I have been around a long time. Your post is very heartfelt. This lifestyle is not for everyone or it's only meant to be a part of your journey for a season. If it leaves you with feelings of regret, remorse, anxiety, guilt or any negative feelings. You should quit!
I have learnt not just in this lifestyle, but in life in general, if something or someone is not adding benefit to you, your soul and your life journey, then Mark It Absent! And walk away with peace of mind and heart.
Love Arizona
May you always find Peace on your Journey!
I completely understand your post and your feelings <3
I consider myself a spiritual person (not religious) and I don't care about the backlash I could receive from being open and honest. I 100% wholeheartedly believe that sex is spiritual and that energy is felt.
Let me use an example - if you surround yourself with people who are negative and who always complain, soon you too will complain. If you surround yourself with people who gossip, soon too you will find that you will start gossiping.
But when you around people who are lighthearted and who feel good energetically, you'll feel lighter. If you are surrounded by people who are enthusiastic and passionate about life, you'll start noticing more things to be grateful for.
We can even use sports as an example, when playing a team sport, all players affect one another and they need to be in harmony, fuel and motivate one another to work together as a team. But if the team believes that they won't win, that they don't work well together - then of course they will fail.
Life and everything in life is a constant energy exchange. Everything affects everything.
Before each and every single one of my sessions, I meditate, I ground myself and I centre myself. I always honour my feelings, even if it means that I can not honour a booking - because if I honour a booking at expense of my feelings, I will work resentfully and my client will feel it.
To me spirituality is following your intuition, an inner guidance that allows you to do better and be better.
If this is the path that you are on - there is no shame in that. We need to use our inner compass to help us navigate through our lives.
If you are seeking a deep emotional and spiritual connection with someone, you can definitely find that - both through punting or through dating. What you put out, you will attract.
I personally love my job and I am blessed with such wonderful clients. I get to connect deeply with people from all walks of life and learn more about myself through others.
I carry no shame for what I do, despite believing that sex is spiritual and that is simply because as I said, I always honour my feelings. If it doesn't feel right in the moment, I am going to respectfully discuss it or take time to process it and more often than not - my clients appreciate that.
I had a regular client who would see me at least twice a month and we grew quite close - in fact we are still close. He has a disability - this made him believe that he would never be able to find someone who is willing to commit to him or the love him the way that he deserves. I always encouraged him to be his authentic self. To explore and meet people. To live life to the fullest.
He grew more confident, he started dressing really well and he started dating. He is now in a healthy committed relationship and sexier than ever - why?
His energetic vibration was low and it was affecting him. He needed to be surrounded by love and support - so he could be his true self which is loving and confident.
Once he became that - he attracted that.
We no longer see each other because our time together served it's purpose and he is onto greener pastures. Which I'm so grateful to know that he is happy and filled with such abundance.
So if this is your journey, may it be a beautiful journey filled with all that you deserve!
On 2024-01-30 21:35:27 SolCandy said:
Ladies i have a question. Do yall use herbs or any other stuff to keep the pussy tight, very moist and hot because lately ive been getting really amazing pussy that gets me to cum in less that 20 seconds.
Chlamydia is a lesser known cause of premature ejaculation.
On 2024-01-30 17:58:06 Marcus2389 said:
No sorry if u like i was being condescending , im am sorry if you feel like that but personally i didnt want to put it that way its just i realised that, i wanna be able to meet a girl and treat her like a women go on a few dates, make her feel special and we dont have to even smash that can come weeks or months after, i know i'll get played by some girls for being nice part, eventually you'll find someone real, like i have escorts that are friends of mine and we dont smash and i told them about how i feel and they totally agree with me.but i guess maybe its just not within me to do have transactional sex, it fun but weird the first time i did it and nothing has changed over the years. So its like naah dude, some times you gotta listen to yourself if something is not you.
Sorry I came across a bit aggressive :)
Seriously, if it doesn't sit right with you, don't do it. Life is short and you should do what you really enjoy xxx
On 2024-01-30 21:35:27 SolCandy said:
Ladies i have a question. Do yall use herbs or any other stuff to keep the pussy tight, very moist and hot because lately ive been getting really amazing pussy that gets me to cum in less that 20 seconds.
Only one thing "tightens" vagina muscles and that is Kegel exercises. Mind you, only one thing "loosens" the muscles and that is childbirth (NOT peen).
Thank you for coming to my TED Talk :)
Painting us all with the same brush due to your experiences with a handful of ladies, is entirely unfair and off-putting to those who may be curious about dipping their toe into the industry.
You've probably just killed a couple bookings for some really genuine and good ladies and obliterated what could've been the next guys BEST and most wonderful life experiences.
Remember your experience with a lady (paid or unpaid), is entirely based upon your own upbringing, your mindset, YOUR personal insecurities, YOUR unresolved internal issues and whatever YOUR beliefs, morals and values may consciously or subconsciously be deeming acceptable or not.
So please... Try think on the ripple effect, before posting on such a contraversial topic.
All the best for your new lifestyle though,Lovely. May it be exactly what you need.
Xx H.D. xX
Some naive punters and wgs think it's just sex and money exchange but most know what it's really about. They mostly keep quiet about such matters to either keep their business or habit or both.
On 2024-01-30 22:26:24 Raphael_ Xclusive said:
Marcus,
I completely understand your post and your feelings <3
I consider myself a spiritual person (not religious) and I don't care about the backlash I could receive from being open and honest. I 100% wholeheartedly believe that sex is spiritual and that energy is felt.
Let me use an example - if you surround yourself with people who are negative and who always complain, soon you too will complain. If you surround yourself with people who gossip, soon too you will find that you will start gossiping.
But when you around people who are lighthearted and who feel good energetically, you'll feel lighter. If you are surrounded by people who are enthusiastic and passionate about life, you'll start noticing more things to be grateful for.
We can even use sports as an example, when playing a team sport, all players affect one another and they need to be in harmony, fuel and motivate one another to work together as a team. But if the team believes that they won't win, that they don't work well together - then of course they will fail.
Life and everything in life is a constant energy exchange. Everything affects everything.
Before each and every single one of my sessions, I meditate, I ground myself and I centre myself. I always honour my feelings, even if it means that I can not honour a booking - because if I honour a booking at expense of my feelings, I will work resentfully and my client will feel it.
To me spirituality is following your intuition, an inner guidance that allows you to do better and be better.
If this is the path that you are on - there is no shame in that. We need to use our inner compass to help us navigate through our lives.
If you are seeking a deep emotional and spiritual connection with someone, you can definitely find that - both through punting or through dating. What you put out, you will attract.
I personally love my job and I am blessed with such wonderful clients. I get to connect deeply with people from all walks of life and learn more about myself through others.
I carry no shame for what I do, despite believing that sex is spiritual and that is simply because as I said, I always honour my feelings. If it doesn't feel right in the moment, I am going to respectfully discuss it or take time to process it and more often than not - my clients appreciate that.
I had a regular client who would see me at least twice a month and we grew quite close - in fact we are still close. He has a disability - this made him believe that he would never be able to find someone who is willing to commit to him or the love him the way that he deserves. I always encouraged him to be his authentic self. To explore and meet people. To live life to the fullest.
He grew more confident, he started dressing really well and he started dating. He is now in a healthy committed relationship and sexier than ever - why?
His energetic vibration was low and it was affecting him. He needed to be surrounded by love and support - so he could be his true self which is loving and confident.
Once he became that - he attracted that.
We no longer see each other because our time together served it's purpose and he is onto greener pastures. Which I'm so grateful to know that he is happy and filled with such abundance.
So if this is your journey, may it be a beautiful journey filled with all that you deserve!
Mhmn. . Raphael your text nourishes my soul. And every word in it feeds and heal thy soul. I loved it from the bottom of my heart.
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