@skyblue100 - I think there is nothing wrong wth you raising the subject as there are times when all of us are human and have to share what is going on within our lives and often this can happen in situations such as a booking. Even more chance of that happening when you have a long history with the person in an environment where emotions can be high and attachments of varying strengths abound; a person who may see you as a safe place to unload her troubles. For this alone you should have considered yourself fortunate that you were chosen to receive her very personal news.

The issue I have however is the lack of compassion you are displaying with this lady's condition at a time when she obviously needed assistance. Instead you chose to see this as a mood-killer and your thoughts were primarily on an inability to perform. In my mind you should maybe take a brief moment to think about what you will do should you be in such a situation again.

I once had a session with a WG who I had established a rapport with over a fair amount of time. At one stage she was going to town with a BJ of note, she sat up, apologised and proceeded to tell me her Mom had passed away earlier that morning. I can't recall being fucked off cos I couldn't blow my load - the only thing I did was, grab her, hold her and gave her time to let it all out. And I was happy that I could be there to assist and how blessed I was that a fellow human being could have such trust to let her mask drop.

Some of the more machiavellian visitors to this forum will think I'm a sucker but hey I'm not here to fuck any of them. I'm also not posting here to get some awwws from the ladies. I'm just saying that we do need to start treating each other with respect and sometimes display empathy with each other- we are all human after all and often need just a requited connection.

Back to the OP skyblue100 - I hope that you are able to get over your mental thing and revisit with your ladyfriend. Two years is a long time to forget about.

Hysterectomies are normally dine for health reason, sterilization for prevention.

The pms cycle does not stop, although the periodes does.

Absolutely no changes to a woman's ability to please her partner when she had either. As some one has mentioned, could even make them more bold in bed as they do not have the fear of falling pregnant.

Guys that have an issue with either of these, are in desperate need to grew-up and become men. Only kids behave this way.

Skyblue could not be to close to the lady, I do know that it takes at least 6 to 8 weeks for the lady to recover after the operation.

So he definity did not see her weekly, or even attempt to do it, as he would have been told that she was not availible.

From previous postings, my opinion of him is that he is just a little spoilt brat, battling to piss foam.

As a survivor of both breast and cervical cancer I find your post to be highly offensive and totally unbecoming of the gentleman I thought you were. It is shallow and shows your lack of empathy.

You have no idea of the trauma that a women suffers when having to go through this. Its not just the physical trauma but emotional and mental trauma. As a women we are blessed to be able to give life and when having a hysterectomy that is taken away from you. She may have just needed comforting but your insensitive and selfish attitude was to think about your limp dick not being able to get hard. How fucking selfish and self centered!

It's probably a similar trauma psychologically that a man endures when he has prostate cancer. I hope you never have to experience it.

And for the record I had a hysterectomy when I was 28 years old. So any clients who find that they can't get it up because I don't have a uterus... please don't make an appointment with me!

Arz

Well Said Arizona .....

Love the responses ladies and gents.

Why even create this thread?

She probably told you in confidence to communicate that you should be cautious during the physical activity of the visit.

If getting hard is a general problem for you, the topic should indicate as such. If not, you can work it out for yourself given the circumstances of your isolate visit with the lady. It's not rocket science...

Yes ... this is a stupid unnecessary thread!!!:-/

lol, as most threads are...just breathe darl ... pointless upsetting ourselves over a little boy ....

Have a Rocking Sunday and dont forget the popcorn...Notice he doesnt have much to say now... lol...

Abselutely agree with you sexy lady !!! My main aim is to have a Rock n Roll day !!!

And hope every one els is too...