Oh pls ... I expected your reply in the afternoon. The day is gone and forgotten. Now go play in the child's corner with your dildos and whatnot.

On 2024-08-16 13:16:21 Courtney With Curves said:
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Everyone appeals to someone, thats the beauty of this site to be honest.
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Agreed. Speaking of which, your legs while wearing high heels are absolutely stunning.

It's too bad you're not in Pretoria.

Back to the original post.
I'm in cape town, there have recently been some touring ladies whose profile pics were so hot, best breasts I have ever seen, I couldn't wait to see them.
But when I messaged them , the replies were just " hi hun, I charge xxx per hour" or similar 1 word sentences. This is really off-putting. I know ladies might get many annoying messages to reply to, but I send nice friendly introductory messages, I don't just give the despised "how much to fuck" that puts ladies off.
So if a lady can't put any effort into being friendly in a text message, it makes me think she won't put any effort into a booking, so I tend not to go.

Similarly, if a ladies profile is just one or 2 sentences, that doesn't really inspire confidence. Do these tend to be agency/ venue profiles?

Agreed on the whatsapp status update. The best person for that is Lanira, my word they are sexy, I can't wait for her to get back to cape town! (I couldn't see her last month as she got my booking time wrong <cries quietly to myself!>).
And also sensual Chanel, recently posting samples of her homemade content, really good quality and sexy!)

And agreed, ladies on the forum are far more likely to get noticed. Particularly jhb / Pretoria ones, as there are so many pages there per area, easy to get missed.
There are quite a few jhb/Pretoria ladies I am very keen to see,just because I noticed them on the forum. (But agreed, posting pages and pages of "in available" is off-putting, be creative (Russian bridgette is the best at that!).
Post special offers, give descriptions of some kinks you might offer etc.

Bonjour Tellytuby and everyone, an orgasmic week I hope?
Valid points you've made, now I can't speak for every lady on the forum... But here's my response to you:

I used to generally post spicy sexy pics with my face showing in my PG, until I started getting attacked by other MGs/WGs privately. Now I do post once of twice a week, but I take down the ones with my face fully showing after a day oh so...

I may not have a way with words like that (in public forums that is *wink*) nor provide PSE, but I'll be your sexy French mistress for our time together!

I actually do repost my ESA pics on my status MDR, but only to announce my availability for the day and they aren't the only ones I post though (I'm too random and post random crap on there sometimes MDR)...

I do offer pre-recorded and custom HD contents.

Every now and then I do run specials, especially when I've got a new services.


With all the above said I'm of the believe that what's meant for me will always be mine no matter what happens, what's not meant for me will never make its way to me no matter what I do/say.

Like any other industry/business there are quite days/weeks and there are busy ones, the key is to know how to balance them out with other streams of incomes (can't put all your eggs in one basket you'll go nuts when the basket falls!).

Anywho, have an orgasmic day everyone!

Gros bisous
Cleopatra (Your Royal Affair)

On 2024-08-17 00:47:47 goldencalf3 said:
On 2024-08-16 13:16:21 Courtney With Curves said: ...
Everyone appeals to someone, thats the beauty of this site to be honest.
...

Agreed. Speaking of which, your legs while wearing high heels are absolutely stunning.

It's too bad you're not in Pretoria.

Since it's Women's Month, know that I'm coming... yes, to Pretoria, sometime soon-ish.
Thought I'd "market" myself, while it had been suggested, haha!
CGD

On 2024-08-17 03:37:42 xanthropus said:
Back to the original post.
I'm in cape town, there have recently been some touring ladies whose profile pics were so hot, best breasts I have ever seen, I couldn't wait to see them.
But when I messaged them , the replies were just " hi hun, I charge xxx per hour" or similar 1 word sentences. This is really off-putting. I know ladies might get many annoying messages to reply to, but I send nice friendly introductory messages, I don't just give the despised "how much to fuck" that puts ladies off.
So if a lady can't put any effort into being friendly in a text message, it makes me think she won't put any effort into a booking, so I tend not to go.

Similarly, if a ladies profile is just one or 2 sentences, that doesn't really inspire confidence. Do these tend to be agency/ venue profiles?

Agreed on the whatsapp status update. The best person for that is Lanira, my word they are sexy, I can't wait for her to get back to cape town! (I couldn't see her last month as she got my booking time wrong <cries quietly to myself!>).
And also sensual Chanel, recently posting samples of her homemade content, really good quality and sexy!)

And agreed, ladies on the forum are far more likely to get noticed. Particularly jhb / Pretoria ones, as there are so many pages there per area, easy to get missed.
There are quite a few jhb/Pretoria ladies I am very keen to see,just because I noticed them on the forum. (But agreed, posting pages and pages of "in available" is off-putting, be creative (Russian bridgette is the best at that!).
Post special offers, give descriptions of some kinks you might offer etc.

And you, Sir, is a fantastic client...
Much respect (*.*)

On 2024-08-15 19:28:41 Yvonne Xxx said:
Speaking of boring wgs, there is one that has pages and pages of "available"on the ladles advertisers page. If only she can participate on the forum as I don't think she is busy at all. All of my clientele find me from the forum cos it helps. So many ladies shy away from the forum cos their written english is atrocious and they know they are going to be bullied. Some show faces and they are so ugly and overweight and wonder why they don't have any clients. It's school holidays but not for the pvt schools as my daughter is still writing cycle tests and only going on holiday end of September.

There are so many ways and means to be of assistance and in service to another human being. The world is your oyster.

You're clearly creative - it's a pity you chose to create negativity...
Oh, I saw a thread about karma. The Sanscrit word for karma is 'action'. Think about that.
CGD

On 2024-08-16 13:11:56 Yvonne Xxx said:
I speak the truth...

I'm clearly not done, haha!
Here's something you probably might not have considered- wait for it... everyone, in human form, speaks the truth. Bam!

The difference between your "truth" and another? The energy you CHOOSE to create on Earth...

On 2024-08-17 03:37:42 xanthropus said:
Back to the original post.
I'm in cape town, there have recently been some touring ladies whose profile pics were so hot, best breasts I have ever seen, I couldn't wait to see them.
But when I messaged them , the replies were just " hi hun, I charge xxx per hour" or similar 1 word sentences. This is really off-putting. I know ladies might get many annoying messages to reply to, but I send nice friendly introductory messages, I don't just give the despised "how much to fuck" that puts ladies off.
So if a lady can't put any effort into being friendly in a text message, it makes me think she won't put any effort into a booking, so I tend not to go.

Similarly, if a ladies profile is just one or 2 sentences, that doesn't really inspire confidence. Do these tend to be agency/ venue profiles?

Agreed on the whatsapp status update. The best person for that is Lanira, my word they are sexy, I can't wait for her to get back to cape town! (I couldn't see her last month as she got my booking time wrong <cries quietly to myself!>).
And also sensual Chanel, recently posting samples of her homemade content, really good quality and sexy!)

And agreed, ladies on the forum are far more likely to get noticed. Particularly jhb / Pretoria ones, as there are so many pages there per area, easy to get missed.
There are quite a few jhb/Pretoria ladies I am very keen to see,just because I noticed them on the forum. (But agreed, posting pages and pages of "in available" is off-putting, be creative (Russian bridgette is the best at that!).
Post special offers, give descriptions of some kinks you might offer etc.

Thank you for the mention. Much appreciated.

I have now learned to use my whatsapp status to give updates. There is so much bullying going on on ESA. That is the main reason I don't participate on the forum.

I once posted a special for the hour where I included all my extras. I can't even tell you the amount of girls that attacked me calling me a cheap whore. Just brushed it off coz I am putting in the effort.

It worked like a charm and I am not shy to admit that I got a shit load of clients that day.

I wil be running that special again soon. Not all of us have perfect bodies or perfect faces. Not attacking you Yvonne.

I for one like showing of my body coz I have some clients who said they don't like just skin and bones and if I lose an inch of fat they won't be back.

Taste differs in this industry I don't necessarily think it is how you look or how much you weigh but rather your photo's, attitude and telephone matters that ensure if you get the booking or not.

Dearest xanthropus.

I cannot wait to make your acquaintance and have the pleasure of you in October on my arrival in CT.

I do hope you have penciled in a time for you and I...?

As to this platform and knowing it is viewed far and wide (not only locally) ....I LOVE IT and all the opportunities it affords us as advertisers.

Thank YOU for your kind words of acknowledgement and noticing me.

Till our paths cross!...tied up, blindfolded and "used" in the most kinky erotic of seductive ways....some of what is your pleasure?

Till October.

RB.