On 2023-11-08 10:27:22 Cheshire Cat said:
On 2023-11-08 09:58:12 Teletubby said: On 2023-11-08 08:59:15 l
Who in their right mind would take advice from Kickass? Lesson number 2 - don't take advice from people who are dumber than rocks.
I've seen kickass being jolly and social on here. I haven't seem him fight or bully.
All this extra added drama all because of no refund. SP please pay your dues before more unnecessary drama gets added. I mean kickass has been the most social and welcoming person on here. So come on!
"Jolly", "social", "welcoming". But not smart.
On 2023-11-08 10:35:59 Jess said:
Angie is a grown woman. She did not ask for our advice.
Angie will do what she feels is best.
We were not in her shoes. We don't know what it's like to have a bareback requesting already blocked client pitch up under false pretense.
What we do know is how many bare back requesting clients remove condoms without SP knowledge.
We do know that clients who are obsessed, and pitch up under false pretenses have raped and murdered on this very site before.
We do know that we need to take steps to ensure our safety and sanity.
We do know you only get AIDS once. You have only one life. Self preservation is key.
We do know Angie said she will not return his cash because he needs to learn a lesson and not go on with this stalker type behaviour.
We do know that this matter is closed and that it's up to the parties involved if they want to take matters further.
We can accept that that is all true. But none of it is relevant.
Angie does not have any right to "teach him a lesson". She's not a teacher on the playground. She is not a judge in a courtroom with the authority to issue punishment as a deterrent. What if he decides to "teach her a lesson" for stealing his money and lying when she said she would refund it? You would rightly be up in arms. Well guess what? Angie doesn't have any more right to be dishing out "lessons" than he does.
Edited: 2023-11-08 10:54:19
On 2023-11-08 09:28:24 Russian Bridgitte said:
But Dickrich2
....sometimes taking a leap of faith might reap the type of rewards that would have you reconsidering getting bored of punting....and realizing there is much more to be experienced than the "norm" you stick to.
RB.
My dear RB, I appreciate your wisdom on all these threads. In this instance, so much so that I've tried this too lol. I think I've tried it all in the spirit of knowing what does and doesn't work for me. Prepayments are one of those things that I've learnt do not. Nice clean transactions do, but that's just me.
Rightly so...everybody to their own.
As to nice clean transactions...I can promise you even the ones that require deposits are just as nice and clean as a cash transaction on delivery of services....well, at least with me as I am sure with MANY SP's too.
Just don't brush us all with the same brush....please?
What would I have done in this case?
Given,all his money back and told him to fukc off but , that,is me and,have done it a few times in the past with those that have tried to push their luck
My way or the highway as they say.
But then again...I am VERY clear about what goes and what doesn't and have no qualms about sharing it.
Luckily no pussywhipped men following, stalking or deceiving me.
It must be quite daunting and frightening for the ladies that are.
Most importantly NEVER to lead anyone on with false promises...it can lead to expectations unnecessary and troubling.
RB.
It does however not change the fact that you, Angie, have agreed to a refund. Taking something which does not belong to you, irrespective of how it was obtained, is theft. The punter has agreed to part with a portion of the money as compensation for wasting your time but the rest does not belong to you. Theft is theft, no matter how you try to justify it. Don't allow this fool's behaviour to cause you to become that which goes totally against your character, a crook.
WJ openly admits she was shocked at seeing him.
If she had refused a refund he may not have willingly left.
Fact is he was deceitful and devious.
He also did waste her time.
No refunds - nice to look at nice to hold -
You break you pay!
In this case he's clearly wrong and should stop whining and do the right thing and move on.
Also change your name as you clearly can't "keep walking"
I'm inviting everyone who's been absolute rockstars by supporting me the last while for tequila on Friday! I have some deceit money to spend :) Let's do it.
Pablos Midrand
Friday the 10th of November
From say 2pm
I need it and You guys deserve it.
Hope to see you there!
Kisses
Ang
On 2023-11-08 12:19:36 Angie said:
Mr kickass had a brilliant idea and Im so Here for it!
I'm inviting everyone who's been absolute rockstars by supporting me the last while for tequila on Friday! I have some deceit money to spend :) Let's do it.
You go girl see I met you before and I know from my personal experience you such a lovely lady that shows lots of respect.
Like the chines do when you buy from the China malls no refund you can take something else.lol
Pablos Midrand
Friday the 10th of November
From say 2pm
I need it and You guys deserve it.
Hope to see you there!
Kisses
Ang
On 2023-11-08 09:58:12 Teletubby said:
On 2023-11-08 08:59:15 JackParrow69 said: On 2023-11-08 05:48:06 Kaycee said: On 2023-11-07 21:20:33 Cunilinkiss said: Don't play with Karma
You can keep money (that which is due to you as well as that part you convince yourself you are entitled to), but eventually, if you get the "why is this happening to me" feelings, perhaps you may benefit from being honest with yourself and admit you have just perhaps, been a bit selfish and there may be a message awaiting your acceptance
I'm a firm believer in karma...I did a travel in April 2022,2 hours.I Agreed to an eft payment. To cut a Long story short,guy poured me literally a shot of wine,I started feeling woozy and the anxiety kicked in. After 40 min payment still didn't clear,not even an sms proof of payment. I insisted on leaving, why stay if there's no payment..got home and there it came through, the payment. I called and asked to get his bank details so I could send the money back. A very well known punter ,kickass actually,,after I asked advice said send one hours money back and keep the rest, which I did, asshole went to absa,had the transaction reported as fraud and my bank account got locked. 2 months later the asshole called me begging me to get the police off his back. What????I laughed cos why would I go to the cops about R800 plus I'm an sp, they won't believe me...
Lol.
Karma is a bitch neh..
He sent me the R800 back lol plus extra.
So long story short, the guy actually DID PAY you in full and in advance. You left the booking without delivering service and it was ENTIRELY YOUR DECISION to cancel.
Long story is then you contacted the cop Kickass, and you'll decided to charge this guy a cancellation fee for services not delivered on your own account and no fault of the punter. In the meantime, the punter did exactly what he should have which is asked the bank to refund the money he was defrauded for which is exactly what happened i.e. money taken under false pretenses (of providing 2 hours service) is fraud. Then punter/cop friend intimidates punter and you basically commissioned further extortion of more than even the initial booking.
And a good punter that trusted you with advance payment and did nothing wrong for you to cancel in him then lost his booking, lost his money, lost his faith and trust in wgs and got to be made out to be the bad guy again and you're very happy about the fact that you did not provide a service agreed but took the payment that was agreed and more.
I think you got this karma thing mixed up neh.
Yup, as per lesson 1, you reconfirm with yet another example, don't pay in advance.
JP69
Who in their right mind would take advice from Kickass? Lesson number 2 - don't take advice from people who are dumber than rocks.
Lmao ooo anger anger don't let it destroy your character I think you should have a few tequilas. to me you either got it up ur ass already so you currently full of shit or maybe you need to take it up ur ass to release the shit either way you will release the tension.
Sorry esa I know I said I won't get involved with ppl anymore but I had to. This will be my last response to him, hehehe.
On 2023-11-08 08:30:26 JackParrow69 said:
On 2023-11-08 04:02:02 Claudia Gentlemens Delight said: On 2023-11-07 20:58:25 JackParrow69 said: Lesson 1 - Don't pay in advance!
JP69
Whatever my feelings and what I know about this scenario, kindly become acquainted to the whole story, before making a comment.
Peace,
CGD
I don't see how 18 pages of drivel is going to change the fact that money was paid in advance and service was not received!!! The lesson still stands, don't pay in advance.
JP69
Case in point... Each and EVERY time I visited joburg, it was due to a client advancing money.
Yes, I'll say it.
That system works!
The above said, IT IS NOT THE SAME SITUATION!!
Do your homework, before contributing absolute drivel, as you say. So much for a pun!
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