Lost interest and have reduced bookings significantly. The numerous requests for cash "loans" that never seem to stop and when I don't help it is me that is being a doos!! My punting activities are at least 70% less than in the past.

Apart from it's getting really expensive.... I made the mistake of giving a tip before the session....like many others was scammed into 'more than just a massage' only to find out as i was leaving that i need to pay extra for the extra...... i really didn't see that comming because i was fooled into we 'have a connection'..... So i got played and now i just don't punt anymore because of trust and money issues.....

Seems like we all have had similar experiences here

Honestly even before this experience of mine if I had pay a deposit to see a wg lol there is no way I'm even bothering

On 2024-04-05 08:10:39 Arhwen said:
On 2024-04-05 07:32:53 time4change said: On 2024-04-05 06:17:04 Arhwen said: On 2024-04-04 17:28:46 time4change said: Yeah I also think guys/we feel comfortable with our regulars, and they end up then taking advantage of us
At the end of the day it's all bout the money
However if u paying them for a service and they don't pitch up it's not like we can go to the wgs ombudsman's to lay a complaint and the girls know that that's why they take the money
Sad actually

We're do we lay a complain for callers who waist our time??? Especially since they have no reviews to guide you.

Agree that's not fair either and we get that in all our industries customers who make bookings and appointments and never show
However my thing was a bout someone with whom I know for many years who basically scammed me for money not just don't show up for an appointment

Sorry for your experience it's a shitty feeling I know trust me I do. But never assist with expectations when you do give look at it as your giving back to the universe for all your many blessings. As long as it comes from a good place with lots of love and no expectation it will never hurt.

Just write it off as bad Karma and let the Her karma do what it will. Also perhaps their was a lesson for you in that don't be so niave.

Thanks yeah unfortunately in this situation I was not giving to anyone I paid for a trip with her for which she didn't pitch

On 2024-04-05 08:10:39 Arhwen said:
On 2024-04-05 07:32:53 time4change said: On 2024-04-05 06:17:04 Arhwen said: On 2024-04-04 17:28:46 time4change said: Yeah I also think guys/we feel comfortable with our regulars, and they end up then taking advantage of us
At the end of the day it's all bout the money
However if u paying them for a service and they don't pitch up it's not like we can go to the wgs ombudsman's to lay a complaint and the girls know that that's why they take the money
Sad actually

We're do we lay a complain for callers who waist our time??? Especially since they have no reviews to guide you.

Agree that's not fair either and we get that in all our industries customers who make bookings and appointments and never show
However my thing was a bout someone with whom I know for many years who basically scammed me for money not just don't show up for an appointment

Sorry for your experience it's a shitty feeling I know trust me I do. But never assist with expectations when you do give look at it as your giving back to the universe for all your many blessings. As long as it comes from a good place with lots of love and no expectation it will never hurt.

Just write it off as bad Karma and let the Her karma do what it will. Also perhaps their was a lesson for you in that don't be so niave.

As this is an industry operating outside any legal framework and protection it does create greater opportunity for scammers to be more active as the likelihood for formal action is slim to none.

This impacts on all parties participating in the industry, SP's and punters alike. I'm sure most of us, if not all, have suffered some form of loss i.e. no shows for bookings or paying upfront and not receiving the agreed service. That is just the risk associated with this business.

I would however want to believe that most of us are good natured and with pure intentions. Some fighting to survive and trying to make a living whilst other seeking intimacy, affection and companionship. It is a bit unfair to apply the blanket rule that we are all dishonest, time wasters and/or potential scammers just waiting for the next opportunity to defraud someone. Although we might not all be deemed as outstanding members of our communities as per societal norms, integrity and trust still plays a big part in the business. We should acknowledge that it works both ways and can never be onsided.

For those who intentionally scams, defruads or no-shows, there should be a mechanism in place where a small group can review the alleged allegations and based on the facts can then decide if the greater forum should be made aware of it and with the potential risk(s) involved. Naming and shaming on a public forum is dangerous and might also be damaging to someone's business venture and/or reputation.

Just my 2 cents woth seeing that I've taken an extended weekend and have nothing much to do today.

I agree service and quality no longer the same. In the early 2000's one was spoiled for choice especially if black MILF's and Black BDSM specialists are your thing.

On 2024-04-05 09:33:17 MrWrong said:
On 2024-04-05 08:10:39



"......I would however want to believe that most of us are good natured and with pure intentions. Some fighting to survive and trying to make a living whilst other seeking intimacy, affection and companionship. It is a bit unfair to apply the blanket rule that we are all dishonest, time wasters and/or potential scammers just waiting for the next opportunity to defraud someone. Although we might not all be deemed as outstanding members of our communities as per societal norms, integrity and trust still plays a big part in the business. We should acknowledge that it works both ways and can never be onsided. ......"

LOVE.
LOVE.
LOVE.

That thing " honor among thieves", a bond that binds stronger than usual and even though shunned and scorned by society ...a code of conduct should exist.

Respect.


The bottom thread ties in perfectly with this school of thought.


www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php



RB.

What made me stop punting and what made me re-start has the same answer :

Money

There was an excellent lady named after a clothing brand with a P and ends with an A, she left the industry and I think I've been chasing her experience since. It can't be replaced.

It's just not worth it anymore, plenty of complaints and such, reduced quality, entitled WG/MG (the ones I've met - if its not you please, I don't wanna know). There are gems still no doubt, but the risk far outweighs the pleasure at this rate. Oh one more, I've never in my life been exposed to so many hot women with have BO lol not all but it's been surprising.

Haven't stopped yet but headed there soon.

Ps: the ladies I gave good reviews to were late posts and some recent, those ladies are some of the reasons I'm still here, sigh but 4 visits and I can buy some tech or even take a short holiday or an expensive night out at the strip club lol - damn it never ends.

I have significantly reduced my punting by probably by 80% and this is due to all of the following which has shown up over the last 5 years or so and is increasing getting worse and somehow becoming the norm which will hurt the industry for all.

Shitty attitudes, especially those of entitlement.
Begging for money by phoning or sending whatsapp messsages.
Peddling of "content" videos. Why the fuck? Makes me sick.
Offering extra services like it's pizza toppings. WTF happened to one fee for everything?
Scamming bitches.
Requesting deposits.
Asking me to go shopping prior to seeing a WG and then the bitch says I cancelled when I say sorry no go? Fuck off!!!
Totally ghosting me just before the agreed time and after a confirmed booking.
Pulling a bait and switch.
Having a filthy venue.
Being filthy personally.
Not respecting privacy or ensuring it at a private venue.
Clock watching and cutting the visit short.
1 cum policy? WTF is this anyways? If your fee is for the hour what is with this kak gedagte? It's like a cellular operating whereby subscribers end up forfeiting air time already paid for.
Being on drugs or poes drunk at the time of the booking.
Having no rubbers upon arrival. WTF?
Kids in the same apartment. Just wrong. This is a complete no no for me.


These are the reasons why I only visit a select few WG's that I know for sure are decent, honest, respectable, and are willing to show me a good time. I have always treated the WG's I have visited with the utmost respect, consideration, and decency but I have found that more often than not I do not receive the same. There is no way in hell that I will ever visit any WG that in any way does anything mentioned above. To those WG that I have visited and had a blast with, you know who you are, please stay the way that you are and thank you for the good times.