This cannot be easy. First thing. The WG has to stop and leave the industry. Then the word MONEY will come up. Find a normal job, easier said than done..Punter must stop punting. Easier said than done..all the girls here are in the industry for a long time, One year and longer. Will they leave. No. They need to make a living. So its a No.

Yes it does happen.

But reality is totally different then the fantasy or the short times you spend during a booking with them.

You only meet them when they on a high and need something from you.

You thinking too yourself wow how can this guy punt???
Why isn't there someone who can appreciate him.
He is so different then all the others.

Truth is...it takes time, trust, communication,adjustments from both parties to make a relationship work.
Not only for us on this purple site but in real life too.

Yes i have been in a relationship with a punter many winters ago.,,
I did give everything up to be with him.,,,
But he still punt and It broke my heart.

It can only work when both parties contribute to the relationship.

My thoughts, and please note : It is MY thoughts.


It is highly unlikely.

They are constantly on the phone making the next booking.

Because leaving doesn't happen overnight. When do they actually stop working ? And do they actually stop ?

They are their own business managers, making their own money. How will that be replaced ? Not by a meagre salary ?

Trust issues.

Selfishness as a preservation tool. Their world revolves around themselves. Nails and hair and weed and party and kak clients the usual ultimately boring dinner conversation.

The list is endless

Statistically the chances of meeting a life partner here are miniscule.

And just remember that even in the "real life", our divorce ratio is 56 %.

Scary

I think that South Africans are not good marriage / relationship material.

And the fucknuts prowling these purple shores ? I have met a few and of those only one or two will make it to my invite list for a braai. And I also don't like myself, so I am in the same boat.

The allure of dating a chick who you know fucks, that is more what it is.


We fall in love here so easily, because we are so fucking gullible. Fall in love here at your own peril, your heart will be broken, until you learn to distance yourself from the bullshit and accept this for what it is.

This might sound bad, but we are here looking for dumping sites for our semen. Think about that for a minute. We pay to dump semen. You can wank, but is it not so much nicer to be wanked ?

Don't confuse the dumping of semen with love.

I think there is definitely a possibility that love can be found between a sp and client ... we are humans after all with feelings but to make it work will be extremely difficult .. especially if they are not very open minded.

Honestly, I'm to scared to fall in love again. I don't think I'm girlfriend or wife material... I'll just dump your semen.... (smiles) :)))

Love is difficult enough ............... the level of difficulty in such a scenario go's past "P@*% Moeilik" and thats me" Loco" out of here its been lekker !!!

@ pieterd, this number is for you my bru:

m.youtube.com/watch

It's possible to find love with a punter.
We all have feelings.
Some are lonely.
Sometimes you simply connect with a punter.
It doesn't happen often, but when it does it's like shooting stars and so much more.
I will always be a die hard romantic.
Even though I've shut the door on love many times.
Only to reopen it again.
It takes a very special kind of gentleman, to accept a wg as she is and to love her completely, without the judgement and all!!!
This is only my opinion.
Xoxo
Sugar Xtreme XXX

What are you people all on about? Yes it is definately possible. Why not? We are overthinking this and making it more difficult than it is.

(Ok...just checking to see if you are all concentrateting. This type of thing is difficult. But you can do anything you really want to)

Honestly speaking for both the ladies and they guys you don't find Diamonds in brothel. (I'm not speaking of who you are as people on the inside because I've met some really amazing people here)

Think about it. Ladies are here to feed their wallets thier cupboards and their ego. The guys are here to explode their load.

Girls get needy they lack self love they latch on or they wishing that the guy will take her out of the business. Without realising this it destroys her business in one way or another because they now nolonger pup 100% in to the treatment they now more worried about keeping the man happy or she stops offering treatments she once offered to keep her man happy lol which was never hers to begin with in the first place. (We ate all our own people)

Guys looking for a free shagg fund these girls easy pray they latch on Other guys are married looking to escape they latch on lol The free fuck guys will be around till you need them or the going gets tough lol then they get going. The married ones will remain married because of their obligations to their families or because they still love their wives in their own crazy kind of way or they simply to scared that they will be taken to the cleaner's.

Moral of the story don't mix business with pleasure ;)