On 2018-01-09 17:06:30 Sibyl said:

The onus is on the lady in question to tell her partner that she is in the industry, that is if he doesn't already know. If you spill the beans to your friend, you run the risk of ruining your friendship and/or their relationship. Ditto if you approach the lady in question and tell her that you know what she does for a living.

Exactly! sometimes a little bit of maturity and decorum is required. Regardless of being identified is your business and it should be respected. If someone is being an idiot about it, they shouldn't be in your social circle or a candidate for relationships.

Wow you all are really giving me a lot to think about.

But I will take a step back. He is my friend and for what it's worth. It looks like he is unaware of her life. They did just meet and that is common with most relationships. We only get to know one another after a while right.

But if I start to get the feeling that he's walking into a bad situation. I suppose I'll just be stumbling onto some purple website and then, well you understand the rest.

Thanks again.

On 2018-01-09 17:49:36 1DRAKE1 said:
Wow you all are really giving me a lot to think about.

But I will take a step back. He is my friend and for what it's worth. It looks like he is unaware of her life. They did just meet and that it the case with most relationships. We only get to know one another after a while right.

But if I start to get the feeling that he's walking into a bad situation. I suppose I'll just be stumbling onto some purple website and then, well you understand the rest.

Thanks again.

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Even if he is aware do you think he was gonna tell you the truth?

@Miss Barbie Doll
I would like to believe he would. But if I'm honest with myself, he probably wouldn't. He doesn't know that I have this purple life.

So perhaps I just keep my distance.

Book her and see her expression!

I reiterate, What if he paid her to play girlfriend?

Dude, I have a cousin on this site. She doesnt know I know.. and I am going to keep it that way. Let it be, respect both of them. In time it will bug you less till you dont even think about it anymore.

Would you be bothered if it was a girl you haven't seen here?

He he he a lot of guys don't know they are dating working girls and they are happy....

We have girls right here who are married or serious relstionshpis and their partners don't know they're doing this, they are in a normal happy relationships...

Go rent Pretty Woman.. might change your mind

@Blade WM PM me your cousin details, I'll get pretty woman and we'll watch it together.

@Bbw if he paid her then she was very, very good at playing the new girlfriend part.

@Climax no it wouldn't have bothered. But I would have told him if she had a secret.

So like I said, I'm not saying anything at this point in time.

Thanks again