On 2024-09-20 12:32:04 GreyKnight said:
A lot of unhappy people out there. They get some sort of satisfaction out of attacking and insulting others - makes them feel better. They also can't stand positive vibes.

Such a pity, as the purple world is supposed to be a break away from every day stressful, boring life. A fantasy world where the impossible becomes possible.

I don't visit these here purple pages as much anymore but would've been great so see the lighthearted banter between forum members like there was at some stages in the past.

But...to each their own I guess.

I miss reading your posts one gentlemen of note not many of those on the purple pages anymore.

On 2024-09-20 14:42:41 Mxtress Fussy Bunny said:
As a newbie SP to ESA, the forum has not been what I had expected. This post has been wonderfully refreshing!
Thank you Miss Red!

Beautiful profile.. welcome to Esa;)

Sure hope that more ladies like you and punters will see there is more to the forums than just the ugly and know there are some real good people around not just the degenerates that make it ugly.

[.........double post. Oeps.

On 2024-09-20 20:09:34 Miss Red ( Aka Louise ) said:


Beautiful profile.. welcome to Esa;)

Xxx thank you Miss Red!

I enjoy the forum and its characters (most of them anyway).

I do feel sorry for the desperate people who feel the need to operate multiple fake profiles for the purpose of attacking one another. Or even sadder, conversing with themselves using their multiple profiles.

There is more to life than this forum. If you add value here, i welcome your input and i am happy to converse with you.

If you choose to pollute the space with the contents of your sad, sick, attention seeking mind, i just pity you and ignore you.

Ying yang....every now and then the balance is off....but the cockroach has as much a right to life as the butterfly.

Nice topic red. Agree with what u say and analysed. Been on this site since 2010s and before people were more respectful towards others comment and not as harsh as they are today. Maybe the stress of today's world and pace of things getting faster and faster. We all need to be respectful of each other's views,opinions and we will learn more else less will be commented on less opinions views shares as punter and wg will be afraid to post with threat of being shot down.

@kingkk.. def is a sign of the times... we cant fix the world.. but we can start with ourselves and our micro communities.;)

This baffled me so many times....

For example:
A while back I stood up against the animal (he have been banned) using the terms, in excess:

Bitch
Slut
Whore

I remember the time I was independent and operated my own phone and took my own appointments.
I would get 60+ inquiries stating only: hi and then no further response. Then the awful part: hi slut how much to fuck your slut pussy. From the get go, no manners. I mean to respond to something like that, I haven't even been paid yet ,to tolerate such shit. Then only the handful of genuine and respectful gentlemen I prefer to see.

My point is however this.
Dirty talking is a Feitsh kind of thing and you should ask for consent.
Then speaking of women in such a way publicly from the get go, assuming that it is acceptable and okay, on a platform everyone pays to part of. It's not just disrespectful, but an insight on how little and low you think of women and others in general.

Top this off, another service provider on this platform found it necessary to call me out
as * snowflake * and *putting myself on a pedestal* and using this situation to my *own narrative?*

Implying, that I think I am better then everyone else, and that I should remember " that I also earn my living with my pussy on display".

Just to clear this up:
I spoke out to an (clearly) ill educated individual that can not speak of women ,sexual desires and the services provided here on this platform, other then sounding like a low budget porn on repeat. I advocate against cheap and belittling words being used towards all women and all service provider on this platform.

For this sake: you don't take garbage takeaways, and drag it into a 5star restaurant, and serve it as fine dining.

My point is this:
Service provider's that are professional and seek legitimate clients of proper manner and a delightful attitude about them, we PAY a monthly fee to open ourself to this possibly.
Then in return, legit and awesome gentleman also pay a fee to part of this community and to review and share their experiences, all to improve the cycle of great people connecting with one another.
Guaranteed 5star experience.

Then a piece of shit like that come on here and tarnish it with his vile words and barbaric mannerism and less than low iq.

For me to have spoken out to this low level of communication and mannerisms (towards ALL women) and then be ""bullied"" by another service provider on this platform is disgusting!

@kylie... ;)

If a random person walks into a hall packed full of people and shouts "good morning whores".. who is he/she adressing?
Everyone, specific people or no one?

Who he/she are adressing will become clear on who responds hallo back to that greeting;)

The rest have 3 choices..

1)peacefully carry on with whatever they where doing before he or she walked in and not acknowledge the presense of that person in anyway.

Or

2) ask... "who are you calling a whore" and get upset about his manner of speaking and start of a whole disruption to their own peace.

Or

3) walk away and find space where you dont have to share space with the person you find to be disrespectfull.

I of late have been choosing 1 and 3 and so have many others.. ;)

There was a time I would have chosen 2, but I have learned something over past couple of years...my peace is more important than anyone or anything and I aint gonna disrupt that for anyone or anything.

And there is always the freedom of speach thing.. just because you/i or someone finds something offensive or disrepectful does not mean they not allowed to say it.....

... but

Esa has rules that they have written here and that we are all expected to follow. They should be the ones adressing the onces the dont follow the rules.

* now.. i have not seen the specific ncident you reffered too but... i suspect you chose 2 and that led to you and another sp that greeted back to that greeting ending up in an agrument... looking back... don't you think 1 or 3 would have been the better choice.. choose your own peace... you should not be the one to teach grown ass people manners..that should have been done by their mothers and teachers many many years ago.

@Miss Red

You right. Thank you ,kindly.