Mistress will also qualify. Sexual favours for house, car, overseas trips, jewellery, etc. Just infinitely more expensive. Expects to be treated like a wife, will give you the same shit as a wife. Tread carefully here. Very short term relationship. Novelty wears off very quickly.


Concubine : Live-in-lover or mistress that co-habits with you. Usually associated with a lower status than the man. Cheap to have, usually little strings, just there to be used sexually.


Grifter : The dangerous one. Will swindle you out of money. Will use everything in her arsenal, tears, kak stories, whatever, blowing, crying on demand. They are good. You will not see them coming. Only know it when they gone and you look at the hole in your bank account. Have no hearts, cold and extremely good actors. Can cry on demand. Be really careful for them. Usually disappears like mist before the rising sun. Gifted liars. Live their lives a lie.


Girlfriend : The expensive one. Expects everything. Gives very little, ie, lots of sex to start with, then getting moody, just giving enough to keep boyfriend hanging around. Expects the red carpet, expensive gifts. (what is different from paying for a prostitute ?) Be very careful of this species, they will assess your wealth and earning potential before deciding to ensnare you into marriage. Will fuck your brains out the day before you discuss your ante nuptial contract, and will probably fuck your lawyer as well to get favourable terms. Will cost you a fortune when you divorce (56 % divorce rate now )

Indeed Laura, Lady of Pleasure.

John Cleland, the famous 18th century novelist wrote "Fanny Hill" or "Memoirs of a Woman of Pleasure".

Its not what they call you but what you respond to that matters...

And...

Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission...

Personally I could careless what clients call me... A former neighbor once called me a loose c nt. I had earphones on but I could hear him. I walked on by and he must have felt really stupid because he didn't get a reaction out of me.

"Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission...". I like that Naledi. You've got style.

As far as I am concerned, all the women, that are advertising here and on other sites, are ladies. I expect:
- them to act like ladies that provide a service, i.e. a lady that acts very professionally in the business that she is in.
- Yes the ladies are in a business. We are the buyers of that service that they provide.
- The lady should be well groomed, well dressed. Some times (Not every time) her uniform could be painted toe nails only
- The lady should welcome you as if you are her best (and only) customer
- The venue should be spotless, everything in working order, bedding should be top class.
- A proper lady should however know how to please a gentleman, and it is acceptable if she acts a little un-ladylike in the process.

We, as punters, should act like gentleman, respect the lady's boundaries and treat her as a lady. We as the paying customer, may have certain demands, but I think its a two-way game, there are rules, and both parties should enjoy the session.

If we call them by any name, just be careful, by what name should she then call you.

Funny how there is a need for political correctness, politeness or simply not stating the obvious amongst a group of people that have basically said "Fuck it, I will do things my way".

NotSoShyKev, you can call these girls whatever you want to, but for me I will pay them their fee to use them.

"Sometimes... her uniform could be painted toenails only." Stephan1951, I was once welcomed by a lady who was wearing that very uniform, with two additional garments. Namely, painted fingernails and a pair of sexy slippers.

I prefer the word Companion. A whore does it for free. A prostitute as mentioned stands in the street. A Companion works from a Venue or Private house.

@ Mr Bond,
Sexy slippers would be very important garment, in that they keep her feet clean for the guys with a foot fetish. Again very professional from the lady.