Pitty that ladies like Justine never got these lessons from you before. She had everything going for her. Looks, fantastic bj, hot sex and then broke all the rules for repeat bussiness.

#5 Discretion

A few years ago some very popular working girls had a discussion where they openly noted how they all discussed their clients with each other.

This is without doubt the most complained about issue from punters, other than requests for financial assistance.

When a client pays your fee, he pays for the following, your time, service offered in that time and most important your discretion. If you want to be considered a professional act like one and do not discuss your clients with anyone for any reason.

I must reiterate:

What this simply means is you keep your mouth shut, under NO circumstances should you discuss any client with any third party EVER. Loose lips sink ships and all that !!!

If a client requests not to bump into anyone on his way in, make sure he doesn't. He is paying you for your service and discretion so take such requests seriously as they are being made with good reason.

In recent and past times some intrepid working girls tried their hand at black mail and extortion. To succeed at these fields one has to be a specialist of sorts rarely many working girls are and invariably they are caught very publicly. One of our advertisers was splashed across the front page of a national paper having taken some clients for a total of R300 000. One of her very wealthy clients had no cash and wee'd his pants and went to the police and she was caught.

As funny as the joke might be to bump into one's priest or rabbi at a brothel if this was to happen it wouldn't be to funny at all for either party. So at all times do your best that clients do not see each other or each others cars. Make them park in different place if possible or use car covers if you have to.

Clients enjoy attention to detail, make an effort to keep your clients anonymous to each other and you will very soon have a large client base who knows you can be trusted never to expose their activities.

Regards
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#5 can happen to a degree only.

WG's will ALWAYS discuss their johns with other WG's. That is a fact! Not many whores will discuss their clients with other clients, but they will definitely discuss it them with other whores if they don't work alone.

Only a whore who works 100% alone could probably be assumed not to be discussing the pimples on your ass with another whore.

If a whore works with one or more other whores, and she says she doesn't discuss or comment on her clients with the other girls, you should be wondering what else she is lying about!

Punters should be careful about what they divulge to the whores they visit. Just for fun over the years I would ask a girl do you know that guy who calls himself Lick/kick-ass/PeterPan/OrgyKing/clitsntits etc etc etc and a few will remain tight-lipped while a few others would say, yes, so and so is a lawyer, so and so is a tax consultant, so and so own a few Nando's franchises and he is a regular, Mr XXXX at that car dealership enjoys sucking my toes etc etc etc..

I always say hi my name is Ben, I work for Eskom and I'm here to fuck, and I never read the ESA forum, and this is my first time punting. Really, I've never done this before. hehehehehehehehe

And then there is the issue of little black books....

#6 Grooming & Hygiene

Being impeccably groomed at all times goes without saying, yet rarely implemented consistently.

Hair, should always be clean and smelling fresh as a daisy even more so if you a smoker, some of your clients wont be smokers and will be turned off by the stench of stale smoke in your hair. Likely loosing you a client.

Statistically ladies with shoulder and longer hair adverts get more attention than ladies with short hair. Seems like men like ladies with longer hair more for some reason, on this site any way.

50% of ladies photographed have chipped nail polish and dirty finger nails.Finger nails should always be clean and manicured, if getting false nails don't make them longer than the tips of your fingers. Anything more is impractical. A simple French manicure or gel paint works best. Garish nail art etc looks way to common, so avoid. Have your manicure done professionally, find a salon that does it to your satisfaction and stay with them.

Toe nails, as above for finger nails. A pedicure costs between R150 and R250 rand and needs to be done weekly, to ensure supple soft feet. The most common sexual fetish is a foot fetish so having well pedicured feet opens up a whole new client market. New client market=new money that you would not have made.

Irrespective of your looks always take care of your face and skin, use good quality skin care products at all times. For a woman the 4 most damning things that have ill effects on her skin is alcohol, drugs, smoking and the sun. If you are exposed to those things good genetics aside do what you will you will age prematurely. No one wants to look older than they are so do the above if you have to in moderation. When drinking or drugging always drink lots of water during and after.

In 10 years of listing almost every shape and size lady, I have come to the conclusion that there is a demand for everything. Beauty is certainly in the eye of the beholder. The above withstanding, it doesn't hurt to get regular exercise to keep one's body looking good. Have a professional trainer work out a programme for you and do it at least 3 times a week.

Something often complained about is body odour and the smell of fish while not being anywhere near a harbour. Body odour can be simply fixed by having a regular shower once in the morning, between clients and before one goes to bed in the evening. A good quality neutral smelling deodorant or antiperspirant works wonders. If you use perfume, use it in small quantities only. The cheapies at clicks like "you the fire etc" are a no go, invest in a good quality perfume that works for your personality, and that complements you natural body odour.

Make up, mostly in the industry make up is over done, see a professional make up artist and have them work out what the best tones are for your skin, during the day and during the night and for various occasions. Have them teach you how to apply your make up correctly and which products to use. A professional escort likely wares make up for longer periods so its likely best to only use good quality products which wont cause a reaction on your skin. Mac make up has a good range and works with most skin types, use whatever suits or works best for you.

I receive the following email several times a week," Hi Ed, I saw lady X and she smelled terrible down there etc etc" Thats the gist of it but there are many variation of the same theme. Most long term professionals swear by the Betadine Douche available at your local pharmacy, ask you pharmacist to explain how to use it. Have regular gynaecological examinations with a gynaecologist who is aware of your profession.

Got to run, busy day, shall continue this later.

Regards
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No woman is supposed to smell 'down there'. If she does it is caused by a bacterial infection, and I for 1 won't go near it.
I like young un's, who still smell of bubble gum ;-)

Actually, perfume should be a 100% no-no. My former significant other reckoned she could smell it if I had been jerkin off. With women having a more sharper sense of smell another woman's perfume is a bit of a relationship killer.

Please continue with this post ESA :-)

I love it

Great info!! Tnx...

There has been call for this thread to be revived, we shall continue shortly.

Kind regards
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