On 2021-03-29 20:44:00 modnarmodnar said:
On 2021-03-29 19:58:03 Lesley said: I just wrote this helluva long reply and pressed something and swoosh all gone.

I shall not even try again.

I agree with Nadia. We sell time :)


I've heard this over and over again and I think it's nonsense. If you were selling time, there wouldn't be a cost for extras. There wouldn't be "cum once policies". You're selling acts and it's justifiable for punters to expect higher or lower rates depending on the level of intimacy and potential risk/discomfort that comes with the act.

I can't argue with you here. We sell both time and service.
A time slot will cost you so much and an extra act will cost you so much.

So we sell a bit of both although expecting to pay less for level of intimacy I don't get.

Sex has a price tag. You can have sex and have no intimacy.
You can have a sensual massage and have a deep level of intimacy. And also the reverse can be true.

To be frank, lets just say some guys don't want the service if they can't poke it in a hole and they will pay more to be able to stick it in. And of course that is their right.

But just poking it in a hole does not deepen the intensity or level of intimacy.

I do understand why a client would pay more to poke the honey pot. I do not argue there, however there is no industry standard, no regulation for fees and it really is up to the client to decide what is and isn't worth it for them.

That's the reason I have the Goodboy and the Bad Boy treatments

(Good Boy)
I do offer a professional massage I could do a soft slow sensual erotic arousing tantric massage, alternatively to I could do a much deeper more intense sports massage. I work your reflex and pressure points I remove tight muscles and knots the treatment relaxes you, it also has pain relief results as it is a proper medical massage. I can do a lovely combination of the 2 massages. I then finsh the treatment off with a very sexy sensual sense arousing body to body and a happy ending. Your happy ending is a proper cock massage which prolongs your orgasim and allows a more intense climax (aka edging) this treatment for 60 mins or for 90mins.

(Bad Boy)
Alternatively I can do the same treatment for 2hours long the only difference is treatment includes loads and loads of good oral 4play FH I give you lots of TLC. I allow you to do indulge yourself in me too. I do allow climax more than once and this is for 2 unrushed spent in my company or if you don't have that amount of time available to you then I can squeeze it into an hour for you.

I think we have covered willing buyer/seller enough. I think what gets hackles up is the entrapment feeling when you run into all kinds of extras.
Its like going to the restaurant and when you reach for the salt "thats R2 extra". Ok then ill have some balsamic "oh that is R3 more".

Play whatever rules you want. Alla carte or buffet. Its up to you. But you can't have it both ways. You can't say fh ladies sell their time for x and you must therefore also pay x, but then turn around and start everything miss Fh offers on top of time and then charge for each. If you want itemized billing you need to start from a lower base or admit that you are more expensive.
There are enough fully inclusive ladies that charge x and mg ladies where the total also adds up to x, so when I get to a person who wants to ask x+y+z, i read it as this one is an expert at not giving it all.
The fully inclusive ones for a reasonable bottom line does not hold back so will get my repeat business.

On 2021-03-30 05:53:44 Cunilinkiss said:
I think what gets hackles up is the entrapment feeling when you run into all kinds of extras.
Its like going to the restaurant and when you reach for the salt "thats R2 extra". Ok then ill have some balsamic "oh that is R3 more

Snap!!

TLDNR...

However I saw the words massage only and a few points on price compare to FH and effort.

All I can think of is a proper massage going rate usually about R250-300. Half days go for around R600 including lunch. Specials range form R190. That's massage only outside this purple. I've been to some and can guarantee they put in a shitload more physical effort than any wg, fuck and some even decided to get naughty free without any extra talk.

Surely, here we are not paying a premium for just a massage, that sensuality and possibly FH or BJ is the reason to pay the premium, usually to slot of SP's that don't have the real qualifications and experience in massage beside one or 2 odd courses to say they have it.

I am one of those who charge a rate that includes everything (owo,kissing, mutual oral, cuddling, chatting etc) and only have a few extras which are very specific and are extras because they do require for more from me in my opinion. I am not a fan of having everything seperate and i feel that it can make the experience feel too business like as well.

I do offer sensual massage as well but as im pretty new to this i am open about the fact that i am not trained, i know i give a good firm massage but the body sliding and gymnastics that some ladies do is beyond me. BUT I am honest and state this if someone does want a massage so there is no dissapointment.

I can say that a massage takes a lot more physical energy and grom what ive seen 90% expect to pay substantially less for it.

I seenthe benefit of selling.your time instead of service and having one standard rate, but i feel like alot of gents will have issues with this.

I actually dont prefer doing massages for this reason, i can do less bookings of its massage only since I physically only have so much energy and strength, and the rate is at least R500 lower than FH so I very quickly start to see a drastic drop in my income

Really robust discussion points.

Personally, I don't have a problem paying the same rate for a sensual massage as you would for FH.

I'm also not expecting the lady to be a professional masseuse, this is the purple world and not a spa ;)

I guess it all comes down to personal preference on the side of the WG as well as punter.

I like the idea of selling time as I've had a few experiences (not all, we have some real gems here) where I booked for the hour but after the deed everything was over...

Pm me for info and rates love x

I've heard this over and over again and I think it's nonsense. If you were selling time, there wouldn't be a cost for extras. There wouldn't be "cum once policies". You're selling acts and it's justifiable for punters to expect higher or lower rates depending on the level of intimacy and potential risk/discomfort that comes with the act.[/QUOTE]

I agree with you Modnar