

I might not shop at Harrods, but I have always paid for all the session I have ever had with any SP.

I have never accepted any discount nor free sessions offer to me from any SP. that Mr 4phuxaches is not my style.

I promote people I enjoy spending time with and will continue to do so. I don't do it to score browny points.

I prefer not to use the "skapie skapie, blerrie bok" tactics like you. Those ladies and the photographer felt comfortable enough to publish the photos on their profile. It is fine to say you don't like something, but to go as far as to tell them to rather remove it, that I find disrespectful to them and the photoghrapher.I maybe wrong but are made to believe that she is seen as the top photograhper on ESA.

I can honestly fully agree and understand that my comment there may upset the photographer, as I am also very sensitive to criticism on my photography even though it is a hobby and not a career for me. But lets then hope that my positive suggestion of softer light is then seen as positive criticism as it was meant as just that.

But we are digressing, topic is faces. So let's stop the feaces and focus on faces, we like pretty faces ;-)