RB, let's not make this personal.

There's countless studies done with ratings of hundreds and even thousands of people ranking and ratings them and there's a general consensus on what who is attractive or not and who is more attractive than another since many of these actually rank everyone apart from the usual 1-10 ratings.

There's a post on looks and that's what I responded too. It's not about who or what I find attractive wet to the post or my previous comment on it.

If you meant to ask me if it makes a difference to me, it 100% does. I will not eat out an ugly fat chick but I will eat a hot fit one. I will pay more for a hotter than an ugly one. I will take a hot chick on a date maybe but I won't even drive to an average one's place, they must come to me for a fuck and I won't even entertaining an ugly one anything more than a friend no matter how sweet and kind and caring and rich she might be. This isn't even a problem IRL as people are fairly in time with their attractiveness levels even though they might go around saying they're all perfect 10's. They wouldn't accept the outcomes of they really believed that but they know and respond accordingly. Call me superficial or an asshole but at least I'm not lying or pretending "Oh, I love everyone the same and everyone is beautiful" for public approval.

N4P

On 2024-11-20 17:12:57 Need4Passion said:

... I will not eat out an ugly fat chick but I will eat a hot fit one. I will pay more for a hotter than an ugly one. I will take a hot chick on a date maybe but I won't even drive to an average one's place, they must come to me for a fuck and I won't even entertaining an ugly one anything more than a friend no matter how sweet and kind and caring and rich she might be. This isn't even a problem IRL as people are fairly in time with their attractiveness levels even though they might go around saying they're all perfect 10's. They wouldn't accept the outcomes of they really believed that but they know and respond accordingly. Call me superficial or an asshole but at least I'm not lying or pretending "Oh, I love everyone the same and everyone is beautiful" for public approval.

N4P

I am the same!

However, i do think women are a little better than us men. Yes, if a girl has to choose between 2 guys that are the same in all respects, except the one is good looking, she will obviously take the good looking one.
And i am not saying women will tolerate quite bad looking guys. But i think women are more willing to accept slightly less good looking guys.

But yes money and/or status is more important to women.
I mean a girl can be a billionaire. But if she is fat or ugly, i wont touch her. Even if the rest of my life will be financially fantastic, i would simply not be able to touch her. Will never even get an erection. Now i know there are guys that can do that, but i would never be able too.

You shallow bustets! I will marry a pig if it was a billionaire lmao.

I fuck hotties, sometimes I take one's with an ugly badge but a smoking hot body or a pretty hun but fat, proper 10... gents theres a full catalog why have 1 type?

I don't look at the jelly tots and eat only one I have my favorites but I finish the bag.

If sex is a transaction I couldn't give a fuck if sp's think I'm Kermit or Ken.

If ur toes are painted and ur personality is like julias i am Def seeing you.if look like the minster of the south African army Iam still going to see you not in the bedroom but we can go for lunch to nandos we good.

On 2024-11-20 16:50:16 Russian Bridgitte said:
N4P

..as you said , hygiene and respect should be standard.


Quoting you...


"...I have seen this in punting and in real life multiple times over. Moreso, I have even met wgs who have said point blank that they're so grateful to have a fit guy as most punters are fat and ugly. Obviously they will tell those punters it doesn't matter and they're a nice person etc which is more important as they want the money. I've compared notes on experiences with other punters and I can definitely tell that good looking punters get far more in terms of enthusiasm, time, and even additional services not given to less attractive customers."


...holds no water for me.

As to what is good looking...

Would be interesting to hear what your definition of a good looking man is and, why that "feature" would make him good looking to a woman.



I can bet my bottom dollar you shall get it wrong, that is, if aesthetics shall be your answer remembering good looks are subjective.


Enthusiasm....not a glitch nor a twitch different toward ANYBODY who walks across my threshold.

THAT is a promise because first and foremost respect and hygiene is the first go to...NOT looks.

Mighty MIGHTY fine times have been shared!

RB.

I think that the most fascinating thing about this thread is how well it demonstrates (some/many ?) men's absolute inability and unwillingness to comprehend womens' minds or even accept the idea that there is a frame of reference other than their own. They just can't get their heads around the idea that the things that are important to them are not the same for other people.

This conversation is literally women saying what is important to them, and men going "no, no, no that's not right".


(BTW N4P here's an actual study - pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8133465/
If you are too lazy to read it, just take a glance at figs 1 and 2)

On 2024-11-19 20:16:11 KT123 said:
To put it into perspective if Blake Lively had a shit personality and treated you like shit and Whoopi Goldberg has the best personality and respect for you... which one are you going to shove your cock in???

This is like one of those test questions the one cop kept asking in "White chicks" film. Lol

N4P, this is not a dating site. If you are looking for any REAL connections, join a dating site. This is a fictional world where fantasies come true. For some, it's just for convenience. The women on this site understand this and everything that happens here is purely transactional.

N4P


Personal?

Who is getting personal.

I suppose that is why many married men pay to eat out ladies, as you put in, because the dish served at home is no longer appealing?

Yet.

Mind you...you expect your wife to go down on your cock and blow it to kingdom cum....mmmmm.

You missed the gist of my question and went off, as you said ....on a personal tangent.

My question was....what DO YOU THINK MAKES A MAN ATTRACTIVE TO A WOMAN ? ..because men are from Mars and women are from Venus and "loving moments" know to be blind and not all muscular and fit .

I wonder if this too will go above your head.

I hope not.

Superficiality ain't for everybody .

RB

There are two types of ugly or good-looking people in this world.

Type 1... dont know or dont care if they ugly or good-looking.

Type 2... are very aware of their own phycical attributes be it ugly or good-looking.

Type 1.. normally are very laid back and kind people. That do not measure others by phycical attributes. Nor do they care how other see them.

Type 2... are normally very shallow and mean spirited and will definitely measure others by phycical attributes and they very much care how others see them.

As for me being a SP.. i really dont care if you type 1 or type 2 or have money or not, drive a flashy car or not, wear a 20000 watch or a 50 watch or pitch up in plakkies and a short or in an Armani suit.

All i care about is that you are respectful, clean and healthy and pay as agreed when you do decide to visit me. I wont treat anyine different, we will have a great time regardless what you look like or wear or drive.

But in my personal life... i would much rather befriend the type 1s whether they ugly or good-looking, rich or poor. Because those type 2 people are draining.

Firstly let me say I wouldn't consider myself attractive, but I also wouldn't say I'm unattractive.

Now that that's out of the way. I feel ofcourse this makes a difference, however small the difference is.

Yes money is very important (this is a business), Respect and hygiene are very important. But delude yourself all you want, looks are too.
I've seen it in life, I've seen it in the workplace.
Yes you'll get far with respect, kindness, sweetness, good sense of Humour, confidence, cleanliness and riches. But damn if your looks are good too ontop of that!?? I would think that's obvious.

Yes attraction is different for different women, and I suppose this is referring to a general consensus of "good looking".

But even if you just use the word "attraction". Say she's very attracted to fat guys and not fit guys. She'll likely find it more pleasant to be with a fat guy than a fit guy (if they're both clean,kind sweet rich etc ofcourse). Or if her thing is one eyed guys. If that's her big turn on. Then yes she'll find that more pleasant.
And when you find something more pleasant than others you're more likely to change a few rules for that.

Ofcourse there's factors like personality etc but since the post was on looks I'm
Only responding to that.