Application accepted Buks ... welcome !!!

Honourable member,you need to report to my office,let's sort that 5% out!!

The irony is that most are on this very platform, and some are already living this life style in the quest to fulfill their 5%. Its not always about the sex.

Mr Chairman -- I believe that Honorable Member has also applied...

Think we should welcome him to the SSS.

@Honorable Member -- not an easy question to answer. The 95% will be at risk for the 5%. That is the bottom line and a decision you should take.

Some good advice on this thread.

On 2017-08-10 06:27:58 Honorable Member said:


Nadia - I always appreciate your comments on the forum.
Honest question - How happy do you think you could be without sex?

If the sex part amounted to 5%.... prob very happy. I have great sex with myself.
Dr Phil once said that if everything else in a relationship works well and the sex doesn't then the dysfunctional sex part is no big deal. But if there are relationship probs and the sex is dysfunctional then its a BIG deal. So I suppose what I'm implying is maybe that 5% of dissatisfaction is actually greater than 5%. Not sayung this IS the case. Its just how it appears to me.

@Sibyl - I think you've articulated circumstances perfectly. My wife has never been experimental and we've always had differing libidos.

I do value her friendship and companionship and I feel that any attempt to pressurise her - be it through romancing, manipulation or discussions / counseling - will have a negative impact on this.

I don't feel agree with her or rejected by her.

Thanks for all of your advice. It is good to be able to express some of this stuff here.

Honorable Member your application was successfully accepted .. welcome to the popular SSS !!!

It's not 5%. 5% is she doesn't close the toothpaste or hang her wet towel up properly. Intimacy is a major part of a relationship.

I'm in your boat but nowhere near as long. My wife and I haven't kissed in years, and sex is not anywhere on her list of priorities, even after counciling. I've decided that if she doesn't care about my needs yet she costs me a fortune, then I might as well cut back on the money I invest in her with no return and give it to these hard working girls who will meet "my 20%" needs.

On 2017-08-10 14:11:59 Need4Passion said:
Intimacy is a major part of a relationship.

I might as well cut back on the money I invest in her with no return and give it to these hard working girls who will meet "my 20%" needs.

Thank you for thinking that we deserve your money, you really deserve that passionate experience ...... Lol