On 2017-10-31 14:41:38 Mika Bbw said:
Esa wg update there pics every two months so how can one say she does not look like her pics

Eish some of these profile pictures can really be very misleading....i am not going to call people out but trust me things in reality are not always as they seem photographically ;-)

I walked out on ladies four times. The location was an absoloute a pig stye, i smelt dagga, the lady was covered in a skin rash of sorts, and clearly anatomically my junk was not going to work....

I sincerely appreciate the honesty of the ladies here.

All I was saying is that I'm that guy that really looks at the pictures, like really looks at them and observes, I check nails, hands, feet alles! I go through ALL the photo sets to make sure there's nothing I'm missing.

Like most people have said, rather you both be happy instead of having to endure a whole hour with that thing in the back of your head.

I don't think this is just about getting a nut and leaving, that's a very expensive nut.

The experience is what invites most punters I would assume, you want to enjoy the lady and you want the lady to enjoy you.

Just like the lady is most welcome to kick you out if she's unhappy, why do I have to pay for MY unhappiness?

On 2017-10-31 14:49:05 Mia Bbw said:
I would rather a client be up front and leave. Don't tell me you left the cash in the car and run like I am going to charge cancellation fee, I would never.

If you uncomfortable please leave as it will turn the booking into a uncomfortable awkward state of affairs.

I have had two clients in a year that left.


One left money in the car and other just had a call from work. Lol


Rather be honest

I totally agree. Don't underestimate my intelligence. I had 1 not so long ago. One common factor with those who felt I wasn't what they wanted is that they actually did me a favor by leaving of their own accord was that they saved me having to turn them down because I didn't feel comfortable with them either.

Many years ago I had a kak experience with a WG who advertised on ESA. Round abouts 2008ish when I first joined. Can't remember her name. Pitched up the evening and she was fucked up drunk.
In the room she refused to get naked. Trying to reason for 10min didn't work. She started to accuse me of being a policeman. Eventually I give up and put my clothes back on and told her I'm leaving. She insisted on full payment which was R500 at the time. I put two R100 notes down and tell her there's your money. She was too fucked up drunk to realise I didn't give the full amount and opened the door and gate which allowed me to get the hell away.

I was a regular at a particular venue, one of those where the phone is answered by the madam. Got to know her and sometimes I would call asking who's available to decide on a punt and the one time she tells me she gots a new girl and "guarantees" that I will like her. I book make my way over. Lo and behold, upon arrival Im presented with the same lady from the delusional drunk skank episode above!
I look at the Madam and say no Thank You and simply turned around and left!

I personally just pay the R 200 cancellation fee and find some one else ,most cancellation fees for me come from booking off the other sites where profiles especially on the red site are so outdated ,

I usually go with cancellation if the SP doesn't look like the pics. I will most probably not get a boner if I tried to force the punt.

My last cancellation wasn't received well. Such animosity, one could swear the sister doesn't take kindly to rejection.

On 2017-11-01 17:15:07 roshta said:


My last cancellation wasn't received well. Such animosity, one could swear the sister doesn't take kindly to rejection.

Lol..

The only time it happened to me was when I advertised on a different site and they made my pics too light..
The gentleman was kind enough to admit that I was not what he was looking for & that he is into yellow boned ladies.

I did not ask for cancellation but he insisted on paying my half hour rate & left..Soon as that ad expired,I never bothered to renew it.

I just had a awful experience. A guy phones to booked me, I had just got out the bath. I asked for 20 minutes he didn't even wait he came straight over,compliments me on how I look amd walks into my room. He then asks me do we have a card machine and he knows that I work from a private house
I sent him to go draw cash as we don't have a card machine and any client pays Cash upfront. He left even offering me something to drink. 20 minutes later I call him asking if he's still coming, yes yes he says because I told him as well that I have a client that would like to see me, his reply no no no he's coming 20 minutes later I message him I typed to him I will have to report him to ESA on the ladies forum. He phones me in a tirade he threatens to have me banned from ESA because he apparently knows Johan at the HA and he he will call because he apparently says he was not happy with what he saw and bear in mind for what he wanted he was paying less than what I ask because he wanted to try talk me completely down for much less than what I ask for half an hour service. Already with that call I Should Have Known that je would be trouble. idiot.

On 2017-10-31 10:35:15 Job said:
Simple question, what happens when you get to the SP's venue and you're all of a sudden turned off because you're not happy with what has been presented to you?

This is similar to you receiving a product and you're not satisfied, so you turn it back right.

I've had the experience where they demand money from me because I'm not happy with what's presented, it's usually a case of looks good on photos but in real life? BLEH!

Happened to me on sat went to the lady won't mention the area as you will pick it up
Paid her a 100 for pulling into the drive way told her I don't feel comfortable then pulled out.

On 2017-11-01 17:46:51 Blu said:
I just had a awful experience. A guy phones to booked me, I had just got out the bath. I asked for 20 minutes he didn't even wait he came straight over,compliments me on how I look amd walks into my room. He then asks me do we have a card machine and he knows that I work from a private house
I sent him to go draw cash as we don't have a card machine and any client pays Cash upfront. He left even offering me something to drink. 20 minutes later I call him asking if he's still coming, yes yes he says because I told him as well that I have a client that would like to see me, his reply no no no he's coming 20 minutes later I message him I typed to him I will have to report him to ESA on the ladies forum. He phones me in a tirade he threatens to have me banned from ESA because he apparently knows Johan at the HA and he he will call because he apparently says he was not happy with what he saw and bear in mind for what he wanted he was paying less than what I ask because he wanted to try talk me completely down for much less than what I ask for half an hour service. Already with that call I Should Have Known that je would be trouble. idiot.

He was taking chances that one. Giving you hope that he was coming back & talk sh*t when you call him back. He is the one that deserves black listing.