On 2017-12-20 09:41:40 Gent101 said:
My spirit (read sex drive) is still more than willing however, the flesh is not as willing as I would like it to be. BTW I am in my sixties.

Why are you youngsters all complaining?

Maybe you will one day reach the point when it is a thrill just to know that you still can.

A friend of mine once remarked that acrophobia is the final hurdle. He found that getting on top of a woman was higher than he could manage without fear of heights setting in.

Gent

Trust me when I say this.

Check your heart FIRST

Cheers

INL, thanks for the advice. I had a bypass two years ago. What I meant is that the time lapse between usable long lasting erections and ejaculations are getting longer. However I have to add that the intensity of ejaculations are quite a bit more intense than they were in my twenties and thirties.

Get a good physical done by a doctor.

If not required stay away from any pills to assist you to overcome problems, no matter what. The more pills you drink the more dependent you become to the chemical fix.

Feeling much the same since I crested the 40's hill last year. I now only have sex twice a day

Andy

Jou windgat

Lol

I had my annual physical done, all the results are all clear. Only slighty overweight, nothing much changed over the passed year. I run 8km in a hour which isnt to bad givin my age.

I dont have issues gettin errrect or going the distance but the issue is that till abt a year ago i wanted to fuck everyday.

Now i am ok with it once a week.
The result being that Ive become much more selective when out on a punt.

Sometimes i just give it a pass if im not finding what i am in the mood for.

In the past i would have settled.... not anymore.

Perhaps your issue is psychological and not physical. Sex begins in the mind afterall although men generally focus on the physical because society shoves NSA fucking down our throats, we often deny our feelings.

There is no such thing as NSA sex....every encounter leaves an imprint on us, whether we like to admit it or not.

Btw, I have seen lots of clients that had your concerns and it turns out to be psychological....after a bit of intimacy and laughter, they are ready to go.