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Posted: 2017-06-22 09:35:32

On 2017-06-22 08:38:04 Johannesjacobs said:
Not your Zoo not your monkeys!



Ditto.. exactly my thoughts
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Posted: 2017-06-22 09:42:10
Edited: 2017-06-22 09:43:11

On 2017-06-22 09:06:24 raul28 said: Would it be harsh or otherwise if I ask the lady to stop telling about whatever the hubby is doing?

Why isn't she telling all this to her female friend

Actually I think you should to her to stop telling you about your cuzzie. Tell she must work it out with him or outright divorce him.

Is the cuzzie's wife hot? If she is, and your cuzzie is obviously bored of pomping her, why don't you make a move on her. Sounds like an easy fuck buddy scenario for you.





I have a very strong relationship with my cousin and doing such to him ain't on at all and that's the worst betrayal ever.

As much as she's hot at some point i thought about doing it but nothing stays as a secret forever and if my cousin finds out its gona something or perhaps I'm coward.
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Posted: 2017-06-22 09:45:51

Looking at your posts I think you want to shag your cousins wife. You're looking for approval. Bud you must do what you think is right.
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Posted: 2017-06-22 09:47:49

MrJ786] On 2017-06-22 08:38:04 Johannesjacobs said: Not your Zoo not your monkeys!

Ditto.. exactly my thoughts



Guys I'm not saying I'm interfering in their business. As much as I don't wana be involved the lady keeps on telling me about what the hubby is doing and she doesn't know that I know she's doing the very same shit too.


All I'm asking for here is how do I let her know that I may really not interested in knowing what's happening
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Posted: 2017-06-22 09:50:08
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The best advice I was given when the same happened to me and I was the one complaining...

"Look, I love you and I love [the other party]. This isn't about loyalty to either of you but to both. I cannot handle one of two people I love telling me how bad the other is. Here's what I want, no what I demand!"

"Its your marriage to do with as you see fit, if you are unhappy then do something about it, speak to [the other party], see a shrink, proactively ignore the situation entirely or choose some other course of action, but do something and stick to it."

"Please do not speak to me any more about [the other party] regarding this particular point again. I am your friend and [the other party] friend. But it is not possible for me to do anything about this. It's not that I am unsympathetic; it's just that it is impossible for me to help in any way with something that is so intensely personal to the two of you.

"I am here for you both but I cannot take sides with two people that mean so much to me. It puts me in a position where I have to be disloyal to one or both of the most important people in my life that I owe total loyalty and love to."

"Sort it out, it's not you and not [the other party] it's both of you, remember you are both one."

The provider of this advice, a beast of a guy, and I remain friends to this day. If Mrs Le Roux and I have one of our periodic crockery throwing sessions he just shakes his head, helps sweep up, calls us both nuts and we all move on.
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Posted: 2017-06-22 09:54:36

Orpheus] Looking at your posts I think you want to shag your cousins wife. You're looking for approval. Bud you must do what you think is right.

Not at all buddy, I think if I really wanted to do it I would've done a long time ago even before I reliazed that she's cheating on him..

The reason why I come forward now is because she's also cheating and pretend as if nothing is wrong on her side.

I was listening to her back then because I was thinking that it's too much for her, she wants to offload lemme just give her an ear
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Posted: 2017-06-22 10:16:48

Dude, playing the church mouse messenger ain't gonna help anybody in this situation. Take le Roux's advice and call them both to order, whether they like it or not! Also give them time and their own space to sort it out. Most of the time our family ties tend to cloud our judgment in making the correct long term decisions, which often involves short term pain and drama.
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Posted: 2017-06-22 10:39:00

I think she wants a revenge by destroying your close good relationship you have with her husband!

Why she's not telling her close female friend??

Imagine what would happen if he could find out you knew about her cheatings all along!

I also think she wants to tempt you into sleeping with her! All in the name to badly hurt her husband feelings for cheating to her!

Just stay far away, avoid her, all this will come to bite you back...you will end being the wrong one definitely!!!
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Posted: 2017-06-22 11:07:20

I suspect she deliberately wanted you to find out about her cheating...she knew you willnt easy for u tell her husband.

She just wants you to play u along with her games! She's using you! To get revenge I think.
Best way to solve this is to take le roux advice I think
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Posted: 2017-06-22 19:19:15

@le Roux thank very much sir.

I've taken your advice and implemented it immediately.

And the rest of those who contributed thank you guys.

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